Fat and beauty can coexist

When you tell a girl “you’re not fat, you’re pretty,” you are not helping. Don’t deny her fat; embrace it. Yes, she’s fat, AND she’s pretty. She will be happier hearing “yeah, but you’re beautiful and I wouldn’t change a thing,” than have you blatantly lie about a simple fact. “Fat” shouldn’t be a put down; it is a simple adjective. Yeah, she’s fat, but that doesn’t mean she can’t be beautiful.