don't you know a fake when you see one

🔥Roasting the rising signs 🔥
  • Aries/ too aggressive y'all need to chill. It’s was cute at first when people thought it was a one time joke, but then when they realize that how you really are 24/7, it’s a turn off.
  • Taurus/ boring af, no one notices you standing there. No ones gonna approach you first cause you aren’t anyone first choice.
  • Gemini/ nosy af, it’s soooo annoying. Loves drama but swears they don’t!
  • <p> Cancer/ Shit starter. Got that annoying face that everyone wants to punch for some reason.
  • Leo / too extra, you look stupid. Your constant seeking for attention Makes everyone cringe.Everyone can tell you are trying honey.
  • Virgo/ tries to come off as smart but it sometimes ends up looking bitchy fake ( Trying to impresses everyone with their "smartness" ) always so nervous, looks like you don't have confidence in anything.
  • <p> Libra / fake af, no one really talks to the real you. People will start noticing how fake you are when you get stuck in a situation where two different groups collide and you don’t know how to act. <br>
  • Scorpio/ quiet and boring, literary no one notices you, where is the magnetic energy that you speak of ? <br>
  • Sagittarius/ annoying af, literally tries to hard to be relatable. Insert themselves in situations and then complains about it
  • Capricorn/ so fucking tense, you can. Literary see the stick up thier ass. Gets triggered so much.
  • Aquarius/ naturally weird but When they Realize that people think they are weird,you can see them trying to act weirder to uphold the reputation they've been given.Such a huge ego, they try to hard to be unique and if you tell them they aren’t, accuses you of being jealous/ hater.
  • Pisces / weak willed, so easy to step all over you. Tries using the lack of self confidence as cuteness and it gets annoying.

anonymous asked:

Anyone noticed how when it comes to telling people customer service-related stories people believe the most ridiculous shit over things that aren't that weird?? Like I could tell somebody "today at work somebody shit all over the bathroom wall and started swinging on the ceiling fans like a monkey" and people would be believe it but if I say "a customer called me a bitch today" they won't???? I don't get it

I see people calling all of it bullshit here all the time. Which is why I hate people that say “this sounds fake”. Ya know what else is fake? Their intelligence. Seriously, you don’t need question that shit. If it is fake, who the fuck cares? No one is dying because someone said a customer pissed in their mouth when it didn’t happen. Chill the fuck out before you start sounding like the orange tweet monster with all this talk of fake. -Abby

