someone: any plans for the night
me: um yeah gotta few things to do
someone: really, what?
me, internally: *hate body* *scroll through thinspo* *workout* *body check* *hate body* *vow never to eat again* *scroll through thinspo* *get8 hrs of sleep bcuz metabolism*
me: oh just cleaning
Try to find someone with a sense of humor. That’s an important thing to have because when you get into an argument, one of the best ways to diffuse it is to be funny. You don’t want to hide away from a point, because some points are serious, but you’d rather have a discussion that was a discussion, rather than an argument.