GETTING MAD AT A THREAD ON EDENFANTASYS WHERE PEOPLE ARE DISCUSSING WHETHER OR NOT THEY'D STAY WITH SOMEONE IF THEY HAD "GENDER CHANGING SURGERY"
DEAR GOD. GET A CLUE PEOPLE. Your partner’s gender doesn’t change the minute they have surgery, it probably changed long long long before that. People are saying things like “if I really liked them I could ignore it.” WHO WOULD WANT THAT. WHO IN THEIR RIGHT MIND WOULD SERIOUSLY WANT TO DATE SOMEONE WHO WAS GOING TO IGNORE A PART OF THEIR IDENTITY.
Like, what if I took a part of Lina’s identity that was really important and just decided I was going to ignore it because I like her. CAN YOU IMAGINE. OH MY GOD. OR IF SHE DID THAT TO ME? OH MY GOD.
“JESS, YOU’RE A NERD BUT I LIKE YOU SO MUCH I’LL JUST IGNORE THAT” I DON’T THINK SO YOU WILL EMBRACE MY NERDINESS AND LOVE ME EVEN MORE FOR IT.