Safe Haven sentence starters
  • "I don't know what we're heading towards, but I know my heart is all yours."
  • "All my friends tell me I'd be better off on my own, and sometimes I believe 'em."
  • "I can never leave him."
  • "Mixed signals, they're killing me."
  • "You knock and I let you in."
  • "Loving you is my greatest sin."
  • "I see it in your eyes, you wanna run."
  • "I don't know why I love you."
  • "I don't know why I stay."
  • "I don't know if its worth the pain."
  • "Even when you slam the door and drive away, I still set the table for two."
  • "Babe, you know I'm waiting on you."
  • "I believe you every time."
  • "I've never known anybody like you."
  • "I've never dreamed of nobody like you."
  • "I've heard of a love that comes once in a lifetime, and I'm pretty sure that you are that love of mine."
  • "I'm in a field of dandelions, wishing on every one that you'll be mine."
  • "I see forever in your eyes."
  • "I feel okay when I see you smile."
  • "I think that you are the one for me."
  • "It gets so hard to breathe when you're looking at me."
  • "I've never felt so alive and free."
  • "When you're looking at me, I've never felt so happy."
  • "I feel bad inside knowing this is all built on lies."
  • "I feel like an awful person."
  • "We're forcing love that don't exist."
  • "This is so unrighteous."
  • "This is so not like us."
  • "Love at first sight that was gone at the end of night."
  • "We both know that this is going to end."
  • "No chance we're going to make it."
  • "Can we fake it?"
  • "Even though I know you're not the one, this has really been a lot of fun."
  • "I don't really like you, but I still choose to stay."
  • "You still play the part so well."
  • "You're really cute, I must admit."
  • "I need something deeper than this."
  • "I wanna know when I'm looking at you that you don't only see the things you want to."
  • "I'm not perfect, I'm flawed, and if you don't like that, get lost."
  • "I don't want it if it's fake, I don't want it if it's just for show."
  • "I just want it if it's real."
  • "This superficial love thing got me going crazy."
  • "Baby if you want me, then you better need me."
  • "I'm so done not being your number one."
  • "If you wanna keep me, then you better treat me like a damn princess, make that an empress."
  • "Fun at first, I won't deny, but I want more than just what meets the eye."
  • "I want authentic, not just for fun."
  • "If this love is plastic, it'll break on us."
  • "I can feel you on my lips all the time."
  • "I just wanna feel you in my heart and on my mind."
  • "This ain't right."
  • "I feel broken, shattered, and blue, and it's all because of you."
  • "If this is love, why does it break me down?"
  • "It's been a long time since I felt the way that I do now."
  • "I need you, but I don't know how."
  • "It's been a while since I smiled and I meant it from my heart."
  • "The idea of leaving this behind, it tears me apart."
  • "Kiss me now and remind me why I ever wanted to make you mine."
  • "If this is love, why do you break me down?"
  • "You're the other half of my broken heart."
  • "There was a time when I was alone, nowhere to go and no place to call home."
  • "My only friend was the man in the moon, and even sometimes he would go away, too."
  • "He came to me with the sweetest smile, told me he wanted to talk for awhile."
  • "I promise that you'll never be lonely."
  • "Lost boys like me are free."
  • "I realized I finally had a family."
  • "You are my perfect story book."
  • "You are now my home sweet home."
  • "Tonight hope fills our lungs and I can see it in everyone."
  • "The songs use to make us sad, tonight they don't sound so bad."
  • "It feels so good to be young."
  • "I think I'll stay awhile."
  • "I am obsessed with being a mess."
  • "I am in love with being young."
  • "I don't know what the future holds."
  • "I can't believe its been all these years."
  • "My friends tell me I should've moved on a long long time ago, but what do they know?"
  • "I don't mean to be selfish, but my heart breaks every time that I see you smile 'cause I know that it's not me
  • Who brings it out of you anymore."
  • "You found somebody new, you put me in the past."
  • "I don't know if our memories will last."
  • "If by chance it doesn't work out with her, you'll always have a chance with me."
  • "I wonder what happens when you hear our song, do you brush it away or do you sing along?"
  • "Do you talk about the future the way we did?"
  • "You'll always have a chance with me in my world."
  • "Is it so wrong of me to hope she breaks your heart?"
  • "Is it so wrong of me to pray she tears you apart?"
  • "I know in the darkest part of you, you pray and hope and wish for it, too."
  • "You don't mean to be selfish, but your heart breaks every time that you see me smile 'cause you know its not you who brings it out of me anymore."
  • "So casually you walked into my universe."
  • "Hey, you got some pretty brown eyes."
  • "I couldn't help but smile and I think that's the moment it all happened."
  • "Love turned into games, and games turned into heartbreak, and heartbreak turned into war."
  • "Darling, all is fair in love and war."
  • "You meant the world to me."
  • "I'll be your fighter if you say so."
  • "I don't get why we're meant to fall in love, then say goodbye."
  • "Gave you all my heart and all my precious time."
  • "I can picture you in your blue jeans, looking right at me with that gorgeous smile."
  • "I couldn't see the lies and the things that you would hide."
  • "You love so mercilessly."
  • "Here's to everything we ever were."
  • "I got the greatest weapon of all - a broken heart."
  • "Let me hold you for the day and let you know that its okay, give you all the love and peace that you usually send my way."
  • "When its dark for you, don't know what to do, just know you're my light."
  • "When the world is caving, baby you're my safe haven."
  • "On my darkest day I know you'll be my shine."
  • "You're my safe haven."
  • "Love at first sight, it exists."
  • "I've had my heart broken so many times before."
  • "I'll call you in the morning if I see you in my dreams tonight."
  • "I don't even know your name."
  • "I vowed not to let anyone enter my heart."
  • "I know love at first sight can't exist."
  • "Maybe we'll meet in a different dimension and you can tell me all the things you didn't mention."
  • "Maybe we'll meet in a different dimension."
  • "I saw you in my dreams."
  • "I guess that I was scared of what I was before us."
  • "Guess you were my only blemish."
  • "For the first time I don't mind that you found somebody else."
  • "For the first time I'm totally fine being by myself."
  • "I was my best when I was with you."
  • "Would you believe me if I told you that I'm over it?"

