dressing the same

anonymous asked:

So I'm gay af but I'm also super femme. I understand that being femme is also a privilege bc I'm "straight passing" but it's been so so frustrating trying to justify my sexuality when people don't believe me fully or at all when I say I'm gay. bc I don't "look gay" and I've gotten the "you're too pretty to be gay." which is such bullshit. but I just wish people would believe me? I feel like I'm in a constant state of coming out. Also fuck that last anon/hater, your relationship is cute af!!!

heteronormative society trying to push boxes (honestly, cages) onto queer people and queer relationships is why shit like this is a thing.

me and my girl dress masculine at the same time? we can’t be dating. we’re bros on the prowl.

One of us dresses more masc than the other? Called “the man”, is given the check, has to all of a sudden play a role? act a certain way. behave a certain way. have certain mannerisms.

her and I dress femme? just gals being pals. all we do is have pillowfights and giggle and never fart.

Somewhere in between all of this? what’s goin on heerreeeee. facial glitch. confusion ensues.

Mind you, I’m never taken seriously as a Bisexual. I dress Masc? lol lying. I dress Femme? lol lying. Even when I typically tread in the fluid gender expression andro area I’m somehow trying to deceive people. Even my gf has mentioned pressure trying to behave a certain way being Lesbian. And honestly, the only thing to actually blame is the society that forced us to make a community in the first place. It’s no one’s fault but that. This isn’t a inter-community problem, but because we’ve allowed ourselves to be influenced by people who aren’t queer, it has become an inter-community problem.

but this is Str8 Society talking. I think we as a community need to start rejecting these pressuring cookie cutter straight goggles that have been pushed onto us and break through. Realizing there is no wrong way to look/act/be LGBT+

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In a surprising plot twist Syaoran has located Kingdom Hearts. 

It was in a library all along. 

bloodrayne-44  asked:

How would Death react to having two twin daughters? :D

This is the kind of situation where Soul Split comes in very handy. In the twins’ early years, he needs it to keep them both reined in so as not to wander too far away from him. The poor horseman recalls with a shudder, the time he had to look after his sister and her twin brother, Strife. That was before he had the help of Soul Split. 

Despite what other couples seem to do, Death is loathe to dress the twins in the same outfits. He really struggles to tell them apart without the help of matching clothes. He’s constantly calling them by the other’s name and one of them jokes about wearing sticky labels on their heads with their names written on. Death laughs at the joke, but later that night he lies awake pondering the validity of that suggestion. 

He’s exceptionally good at treating them as two separate people. Death doesn’t fall into the trap of expecting them both to behave the same way just because they’re twins. He encourages each of their different hobbies and opinions and acknowledges that they each have vastly diverse tastes. The old horseman couldn’t be prouder. 

My partner and I are about to go out for our 6 year anniversary dinner.

I’m wearing the same dress I wore on our first date and the necklace he gave me. I’m not usually one who feels all girly and squee about this kinda thing. But I just love this man so much.

Sasako…wearing glasses…

Oh, my…

I really am a lazy ass. I can’t believe I started this like on Friday. I am ashamed of myself. Now, maybe the fact that I only worked on this while watching Allesia’s stream may have something to do with my slowness. 

I got the idea for this on the stream. We know that in Alessia’s “behind the scenes” AU, Sans and Alphys are not married, tho they still have a cute little baby. Anyway, I thought that Alphys would look really good in a wedding dress, so I drew her. This is TimeTale’s Alphys by @allesiathehedge but really it could be any Alphys you want.

Dunno if this really looks like a Wedding Dress, I mean, I got the idea for the dress from Leannkan and Drawingwithgreen (i really hope that this is how it was spelled). I don’t know if they have a tumblr so I can’t tag them.. I didn’t want to do the traditional white dress, but maybe i should have.

Y’know, I have the impression that this dress could be worn even if you aren’t a bride. Really, If it was black in place of white I would wear this.


Edit: I knew it. This really is @leannkan ‘s blog. 

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Students fight back after school issues 21-page promo dress code

  • At Boylan Catholic High School in Illinois, students were presented with a 21-slide presentation that outlined what was and wasn’t acceptable for boys and girls to wear at prom.
  • To compare, 15 slides of this 21-slide presentation are focused on what the young women can and cannot wear.
  • Two slides are dedicated to the young men, who are offered just one sentence and four pictures to show what would be appropriate.
  • The school is being accused of body shaming with this line: "Some girls may wear the same dress, but due to body types, one dress may be acceptable while the other is not.“
  • There is already talk on Twitter of having a prom outside of Boylan this year. Read more (3/9/17 12:00 PM)
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