dont need anyone that doesnt need me

You need to understand that I’ll never be the girl that begs you to stay. If you decide to walk out of my life, I might be sad for a little while but know that I’ll never chase you. I’ll just let you go.
—  Midnight thoughts (I may love you, but i’ll never need you)

look i’m no expert but i think the lgbt+ community needs to stick together and stop it with whatever gatekeeping bs is going on. there’s always going to be some intracommunity fights and ~*discourse*~, sure, but recent events are a horrifying reminder that nobody wants to be lgbt+ just for fun. please stop it with the ‘you need to be thiiis gay to ride’ mentality. there is no official community registration or badge or stamp. if you’re young and confused and need a place to belong, you do. if you’re aro and/or ace and feel excluded everywhere, you shouldn’t be. if you’re intersex or if your gender is being weird, you’re not alone. as for allies, here’s a reminder they used to be (and may still be) human shields, and that many allies might actually be closeted lgbt, or questioning, and it’s a safe way for them to access the community. ally is a title that is given, not taken, and i’ve seen some bad self-proclaimed allies around, but there’s no need to make the community unsafe for anyone.

we can’t afford to fall apart. we need to take care of each other because we’re all hurting in some way. there’s a quote from the time of the norwegian tragedy five years ago that goes ‘if one man can show this much hate, imagine how much love we can show together’

There’s nothing wrong with feeling good about yourself. There is nothing wrong with admitting you are good at something or being proud of your good qualities. That is called having confidence in yourself. I encourage that. What makes you a dickhead is thinking you are better or more worthy than other people because you are good at something. At that point, you’re no longer the “really smart boy” or the ”really great musician”. You’re just arrogant. People seem to forget that all humans are equal regardless of wealth, ability, talent, or intelligence, or appearance. Why? Because we are all human, and all humans are worthy of life. Do not let other make you feel less, and make sure treat others as equals. Let you’re good qualities build you up rather than bringing others down.

Ok time to speak things clear

When i gave permission in the past to use my art in videos i never said you have the right to monetize it (aka gain money with my art)

So

Im going to report you if i see that you are making money with my art. I dont care if i gave you permission before, it was never meant to be monetized without my knowledge. The only one who was permission is @wintermoth.

I dont care how much you beg im not going to back up

And one last thing

From this very moment. If you ever asked me to ’ make videos with your art’ that generally and i gave you permission, well now you dont have it. Im sorry but im tired of reposters.

If you are one of the people who asked me then you will need to ask again and FOR ESPECIFIC POSTS. IM NOT ALLOWING TO USE MY ART GENERAL YOU WILL NEED TO ASK FOR EVERY SINGLE PIECE.

Im sorry if this annoys the ones that already had my permission but blame it to the people that doesnt respect.

And mind you, if this even continue like this im not going to allow anyone anymore

Have a nice day.

If anyone is interested in becoming a better Fire Emblem player I would encourage them to check out Mekkkah’s youtube channel (found here.)

Mekkkah is a fairly well-known user on the Fire Emblem subreddit thanks to him coming up with the format they use to make tier lists as well as for generally being very good at the game, but I have never seen anyone talk about him or his videos on Tumblr and with only 3.3k subscribers at the time of this writing I think theres a good chance people dont know about him, so I thought it would be worthwhile to share.

His most famous videos are his Fire Emblem Pitfalls videos where he covers a lot of beginners’ traps and common “mistakes” people make.  I put mistakes in quotes there because of course FE is a single-player game, there’s no right or wrong way to play barring things that give you a Game Over, but they are things people do that they think are helpful but are actually making the game harder for themselves. 

These videos are very well done and informative but I would also recommend his Let’s Play of the FE romhack “Void’s Blitzarre Adventure.” He gives constant commentary on why he is making all the moves he makes, why he picks a certain tile to move a unit to, what stats he is looking at and why, why he has them using a certain weapon over another, things like that, but also when he makes mistakes he talks about why it was a mistake and how he could have done it better.  It’s a Let’s Play technically but it feels more like an informative lesson on how to play FE carefully (aka all the different things you need to remember to pay attention to.) I recommend this particularly series over any of his others mainly because its based on a romhack with no story so you dont need to worry about spoilers for any FE you havent played; anyone can watch it.