anonymous asked:

ok sorry just to go back to what you were saying about 21p... i don't think you give them enough credit.. like this whole 'they're fake deep and their lyrics are bland'.... one of mcr's biggest hits literally had the chorus 'i'm not okay'... like dont get me wrong i totally see where your coming from but u know... maybe ppl express their sadness in different ways and just bcos 21p are more direct doesn't take away any artistic integrity so ya...

Ok this is totally gonna be from a point of personal perception but to me when mcr uses phrases like that that tend toward the obvious and cliche it comes off as a sort of sarcastic embracing of the cliche like “I’m not okay” to me at least comes off as sort of saying ‘things have been so royally fucked for so long that I’ve given up on trying to explain or figure anything out I’m just gonna go with a good ol jaded sarcastic “I’m not o-fuckin-kay my dude” and leave it at that’ whereas 21p is like very seriously wiping their mascara tears away and saying ‘my brain is a battlefield’ as like the straightforward explanation with no irony which doesn’t really contain any meaning other than 'mental illness is my aesthetic right now.’ I’m not trying to tell you not to listen to 21p, like I said it is possible to assign your own meaning to their music and make it valuable that way, I’m just saying that I’ve stopped being able to do that now that I’ve stepped back and really looked at it critically

anonymous asked:

Hc: when they look at you

this is such a cute idea !! sorry these are so short ):

darry: he looks at you the way his father used to look at his mother

soda: he looks at you with pure adoration, masking over eyes that say “please don’t leave"

ponyboy: he looks at you in disbelief, wondering what he did to deserve you

johnny: he looks at you with eyes that are soft & full of gratitude and with the kind of look that says “i don’t know where i’d be without you”

dallas: he looks at you & sees his future 

steve: he looks at you like there’s no one else in the room

two-bit: he looks at you with the biggest smile you’ve ever seen & only smiles more when you catch him staring

