dont listen to what people say

i always want friends but whenever im in a social situation im like…please get me out of here. i dont have the energy to put in the effort it takes into getting really close and comfortable with people. my family is not the best, ive just known them my whole life. i only completely let my guard down when im with them. theyre also the only people i believe genuinely love me. not in a negative way, i have a hard time caring about people. my emotions are very performative. i assume other people are like that as well

anonymous asked:

y those words eni

OKAY WELL i think jin is complex because hes the oldest right but hes so funny and his personality is rlly youthful and like hes closest to the youngest members but u can also tell all of them respect him and like they listen to his word also like i literally dont know if i can pinpoint his personality he seems so…like many different things that contradict each other its rlly cool gjfdks

yoongi is the moon because i love the moon so much also hes soft and an angel idc what anyone says i love my moon and hobi is the sun bc …i dont need to explain this one ghfjdsk

joon is understanding in like…the sense that when people talk to him i feel like he understands what they mean and like always tries to learn from that and stuff also idk why but i feel like he’s probably a go to when any of the guys are having trouble with anything

jimin is caring bc i dont rlly need to explain but theyve all said multiple times that jimin always like looks after them and he’s a sort of stress relief and always makes them feel better if theyre feeling down!

taehyung is entertaining of course and i dont just mean when hes hyper and like acting out which he tends to do i mean even in his quiet moments and how he interacts with all the other members its entertaining to watch he always makes u feel like u know what hes like or how hes like with others but also like u dont know the full story thats entertaining to me

and ofc jungkook is empathetic he cares so much for all of them and in multiple cases when hes seen them upset or crying hes started crying or has tried to cheer them up and comfort them. hes just…an angel :(

“we can still be friends no matter what your political beliefs”

listen i respect that but like

i do not wanna be friends for people who agree with the racist, sexist, homophobic, classist, egotistical, violent, xenophobic, orange man who gleefully boasts about sexually assaulting women, has made several racially charged remarks/tweets that are not backed up with any evidence, has been forced away from his twitter because he cannot control himself, and is not willing to accept the peaceful transfer of power bc he thinks that everything is rigged against him

like if your cool with ur friends voting for that instead of the clearly more qualified candidate who actually values basic human rights than be my guest but dont expect me to stick around for their nasty asses

borderline nightmares

- message delivered
- message read
- when ur fave “needs space”
- when ppl pick on u for being dramatic
- when u just gotta
- explaining splitting to nt friends
- anyone finding ur journal
- when ppl ask why youre “copying them”
- when ppl ask why you are “so clingy”
- when ppl say they will listen and stay and ur like o god i know it isn’t true but u still end up believing the same bullshit
- when u cant help but forgive people who have pushed u passed ur boundries and fucked u over
- when u cant feel
- when u can feel
- when u wanna disassociate but ppl wont stop talking to u
- when u cant stop disassociating
- disassociating during lectures/class/tests
- “tell me about yourself”
- “whats your sexuality?”
-“ha! every1 does that… ur normal dont WORRY”

no offense but as trans guys we need to realize how much easier we have it compared to trans women. im not saying that being a trans guy isnt hard, being transgender isnt easy for anyone, but trans men have so little visibility in media that society doesnt think of us. when they make trans people into a joke, theyre mocking trans women. when theyre using transphobic slurs, its against trans women. when laws come up like the transphobic bathroom bill, it misgenders & targets trans women.

as trans guys we have to LISTEN to what trans women say about us perpetuating transmisogyny. just because we are trans doesnt mean we cant be harmful to trans women. we dont get to argue with trans women about what we’re allowed to reclaim or not because that isnt up to us.

seeing the harassment navi experienced tonight has me extremely upset & all of the trans men sending her disgusting messages with a slur thats triggering to her proved her point exactly.
you literally forced a mentally ill trans girl into a panic attack & made her delete her account so you could talk over her & its disgusting lmao

cool reminder

that if you listen to kpop music because it makes you happy, keep listening to them. listen to the groups that help you function daily. listen to the groups that give you a reason to keep living. listen to the groups that give you ways to cope. dont let others tell you to stop because its “just kpop” or tell you that kpop shouldnt be a priority. if kpop is a huge interest of yours thats okay! if it makes you happy, keep listening to them and ignore what other people say!

