ed:bean

Dear self,
Having Lenny help Lobo get ready (which is really just a series of re-direction sentences), and hold Bean so she’s not doing a header off the changing table while you returned to the bathroom because you have food poisoning during this particular morning routine is NOT the same as making him a parentified child or making him parent his siblings. He likes his siblings, he likes helping, he’s a good person. It’s not the same. He knows you’re the parent and you’re in charge and he’s having ALL THE SCREEN TIME (and probably junk food) today because you let him be a kid. Bonus, you did not barf on any of the children thanks in part to his help.

Give yourself a break. You thanked him profusely already.

Also consider taking the afternoon off.
Love,
Me

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one of my fave parts of this scene is sonja and emma talking (and who knows how long they’ve been talking because the scene starts and they’re already talking) and isak and even can’t be bothered to say anything, but then isak finds out that sonja was born in 97 and he makes a connection between what was just said and even and he raises his hand like “hm yes hello you just said something and it made me think of even and i would like to know more please”