The Signs and why you should hate them PART 2
  • Aries: Loud and obnoxious. Thinks it's cool to be aggressive and snobbish but it's fucking annoying to the rest of us. Their so called "confidence" is as fake as Iggy Azalea's ass. They're the most boring people on the planet. They're the child you never wanted. Meeting or befriending an Aries means you're being punished for something.
  • Taurus: They think the world revolves around their slow asses. Tauruses act like they do everything but all they really do is masturbate, cry and throw a tantrum when they have to get out of their beds. They expect everyone to do everything for them. If you want to win a Taurus' heart, (which I doubt you do) then just be rich. They probably have money hidden somewhere but they'll act like they're poor and homeless just so they can have your shit.
  • Gemini: Geminis are very good actors. That's why they spew bullshit out of their mouths every 2 minutes and everyone buys it. They're not funny and tend to laugh at their own jokes while everyone just wants them to shut the fuck up. They feed off of bullying other people but act like they're for the people. Gemini's only talent is having everyone believe their lives while actually believing it themselves. They have no sense of right or wrong because they're still children who need to be put on a leash in order to prevent them from fucking up everything in their path. Do they even hear themselves talk? Probably not, because they suck at listening to anybody including themselves.
  • Cancer: Cry me a fucking river. Cancers act like they don't give a shit but will try to plan your death if you don't notice their shitty haircut right away. They have no social life and their parents/guardian try to kick them out because all they are and ever will be is the loser living in their parent's/guardian's basement jerking off to The Notebook and thinking about their ex.
  • Leo: Their whole entire existence is a joke. They act like they have morals but will try their best to degrade people so they can feel superior. Why? Because they don't know who or what the fuck they are. They still have identity issues at 30. Arguing with a Leo is easy (and hilarious) because their egos are consistently being bruised by nothing, so you'll always win the fight. Leos can relate to cats because they're pussies.
  • Virgo: They like to fight with everyone. Everything is everyone else's fault except for theirs. Virgos can't take the blame for anything because they think they're perfect (when they actually look like a mean sack of shit) and because they're prone to stomach aches and shitting their pants every time there's a little bump in the road. They hate being wrong (which they usually are) and will lie and murder their best friend just to try and prove a point. Because their ego comes before anything else.
  • Libra: Libras are so shallow, they won't think twice about talking to you if you're ugly. But take a good look at them and notice how boring their physical attributes are. They're just a plain jane walking piece of stale bread with two legs and a pulse. And they have as much depth as one too. All they do is try to charm people with the same lines they've used over and over again. They figure since they can't impress anyone with their looks they'll have to charm everyone with their fake personalities and horrible sense of humor. If you should even call that thing a personality.
  • Scorpio: Scorpios can see right through you -- HA. This is bullshit. All you are to Scorpio is a mirror. So everything they see in you that's "bad" is just themselves looking back at them. They only know you're lying because they have used every lie in the book and it takes one to know one. They're so shitty, they have done every horrible thing there is to do in life. So when someone reminds a Scorpio of themselves, they instantly don't like you. Because they know you're a piece of shit just like they are. This is why they're considered "mysterious". They judge people mainly by their looks (but use the word "aura" to throw people off) but if you look behind the sunglasses, millions of scarves and large hats they try to cover their faces with, you'll see they're not that special either.
  • Sagittarius: Congratulations! You are the shittiest fucking sign. You should be proud of yourself. But I bet you are, because you'll do anything for attention whether it's good or bad. Sagittarius itself is a joke and everything they do is the punchline. They think they're smart and will stand up for something they don't agree with just for the sake of arguing and seeming smart when in actuality, they got their facts from wikipedia and other people that they eavesdropped on.
  • Capricorn: Calm down. You're not superior. In fact, judging by how quickly you get offended you're the exact opposite. Capricorns love to fight everyone if it gives them some extra points on looking tough. But honestly, they're not even tough. We all hated them ever since they walked into the room. They focus on work and school because they have no friends. They act like they have class which is a joke, considering they put on a tough front all day and then cry their cowardly hearts out at home.
  • Aquarius: Hahahahahahahahahaha. You're not even worthy of one. Go fuck yourself.
  • Pisces: Pisces love to daydream and imagine the impossible, like getting off their lazy asses for once and actually doing something with their lives besides smoking pot and getting drunk. They're naturally psycho, because they can't tell the difference between fantasy and reality anymore. But they claim to know everything so if you tell them they're wrong they'll turn everyone against you. They're such pussies, they will probably grab a knife, scream, cry and kick shit if you look at them the wrong way. But don't worry, the knife is only so they can stab themselves repeatedly in their own face since they love to self destruct and then play the victim and put all the blame on everyone but themselves. Their own family hates them. So there's your first clue to avoid them at all costs. Seriously, the worst sign ever to exist.

anonymous asked:

I respect your way to see the poster and all that but you sound fake and attention seeking, you're really dramatic in a really bad way, honestly, its called acting for some reason you know? There's a lot of ppl who play that kind of rol... If u want to unstanning bangtan, good, but I bet you'll be the first one hyping about bts cb when they release all this little dramas and shit.

lmao the unfollow button is there for a reason. also you apparently have no reading skills because nowhere in that post did i say i was unstanning bts. 