i want to be in a band so bad it’s actually killing me. like just the thought of being in a van with my best friends, traveling across the country and making music that has the potential to inspire people to do the same thing could actually send me to the grave

how to punk: dont let straight, cis white males dictate what punk is cos punk is all about you like. everyone brands punk for themselves. if u say petting a cat is punk then it is punk gosh darn it. “oh ur not a real punk unless u listen to [list of like 200 punk bands w only straight cis white males]” no!!!!!! dont listen to ppl who tell u that!!!!!! u do punk the way u want to do punk!!!!! ur punk af my friend dont let other people drive your car

You don’t need to know everything about a band to be a fan of a band. You also don’t have to own all of their albums or merch. You don’t have to listen to or like every song and album that they’ve ever made. Just support and love what they do. Don’t attack people for not knowing all about them, owning all the merch that you do, or even not going to as many concerts as you. It’s ridiculous and childish. At least they enjoy the music. Don’t make them feel bad for not going above and beyond.

to the anon that just tried to convince me that trump isnt a piece of human garbage: haha good luck i hate the man and i will never respect him, im not changing my views on him. nothing you tell me will convince me otherwise.

you cant sit there and tell me this man isnt sexist after there was raw footage of him bragging about his ability to commit sexual assault and get away with it. you cant tell me he isnt racist or homophobic after all the garbage he spewed on national television all the while bragging about never reading teleprompters, after half of this country congratulated him for “saying whats on everyones mind”. dont you dare try to tell me hillary lost because she’s “corrupt”. dont tell me he didnt win due to racism while i sit here listening to my best friend tell me shes never leaving her house without her husband for fear of her own safety and life, while we all sit here and learn about all these racially targeted assaults from the very people who support him.

trump IS racist, he IS sexist, and he IS homophobic.

im glad you like me as a person, but im offended if you think i will ever not hate this mans mere existence. dont tell me this isnt as bad as it sounds when this was the worst possible outcome.

listen i dont give flying fucks about some people’s opinions about little mix if u keep being petty and doubting them after 5 years of delivering excellent music, outdoing themselves in a competitive music industry I HOPE U CHOKE ON UR OWN SPIT for real they work hard as hell to have some uglies saying they ‘owe’ their achievements to someone other than THEMSELVES

Alright listen up because I had this thought and it won’t go away until I tell someone else and since im alone in my dorm y’all get to hear it

so lets talk about Hanzo, his chicken legs and lady ankles

So I remember how the Overwatch devs spoke about how Hanzo had “delicate ankles” after people mistakenly thought his boots/whatever were prosthetic replacements for his actual legs below the knee. I’m saying what if they kind of are, but it’s just not his whole lower leg?

I personally have weak ankles and a very high arch on my foot (its along the medial longitudinal arch which is the one on the inside of your foot, going from your big toe down) so I have a really tiny area on the outside of my foot trying to support all my weight, on top of crappy ankles that all in all want to make my feet turn inwards when they should be resting on the outside part.

this, essentially, is what the foot usually looks like when you show the sole. So you need a orthotic meant to support the inner part of the foot.

So how does this relate to Hanzo? I’m suggesting that Hanzo has a high arch on his foot, possibly also weak ankles, and has some kind of high tech future super support orthotics.

What’s important to remember is how often, fast and quietly Hanzo runs. My turned in and weak ankles often roll and twist when I try to run even a bit. Having the support on the bottom of my feet helps, but I would need a lot of ankle support too to be able to run normally.

Looking at his shoes/boots you can see that they offer support mostly on the toes, heel–and most importantly, arch and ankle. Plus there’s all that extra stuff in between the metal on his knees and feet, which could also be supportive in some high tech way. 

In total, these new age orthotics could be helping correct his posture, the way his feet and ankles sit and enhancing his ability to run all at the same time. 

Plus its fun to imagine tiny Hanzo picking up archery because it involves less running and he works on the movement part later when he gets help for his fucked up feet.

So I encourage you all to please support Hanzo Shimada and his delicate ankles.

people need to realize theres a difference between being triggered and offended …. like for example, im triggered by certain songs. but if people listen to those songs, i dont tell them “hey you can’t listen to that song ever again because it triggers me”, because that’s just silly 

on the other hand, though, if someone is saying something like “lesbians are disgusting and ugly” then YEAH im gonna be offended, and yeah i’m gonna tell you to stop, because you are being offensive on purpose, and lesbophobia is something i cant really avoid 

and i think that’s where the whole “if we respected what people were offended by, we wouldnt be allowed to talk, ever!!” thing comes from. like no!!! understand the difference between triggering and offending someone !!!!!!! 

someone being triggered by something doesnt mean it’s inherently bad either, or that you’re not allowed to like the thing; it just means you should avoid exposing the person to the thing, thats literally it!!! 

and you could even compare it to allergies, for example. if a person is allergic to nuts, that doesnt mean you cant enjoy peanuts, that doesn’t mean you’re an awful person for eating peanuts, that doesnt mean theyre inherently bad; it just means that person is unable to be around them, and its not that hard to avoid exposing people to something they’re allergic to 

listen i dont know who the fuck Pewpewpew actually is because i dont follow him but 

What kind of person even comes up with that as a “joke”?

