eastberlin asked:

When I was 13 I was still kinda grossed out by kissing on TV- I had crushes but they weren't sexual. The first time I remember having actual honest to god sexual feelings/thoughts, I was 15 or 16, and even then I wasn't all that interested in sex. It wasn't til I was around 21 or so that my sex drive actually kicked in. It really freaks me out that kids think that's not normal, and I'm really glad that I wasn't exposed to that when I was younger because I know it would've messed me up.

My story is kind of similar tbh. i would never fantasize about being my favorite guy on tv’s lover, but his sister, friend, cousin, never lover. i didn’t start calling myself a lesbian till i was 26, it took me a long time. That shit would have messed me up too.