Sentence Starters {Naruto Edition}
  • “When people are protecting something truly special to them, they truly can become...as strong as they can be.”
  • “A smile is the best way to get away with trouble even if it’s a fake one.”
  • “There's no advantage to hurrying through life."
  • “Give up trying to make me give up.”
  • “When a man learns to love, he must bear the risk of hatred.”
  • “It’s foolish to fear what we’ve yet to see and know.”
  • “The difference between insanity and genius is measured only by success and failure.”
  • “For a while, I thought that was love..."
  • Things I like and things I hate… I don't feel like telling you that.
  • “If you don't like the hand that fate's dealt you, fight for a new one.”
  • “Sorry I'm late, I'm afraid I got lost on the path of life...”

anonymous asked:

i dont know what I'm supposed to think - sometimes I'll look at those "you have bpd if.." things and relate to every single one, and sometimes I'll only relate to one or two. i don't know if im fluctuating or faking or..?? what's happening

BPD has a lot of possible symptoms and you only need a certain number (five out of these nine) for diagnosis. That means there are symptoms you may never relate to. For example, I’ve been struggling recently with feeling invalid because I see and even write posts that mention the extreme attachment many people with BPD feel, and I don’t have that symptom. It can even happen when I do have the symptom, but not strongly or often “enough”, like hyper-empathy. It’s difficult to remember that people experience BPD differently, but nobody else’s experience of BPD makes yours any less real or correctly identified.

As for fluctuating symptoms, this is very normal, at least in my experience. I can’t tell you whether your symptoms are consistent enough across a broad range of situations for diagnosis. But before my diagnosis, when other people suggested the possibility I had BPD, I was unable to say that my symptoms were consistent across a broad range of situations. It didn’t feel that way to me, because nothing about my symptoms felt consistent. Now after several months of being diagnosed I feel like I’m just beginning to get it. Obviously it’s likely to be a lot harder if you’re self diagnosing, although again, it’s different for everybody.

If you spend considerable periods of time (eg weeks, months) without symptoms, you might want to look at bipolar disorder. Symptoms are present most of the time for people with personality disorders.

If you switch between different/opposing symptoms, eg no empathy and hyper-empathy, it’s probably comorbidity. You relate to BPD when your BPD symptoms are present and you don’t when symptoms of other disorders are present instead.

If you frequently switch between feeling like you’re going “crazy” or you can’t function anymore and feeling like you’re fine, that’s a strong indication that you’re experiencing mental illness. To be honest, it’s not really unique to BPD, but this kind of endless “Am I faking?” loop is ubiquitous in BPD spaces. We experience everyday crises as world-ending crises, then get confused by our own behaviour once the symptoms fade.

Recommended reading: Do I have BPD?Am I faking? / What do I do if I don’t have BPD?I didn’t notice my symptoms until I read about themContradictory symptoms

- Exo

magniscribe  asked:

Hello! I'm having lots of trouble with character development, can you help? I'm almost done with the second draft but I feel like I'm guessing on how side characters would act and my main is barely a two sided character. I feel like a lot of it is that I don't spend time on page developing their relationships etc, but I don't know how to extend that without adding boring filler to the piece. Thanks!

Hello! Thank you for your question.

Character development is rather difficult because every real human is an entire universe themselves, and therefore truly capturing a full person on paper would take endless words and probably would somehow come off as more fake. Almost like when an artist includes too many lines–every wrinkle perhaps–and actually ruins the illusion. This happens because even though that person has that many wrinkles, not every single one of those wrinkles would actually be noticeable unless you stared so hard you couldn’t even see the whole person anymore.

That being said, try not to focus on questionnaires. Questionnaires cause the same effect as the artist including every single wrinkle. Furthermore, people don’t care for the sake of it that your character’s favorite drink is tea, that their favorite color is maroon, that they love cats but also rabbits that they have two scars on their body, etc. They care only about these things in so much as these things affect your character’s personality. 