He doesnt have the highest quality mic and his commentary is fairly dry (though he isnt completely without a sense of humor) but his videos are extremely informative and useful to any FE player looking to improve.  I’ve been playing Fire Emblem for 15 years and I still feel like his videos help me be a more careful FE player, and if that sounds like something youre interested in I think they would help you too.

mess with birdo you get hurto

Holllllaaa its  Koko. Im a kiddo who lives in Texas and i dont like it too much bc its getting too hot. Im all for the aesthetic. (AND MEMES)

a lil peep of me is that i love love love music some of my fave artists are lil peep (hah see what i did there), blackbear, roy woods, lana, and the weekend. I’m a person with a wide variety of taste one day i can be listening to metallica then the next i can listen to lil uzi vert. i mean if its music I’m all for it.

I also love love love art. i rlly am hoping that i get into this art school. i love to draw, paint, and do all those cool tumblr notes and journals. i play da piano!!! I also love photography, and night flash pictures that make me look demonic.

i love to skate, its like the only thing that can calm me bc who doesnt like zooming in the wind. I’m all for 90’s fashion and streetwear its honestly so pleasing to the eyes. 

I’m looking or another kiddo that wants to talk. i dont have any expectations bc I’m rlly open minded. ooh id also love a penpal bc i love writing letters and i got bunchies of stationary that i need to use. but overall the idea of sending pieces of your soul in a envelope to someone is always pretty neat. if you ever need anyone to talk to I’m here i promise you i will reply faster than light speed. that is only if I’m not sleeping or at school (two things that i dont like too much) I’m p good with advice also if you ever need help with stuff ill be there. oh I’m also a gemini if you’re curious. 

tumblr: cokestrbl
snapchat: kokoughhhhh
instagram: kokojasc
email: kokojc63@gmail.com

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I am spreading this with the hopes that whoever in their right mind gets that doing this kind of stuff to Dom or anyone in the cast is just plain disrespectful AND ALSO CAN HURT OR ANNOY FANS AND THE ACTORS…..

I DONT GET THE POINT OF TAKING HIM OUT OF THE PICTURE IN ANYSENSE HE AND THE GUYS DESERVED TO BE A PART OF THE ISSUE AS ‘SEXIEST YOUNG ADULT IDOLS’
ALL DOM DOES IS WORK HARD TO STAY IN SHAPE FOR THE SHOW AND FANS, HE KIND AND FUNNY WITH THE CAST, NOW IT SEEMS LIKE HE IS HIDING AWAY FROM SOCIAL MEDIA OUT OF NOT WANTING SO MUCH NEGATIVITY THAT HE IS GETTING FROM FANS, I DONT WANT OT FIGHT WITH ANYONE JUST WANT TO SPREAD THAT DOMINIC SHOULD GET RESPECT AND KINDNESS WHETHER IF YOU DONT LIKE DOM AND JUST LIKE THE OTHERS THEN THATS FINE BUT TO BE SO NEGATIVE TO HIM ON TWITTER WITH SUCH THINGS LIKE PHOTSHOPPING HIM OUT OF SOMETHING HE DESERVED TO BE KNOWN FOR THEN WHOEVER YOU GUYS THINK YOU ARE SHOULD JUST LEAVE HIM ALONE.

IF THERE ARE REAL LOYAL RESPECTFUL FANS ON TWITTER AND TUMBLR WHO WANT TO SHOW THEIR APRECIATION TO DOM FR HIS WORK AND AS A HUMAN BEING MAYBE WE CN COME UP WITH A WEEKLY TWITTER THING FOR DOM LIKE FANS HAVE FOR KATHERINE WHO HAVE POSTED FRAYFRIDAY THINGS TO HER MAYBE DO SOMETHING LIKE THAT FOR DOM AND ON TUMBLR DO A DAILY/WEEK EVENT FOR HIM. IF ANYONE HAS ANY IDEAS OR SOMEONE IS WORKING ON LET ME KNOW VIA MESSAGE OR POST A COMMENT ON MY PAGE IN THE SHOUT BOX PLEASE DOM NEEDS ALL THE LOVE AND RESPECT HE CAN GET FROM HIS REAL TRUE FANS.

please reblog or like to spread the message let other DOM fans know if they dont already whoever hates doesnt have to like this or say shit, dont need any hate from those haters, rather spread the respect and love for a guy who really deserves it.

porfoct  asked:

Hey there!! I don't really know a lot about autism, so it would be super cool if you could share your reasons for headcanoning teru as autistic? I think it would be interesting to read about your views on it and people like me could learn a bit more about autism as well, if youre up for it!

