It’s a process of de-humanization and psychic murder. Because what you’re doing is that you are denying the existence of the relationships that other human beings have with each other.
You’re picking and choosing of the people some one has loved, which one you will value. Which love of theirs you will value, which relationship you will value. And which one you will cast aside and discard.
It is psychic murder and it’s abuse. It’s about ignoring the ability for somebody to love in the way that they love.
Dr. Herukhuti on bi erasure during the HuffingtonLive chat on “What Is It With Bisexuality?”