No one I trust could ever fathom those four words being a joke. 

No one ever says “Let’s murder kittens!” as a joke because SOMEHOW that’s insanely more offensive and inconceivable than saying death to any group of disadvantaged humans.

If he had said “It’s  smart to step on a puppy!” He’d have a lot more of these #istandwithpewpew people turned against him, and that’s sad.

If you stand with whoever the fuck that dude is, unfollow me

I don’t know what makes me happier. The fact that this blog has been here for three years, and throughout that time has promoted love and acceptance of everyone in this community. Or that you guys actually follow and listen to that, and understand the fact you’re all incredible people.

Mark taught me that if you have a platform, use it for good. I will always and forever do that. Because of Mark, I’m able to make you smile, feel better, laugh and escape to a safe place for a while.
Only because of him. 
I dont say it enough, but - 
Thank you Markiplier. 

Oosh out
Thank you for existing

listen,,, i know it may be,, difficult to understand but,,, you *GASP* can’t control what random strangers on the internet do in a fandom,,, crazy right,,,, so i mean while its okay and valid for you to call out people on shit they have literally to obligation to do what you say. I’m not on anybody’s side in the Yurio Shipping Discourse™ but both sides need to chill out and stop flinging around gross words and insults because it’s really fucking annoying and triggering to me and also i dont need a repeat of the damn attack on titan fandom where 50% of the fandom is constantly screaming at the other 50%. as i stated, the only side im on is the “everybody needs to chill” side so please don’t reply to this with a “pedophile apologist” comment or i will literally have a panic attack and cry myself to sleep goDDAMN JUST EVERYBODY NEEDS TO STAY IN THEIR OWN LANE AND LEAVE ME OUT OF THE DAMN ARGUMENT OKAY JUST STAY IN UR DMS AND LEAVE ME OUT OF THIS DAMN DISCOURSE BECAUSE I DONT WANT IT AND ITS ALL OVER MY DASH AND IM ABOUT TO CRY

fuck all of the people who were telling us “dont make us feel bad for voting 3rd party what does it matter anyways, statistics show it wouldn’t have mattered in past elections.”

shut the fuck up. ive been saying for months this is NOT the year for a protest vote and none of you listened. do you feel good about yourself for doing the equivalent of not voting at all?

Watching Cheb Khaled perform rouhi ya wahran on Arab idol was so frustrating because the audience didn’t give a shit about the song. It’s a waste sharing North African art (excluding Egypt for obvious reasons) because they don’t get it. And what made it worse is reading the comments under the video with people saying what a horrible song it is. Because raï and North African music isn’t appreciated in the Middle East. Contemporary maghreb artists had to dumb down the dialect and use gulf music in order to catch their attention. We understand their dialects, we listen to their music, we appreciate their art, but they haven’t a clue about us. Most of them probably don’t even know where or even what wahran is. If it isn’t “c'est la vie” or “aicha” they DONT wanna hear it. It’s funny because the world always lumps in North Africa with the Middle East for some reason…. if ur gonna be lumped in with us at least have some sort of idea who we are and what we are about.

when are people gonna realize that i dont give a fuck about being right or wrong like okay lets say he has a kid … that still doesn’t change the fact that the people around him arent getting him help / lawyers / legal paperwork, etc. to see that kid more often & to silence that family, it doesn’t change the fact that his team hasn’t done SHIT to promote his music, it doesn’t change the fact that everything around louis since 2015 has been extremely messy and handled unprofessionally, PLEASE LISTEN TO ME I DONT NOT GIVE A FUCK IF IM WRONG ABOUT WHAT I BELIEVE I JUST WANT LOUIS TO BE TAKEN CARE OF LIKE THE MULTI MILLION DOLLAR ARTIST HE FUCKING IS, like i dont understand why this is so hard to understand if everything is real idc stop with the bullshit and treat him like a real artist, if its fake idc stop with the bullshit and treat him like a real artist, yall dont care about him at all yall are just dying for some real proof for us to be wrong because yall are so insecure in your own beliefs that you are obsess over ours get a fucking life.