don't. bullying

I stan for La La Land, but Moonlight deserved that Oscar hands down. I just wish they didn’t mess up because it deserved its award without sharing the spotlight. Idk I liked both for different reasons. I love musicals, the message was great… but Moonlight. MOON. LIGHT… wow. A MOVI E.

People will judge you regardless of what you do. Don’t look to them for validation, simply accept all that you are.

Please help!! Signal boost this far and wide!
Even if you’re not in Georgia, sign the petition and make a phone call (or send an email) if you can. Don’t let my sweet baby (along with many others) be unfairly labeled just because of their breed and the state they live in. This woman is ridiculous and we won’t let her get away with this nonsense.

This blog stands against fandom drama and bullying.

I don’t know what the hell’s going on with a few of the fans right now, but I want to be very clear about a few things.

  • If you are a straight fan, you are welcome here. 
  • If you are a LGBT, etc. fan, you are welcome here.

If you are a fan of Yuri!!! on Ice, you are welcome here.

I don’t care who you are, what your beliefs, what your gender, sexuality, race, or any of the above. I don’t care who you ship, who you don’t ship, or if you think shipping’s the stupidest thing on the whole planet.

You are welcome here.

But if you’re one of those few who’ve been bullying other fans, putting down straight (as this refers to specific posts, but this goes for ANY) fans because of some delusion you’re under or even because someone may disagree with you, you’re going to be blocked and blacklisted. It’s absolutely idiotic that someone would say nasty things about an entire group of people who are just here because they love Yuri!!! on Ice too. 

Grow up, shut up (unless you have something decent to say), and let everyone enjoy the series. 

Don’t you just love it when people say shit like this, then block you and run because they can’t handle the reply? Here it is anyway, sweet thing.

To anyone out there who agrees with this darling little bigot: BUCKLE UP KIDDOS, WE’RE GOING ON A WILD RIDE <3





As a serious side note, I never said that they were oppressed. I said that they suffered hate. Being a member of a majority group/not currently being “oppressed” does not make someone immune from recieving hatred just for the way that they are.

Before you start complaining to musicians for releasing a track that isn’t tailor-made for your taste, think about the changes you’ve made over the years. Think about the music you used to love give or take 5 years ago and the music you love today. Most likely, it’ll be a huge difference.

Let’s create a healthy environment for artists that’ll encourage them to evolve and release art that they are proud of rather than releasing the same old song over and over to satisfy the need of the oldschool fans. It takes courage to create art for yourself, knowing you’ll be bashed for it, rather than choose the easy way out. It wouldn’t be fair to expect from them to not express themselves as the person they’ve become.

—  Strife Magazine


Things to tell your cashier

Here’s a list of things that I appreciate hearing from customers (especially when I’m slammed, dealing with register problems, have been bullied by previous customers, etc):

1. “It’s not your fault” This is so important. Over half the time it isn’t our fault- register problems are out of our hands, sold out products, a limited number of available cashiers (ex: 8 cashier lanes, 2 working cashiers) refusing an expired coupon, or being unable to use multiple coupons- all of these things are things I have no control over- they’re choices my manager made, corporate rules, or policy- and I appreciate it when a customer understands that instead of throwing a temper tantrum.

2. “You’re doing just fine” This one seems silly… but I struggle with anxiety and after a rude customer I tend to make a lot of mistakes because I am trying to rush, or I’m worried that the next customer is going to treat me the same way. When a customer sees that I’m nervous and they take a moment to assure me, it centers me and I feel less tense.

3. “How are you? *waits for your response* Please/Thank you/I appreciate it” Manners are SO appreciated! I feel less-than-human at work because of how people treat me, so when I get a customer who respects my basic humanity and thanks me for my time it’s very refreshing. We are all people and should be treated with the same respect you would give to meeting someone new. 

🌸Be kind🌸

Why are the people so full of hate ? Why can’t they be kind to each other,I don’t really understand it and I don’t want to understand it! It has nothing to do with myself but I always see it on the streets or in school… Everyone is different and like/hear/wear something different. Why is it so difficult to let the people live their lives how they want to ? I sometimes see that people look at me as I were very strange just because I wear other clothes then their wear :o (it is just an example, because I have often good experience with that 😊). Or some people get bullied because their are different. Another thing is if u go outside shopping or for anything else their are often people who treat you bad without having a reason for it! So pls be kind to each other and try to treat each other well ! The other persons have also feelings and they also want to live in peace! I only want to say that pls respect and accept each other also if they are different ! If u don’t like them just ignore it! I don’t want to say that everyone is like this 😊 I see and know many people that are very kind and that makes me very glad 💕! I’m so sorry for this serious topic but I just wanted to share what I think with you🌸 🌸I wish u a lovely day/night🌸

Originally posted by himeantoinette

fun fact : i volunteer and work with the mayors alliance of nyc animals/humane society/ and ACC (animal care center of NYC), and a really cool part of that is the foster program, I’m a foster parent for pitbulls and only pitbulls, and you get to foster abused, stray, or sick pitbulls and nurse them back to their full health and socialize them in hopes of getting this beautiful misunderstood breed adopted into a loving family, this here is Leonidas, i call him Leo. just wanted to share a small but very important part of my life with you guys ✨. 🐶

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