okay so basically!! people describe autism as a lot of things but tbh i dont think anyone ever defines it in a way that makes sense. i personally like to think of autism as an amplified world. sights, sounds, touch, emotions, all of that is amplified with autism. its like the volume in ur brain is turned all the way up and that really affects how u develop over time because u wind up thinking and coping with that differently

everyone with autism is different! but there are basic symptoms of it that lots of autistic people share to some degree. mob has shown many of these symptoms in canon. very blatantly, in fact. i would go as far as to say hes autistic-coded. but so many people have written about this so i wont go into too much depth. 

teru, on the other hand, feels like he has a type of autism that i sort of resonate with a bit more! 

i like to think that teru’s special interest is film and movies. special interests are basically like this Thing that u get so fuckin obsessed with and u have to know everything about it and u only want to talk abt it and in a way special interests are Hell but i digress. teru would often mimic a lot of what he sees on tv, including the way that characters interract with each other. in fact, characters were probably his guidebook on that. hed mimic this to the point of him actually playing the role of “protagonist” (before mob came along at least) 

teru uses social scripts to a blatant degree. but hes good at them. in fact, he even enjoys doing them! he loves being the center of attention so much that he often feels as though hes an actor on a stage. it isnt his real self, because truthfully, teru isnt that great at social interaction without putting on a mask and acting like his Character™ that hes developed in his head.

but terus autism slips through the cracks. for example, when reigen offered to pay everyone for their meal in that one iconic omake, teru didnt really have any respect for that. but reigen talked himself up, so teru probably just thought “if he doesnt want to pay why should i bother?” teru does kinda need people to be a bit specific about their needs and honest because reading those social cues is a bit difficult for him. he probably didnt even know that was rude. teru actually does a LOT of things he doesnt know are rude, because nobody is being explicit abt it. 

anyway thats all i got for now, but this is just a few things that show up in canon that lead me to hc him as autistic! of course, u dont really need any evidence to hc anyone as autistic. but! teru has a lot of evidence there if u ask me! 

Ok, I hate to even be typing this but I need a break from the McAvoy fandom. I do not know where certain accounts ((if your inclined look them up yourself)) all came from or how you were raised but the lack of respect for James privacy has reached a point that frankly, I don’t wanna be associated with y’all for a while. Some of these accounts have ruined being a fan of him by your actions and lack of respect. Here’s some prime examples from the last month or so.

First of all, back about a month or so ago, James on his GIRLFRIENDS post ((whom isn’t famous and the fact a lot of you follow her, creepy? but I digress)) wrote “I love you”, which YAY THATS SO CUTE. but NO, a lot of these “fans” took it upon themselves to fight on her post, call her horrendous names, and honestly? bringing up his ex on his girlfriends post? like, what the fuck??? These accounts do not respect him if they do not respect his choices. He’s moved on, and honestly they should too if they can’t handle it. I bet, this is the reason she hasn’t updated since that post. These accounts have ruined a non famous persons social media experience, so congrats.

Second, there’s a difference between a fan photo, a creepshot and an event photo. This photo today a few accounts have circulated of him and lisa ((Creepshot cause they are eating and he looks visibly annoyed)) is crossing a HUGE LINE. i don’t know where this lack of respect comes from, but I’ve had it. And to really put the icing on the fucking cake, quite a few accounts had to go and REPOST SAID CREEPSHOT AND TAG JAMES AND LISA IN IT!! Leave them the FUCK ALONE! I don’t care if accounts or “fans” post it to twitter, tumblr whatever, JUST DO NOT POST IT ON SOCIAL MEDIA THEY BOTH USE AND CHECK ON. He is A HUMAN BEING WITH FUCKING FEELINGS AND DESERVES RESPECT.

Third, on the topic of respect, fan accounts: DO NOT NEED TO TAG HIM IN YOUR SEXUAL FANTASTIES ON INSTAGRAM OR SHIPPING PICS. He checks his photos he’s tagged in, how do I know? Cause he liked my selfie once, BUT THAT DOESNT MEAN HE DOESNT SEE ALL FANS FUCKING GROSS ASS SHIPPING SHIT, which if you remember the last Graham Norton interview, you could see he’s starting to get visibly uncomfortable with the “fan art” PLEASE JUST need to keep that shit to on the downlow , or post it elsewhere, not on instagram where he can see. He’s a human being and honestly? Everyone needs to remember that, cause I think you forget.

