okay, so the whole “minus alters” thing on my post confused me, ya gotta explain stuff for me. apparently not everyone likes using the word “alters”, which i didn’t know and that’s fine. but adding stuff like that comment without explanation, it’s gonna make me think the wrong thing and block you.
i thought they meant they don’t have any alters. sorry again for that, but i don’t always understand things. if you’re gonna say “why didn’t you ask them?” i dunno…..i panicked i guess, a lot of times when i try to confront someone nicely, i usually get screamed at and get told off which would remind me of the abuse i went through. i’m not trying to use it as an excuse, i just had to do what made me feel safe when i panicked