dont change who you are

confession time: I slap pastel on everything. even the things that arent supposed to be in pastel

(thank you @novembon for the request and the kind words!!! I’m glad you enjoy what Ive got on my blog. hope this reigen trying to be cool suits your taste.)

this request post predicts the pastel apocalypse. find out how the world will end right here

@ my girls dont ever compromise aspects of your personality to appease anybody!!! dont ever change who you are at your core for temporary people!! you have to live with yourself when all is said and done so think about your past self and how you would nurture her and think of your future self and how you want her to look back at you with a sense of pride and carry yourself forward my sis!

we went on a field trip today and i barely go out in public so i forgot how good it feels to pass in front of complete strangers

life’s too short to pretend you hate everything/everyone bc it’s the cool thing to do

  • me: i'm 19 and i can confirm that people my age view 15/16 year olds as children. there is no reason a decent person my age would be with someone that young romantically.
  • ot*yuri shippers: um?? but its only a 3 year age gap?? which is perfectly healthy?? gosh stop hating omg you don't know what you're talking about

hey um anyway is anyone kind of put off by the sudden hostile attitude towards dennys like yeah if there are problems w their corporation im not gonna say they shouldnt be criticized but have yu considered: 

this is tumblr

lmao at anti-snape people who don’t realize that james and snape aren’t really foils for draco and harry (tho they can correlate) but more for dudley and harry. 

dudley hates harry for no reason - because his parents hate harry and harry’s easy to pick on. he picks on harry with his gang of friends, terrorizing him whenever it’s convenient. harry fights back against dudley (but does anyone call it “equal”…? lmao no bc it’s still not even tho harry fights back). dudley has the adults on his side, adults who won’t listen to and don’t care about harry. does this sound familiar at all? it should. 

do you honestly think harry saw that scene in swm and didn’t suffer an immediate flashback? if you think not, you’re kidding yourself friends. harry knows what snape’s going through - he went through it too. and yet fandom looks at dudley and harry and recognizes the power disadvantage, recognizes it’s bullying, but when they look at the marauders and snape, they’re all, “well that’s just what teenagers do!” okay. sure. 

If you tell a boy whose hair is curly and wild and who dresses in faded holey t-shirts that smell like worn cotton and home that he should comb his hair down for you and dress up nicer for you, then you are slowly killing him and replacing him with what you think he should have to be…for you. Do me a favor. Dont. This world needs more boys with wild hair and worn cotton shirts and if you cant appreciate him, let him go, because he does not need to be told that his comfort and style is wrong. He should be loved by someone who thinks that wild hair is beautiful, and that he is stunning in a suit or worn cotton or nothing at all, because that is what love is. Healthy love is accepting them as they came, with all their flaws and problems and quirks. You should not have to “fix” someone you love at all, if they are right for you, you will be able to grow together into better people. They might adapt around you as time goes on, and that is normal, growth and change is good and natural, but forcing change is brutal and mean. He deserves to be loved just the way he came to you, because someone thinks he is beautiful, and if you can’t do that, let him love someone who will.
—  Thoughts of things 

Kobold, also known as the Pale Goblin. 

you are okay

honestly i dont know why everyone is this surprised/upset about the Vilde thing? Vilde was the original buss boss, that’s a fact. So we don’t know if the Pepsi Max girls were referring to that, or if Vilde recently went behind Sanas back and told them she was the real buss boss.

Also, I was rewatching season 1, and multiple times Vilde says “She can’t be on her buss” and constantly hopes someone else says something negative about Sana.

As for the people who thought Vilde would change…. i dont know why you would think that. most of the background characters, with the exception of Jonas and maybe Magnus haven’t gone through charcter development. also ITS THE LAST SEASON. WE CURRENTLY HAVE FOUR UNRESOLVED PLOTS, THIS WOULD NOT BE HE TIME TO THROW IN SOME VILDE DEVELOPMENT. i don’t think we’ll ever see her change, just cause it’s the last season.

alec hirch: its so weird that people like ford!!! after all hes so unlikable and unemotional and disgusting and yet people relate to him??? i cant see why!!!

survivors of abuse and trauma who see themselves in ford:

literally like. if you make trigger jokes. if you call ppl r*t*rds. if you make ‘i identify as _____’ jokes.

i dont feel safe around you. i dont want you around me or my followers. i want nothing to do with you. leave.

anonymous asked:

I feel like i dont fit in with the satanic community. Im very girly and childish and im just not the image that comes to mind when you think about satanism. I dont want to change who i am but it makes me feel very alone. Any advice?

My best advice is that you are yourself and you shouldn’t feel the need to fit in. It’s good to be different, following an orthodoxal society is very stale and boring.

sendingpostcards replied to your post:the gay srar song post was mostly a joke but tbh…

!!EXACTLY! +the srar post is blessed

me, adding genius notations in srar at 3am: you Are what you LOVE not WHO loves you… meaning that if you Are lgbt (what you LOVE) you dont have to change that for the people Who love you (parents who want u to be straight)!!!!!!!!!! WAKE UP AMERICa