don’t use gay, it’s a derogatory term that’s been used against us for years and still happens today!!!
you can reclaim it for yourself, but there is no gay community because it’s a fucking slur, not an umbrella term.
This drunk girl held my hand and told me she loved me and my hair tonight while I walked her through the credit card machine at the bar
I had told her I rlly liked her makeup and she started tearing up and asked me to marry her