Fourth ((feel free to add if anyone else feels this way)) but, i’ve seen fans do this and if a fan feels the need to write “choke me daddy” or “i wanna bang you” or whatever, fine, we can all agree we find him attractive, go spew that word bile on twitter, to friends , tumblr, I DONT CARE JUST NOT ON HIS POSTS. I am sure he reads comments while looking for his friends comments and DOESNT NEED TO SEE THAT FUCKING SHIT ((frankly neither do i so stop it)). I bet it’s one of the reasons he’s also stopped updating as frequently because plenty of users have grossed him out.

Basically, I’m taking a hiatus from being apart of the fandom because I’m tired of the way quite a few of these accounts have become, I do not know when or how this came to be but the lack of respect for him and his personal boundaries is appalling and no, this doesn’t mean i’m no longer a fan, i’m still a huge fan of his, I’m just fucking done with the way a fair amount of people disrespect him. Until these accounts realize or clean up their act, I’m not gonna really be able in good conscience be okay with interacting about james with most of these accounts . I have had it. I really truly have.

End Rant.

anonymous asked:

I 100% agree with khorra from kce on the demi thing but im too shy to say it (cause acecoursers on both sides can be. Bad) Asexuality is its own sexuality, but all the aspec identities arent. Theyre modifiers. A little unnecessary but if you think you need em go for it ig. I mean, i consider myself demipanro but when people ask i usually just say pan or aro because i dont want to have to explain it over and over and having 20 identity labels feels kinda cringey imo-

yeah like, i dont feel like its something that really needs to be told to everyone. i had friends who would tell me they were demi and i would just shrug and say “…okay, and?” because it doesnt matter. didnt tell me anything. i didnt care. (cue the “well youre just a shit friend then”)

but yeah. modifiers are more for yourself rather than for anyone else and dont really need as much recognition as the “Who you are or are not attracted to” sexualities.

-Darastrix

Forever alone

it feels shitty because im always alone. 4 yrs in college and i made 4.5 friends wtf. i dont like my classmates because theyre all friends and im not welcomed. anywhere. no one doesnt even care to start a conversation with me. i desperately need friends but i dont know how to approach people and open up anymore. im so used to being alone that im starting to think maybe im born to be alone. just bottle up everything because i cant trust anyone. people are only nice to you when they need something. can i have true friends already whatthefuck because if youre reading this you might want to introduce yourself. one person is enough

anonymous asked:

There is nothing more embarrassing than being an H stan on this hell site. I had to delete like 95% of the people I used to follow this year. I will never understand the need to put anyone down to lift someone else up, it’s gross and like I feel like I should apologize on their behalf, lol.

you really dont need to apologize for them, but i appreciate you being an H stan and recognizing the blatant grossness towards niall (and others im sure, idk) 

and on that note, i honestly dont know what bothers me more; the stans who act that way towards niall, or niall stans who act like it doesnt happen and ignore it. it is what it is tho i guess and we just gotta keep on supporting our boy and not worry about it :) 

hi i’m afraid i don’t think an illaks update is on the cards tonight my dudes :( i’ve been really struggling with writer’s block and the storyline & where i wanna take it and i wanna make the next chapter as good as possible instead of rushing it for the purpose of having it up on time. the next chapter should be up possibly sometime this weekend if i have the time but i’ll let y'all know. hope this is okay xx

anonymous asked:

I've been a writer for my whole life, but I'm not too confident in my ability. I don't know if you have time and I feel kinda bad for asking, but if I were to send you an excerpt from my project of three years, would you tell me what you think?

Hello, dear anon~ ♥︎

As it says in my about page, I don’t read manuscripts— not because I’m evil, but because I get (now) about 10-15 messages everyday from people asking me to read their stuff. The worst ones are the people who just send me links. Like, I sure ain’t gonna click that link, it could be a virus for all I know :0

Now, since I dragged out all the way my queue, I think I should at least tell you something.

I used to cheat. Badly. People used to send me stuff, a couple years back when I didn’t know better— and I wouldn’t read it. I was working 60+ hours a week. I was nearly killing myself… but people online wanted to know if their stuff was good, and I wanted them to write. So I thought of a compromise.

I would lie to them. Make up a convincing piece of advice, and go on with my life. I would tell them I loved their piece, and that I really enjoyed their characters. Oh, especially that one bit with the protagonist, they were just very authentic there. And they would… keep writing. They would finish entire books. Eventually I read them, and gave feedback (giving the justification that I hadn’t been too hard on them the first time). And nobody was the wiser. It was a pretty shifty thing to do, I still feel bad about it.

Ultimately… my feedback was not what they were looking for, and what you’re looking for right now. You want me to tell you that your work is good. You want me to tell you that you should keep writing. Because if I told you it was worth fighting for, you would keep fighting?

Let’s play a game.

Let’s pretend I read your work.

And I didn’t like it. There’s promise, but you need to clean up more. Also less adverbs, they take the punch away from some of your lines. Additionally, I feel that things just happen too easily for the main protagonist. I was never worried for their safety. I think you should revise the climax to make it more intense. Oh, and could you give your antagonist a more believable goal? I mean, does he really only want the protagonist dead? Is there seriously nothing else in the world that makes this character happy? It’s just a kid. Who cares. The antagonist has SO many resources, why don’t they just go buy an island and enjoy life instead of worrying about that shitty kid who ruined their plans once?

There. That’s my feedback. What are you going to do now? Are you going to give up on your art, your passion, your writing? Just because pink-haired, queer-as-fuck, M. Kirin didn’t like your writing? Fuck that guy. I hate him. He’s pretentious as fuck and his hair isn’t actually pink. Fuck him. Who is that fucker to say your writing is not good? He’s just a fucking fucker— and you’re AWESOME. You’ve been writing for way longer than him. You’re going to keep writing, because the opinion of one ASSHOLE is not going to compromise your art. You’re going to write for yourself, and you’re going to be proud of it— because no other writer in the universe could have written that. No one. It may not be finished, and it may not be perfect, but its YOURS. You made it. You worked for it. You forged words and characters out of the depths of your imagination and created something that the world had never seen before. Who are FUCKERS like M. Kirin to tell you that you’re not great? YOU ARE GREAT. EVERY PAGE YOU WRITE MAKES YOU BETTER, FASTER, STRONGER. YOU ARE GREAT, AND NOBODY CAN TELL YOU OTHERWISE. NOT YOUR PARENTS, NOT YOUR SCHOOL COUNSELOR, AND CERTAINLY NOT THAT FUCKING-FUCKER M. KIRIN ASSHOLE.

You ARE great. Your writing may not be perfect, but you ARE a great writer— because you want to get better. You ARE great, and NOBODY can tell you otherwise.

((ps: okay sorry for yelling at you, i just really needed to get that point across. sorry about that. i didnt meant to offend you if i did. also that is not really how i give feedback, it was all done in favor of further expressing my point. what i want to get across is that you don’t need me to tell you that you’re a good writer, anon, you are a good writer— because you’re writing and you want to get better. that’s all it takes. take pride in what you make. it doesnt have to be perfect, but if you dont believe in your writing how can you expect anyone to believe in it? be strong. i know you can be strong. okay now here are some hugs and kisses again sorry for yelling at you :c))

anonymous asked:

A lot of the stuff I've seen on your blog makes sense. But the more I delve into that stuff on this website, the more it makes me hate myself because I'm white. I hate it because I get we're not the minority and I respect that, but I know there's something wrong with posts online that make me cry because I now hate my skin color. They make me feel bad for things I have never done. I don't really know what to do anymore. I love people of all colors. But I am still ashamed of myself.

my dude, all i preach is “minorities are people too and need to have as many rights as anyone else”, not “theyre better than everyone else and every white person should die”.

theres a balance that needs to be reached, not by takin away anything from you, but by giving other people something.

you dont have to hate yourself for who you are, just like being black doesnt make you a thug, being white doesnt make you an asshole.

you say you love people of all colours, and thats great. instead of hating yourself for being white, love yourself and everyone around you. be a good white ally and speak out against racism when you can. when theres poc already talking, let them talk, and listen. 

if youre feeling guilty for stuff you didnt do, then try to make the world a better place. talk, do things, go to protests, use the privilege you have to help people.

anonymous asked:

I don't understand why people feel the need to ship Elsa with anyone. I'm down for shipping anyone with anybody (thought dont even talk to me about Faberry/Achele....just no), but I feel like, because of the fact that Elsa locked herself away, she doesnt need some man to look after her. She can run the country on her own, supported by Anna and Kristoff and Olaf, and of course all the servents who had to have known about her powers. ELSA IS A STRONG INDEPENDANT WOMAN WHO DONT NEED NO MAN

HELL YEAH