If your character loves tea because a parent always made them tea after they cried, then that like becomes important. 

If your character’s scar is because they fell out a window trying to tie back a curtain or trying to rescue a cat, and the character is now struggling with going up past the second floor of a building, then those things become important. 

Now I’m not saying that questionnaires are useless, but I am saying that knowing the details before understanding the base doesn’t magically give you a living and breathing character. 

So what kinds of questions can you consider instead?

When you’re near a person, what are the first things you notice? 

Perhaps the way they talk, the way the hold themselves, how often the smile, how firm their handshake is, what kind of colors they wear, whether they are nervous or confident, and how you feel in their presence.

Digging deeper, you might notice how well they deal with conflict, what values and people they prioritize, what they sacrifice and what they sacrifice for, whether or not they are squeamish or harsh, whether they prefer to heal or to fight. 

Even deeper, you might discover their fears, their dreams, what breaks them, and what brings them to life.

These are the important things to know about your character. These are the things that make real people interact with the world in the way they do or in the way they do not, and are therefore the things that make a person seem like a person. 

In knowing these overarching basics, you will be able to infer the rest of the things that you need to know about your character. You’ll be able to logically push yourself and your readers into understanding what a character might do, might like, and what stakes they might consider.

Because of this, your choices in how the character acts will seem logical rather than facts you simply pulled out of the air. All of your character’s moments in writing will begin to mesh together into a fully formed person instead of a simple constellation of likes, dislikes, and random behaviors. 

In order to discover your character fully, try taking notes answering the above questions or try to write a downtime scene with your character and an action-packed scene with the same character. 

What kinds of things does the character do the same when relaxed vs when stressed and what kinds of things does the character do differently? 

If you need to write to explore and discover, then feel free to do that. Not everything needs to make it into your drafts, but your knowledge of the character as a person and as a living being will naturally bleed into what you do include in your novel. 

Once you truly know your character, you’ll go through scenes and find yourself thinking “Wait, they wouldn’t do that after all” or “Wait they would definitely do this instead!”

If all goes well, you’ll end up with truly organic characters that you can work off of and that give as much as they take to and from your plot.

I hope all of this helps. If not, please feel free to ask more questions.

Happy writing!

anonymous asked:

You like to call things out for being fake. Why is that? Take that social experiment thing - whether it's real or staged is irrelevant, what's important is that no one stepped in to help. Commenting on something like that and making it about you comes across as dismissive and smug. People aren't stupid, you don't need to swoop in and show everyone how wise you are when something is incorrect. If people care to know whether something is fact or fiction, they can work it out for themselves.

I don’t know that I /like/ calling things out for being fake as much as I dislike seeing a fake post with 100,000 notes.

There’s a functional problem with Tumblr and BS. If the BS is exciting enough, lots of people will reblog it, but only a few will check and relbog saying “This actually isn’t true.” But no one reblogs that “this isn’t actually true” post because that isn’t exciting. So I feel like the only way to fix that is to have someone with lots of followers reblog it with that message, so maybe the understanding that the post is BS will go a little deeper. And maybe, even, people will be a little more careful about what they reblog in the future.

I don’t like the idea of huge groups of people believing lies. I can understand how it’s perceived as dickishness. Especially when trying to show some reasons I was initially skeptical. But spending time on Tumblr makes me want to help the ecosystem out by not only letting people know that something is fake, but also giving them the tools to be more critical themselves.

If that sounds like it’s coming from some holier-than-thou old guy who thinks he knows so much and shakes his broom at you while yelling at you from his porch, “I’ve been reading BS stories on the internet since before you were born!” well, it is. I am that guy. I understand that this isn’t cool and that it is, in fact, deeply uncool and maybe even a bit rude.

I’m OK with that. 

Okay I'm hoping Taylor might see this... She won't. But I'm gonna try. Taylor, I have so much that I wish I could tell you. But all this stuff is not the kind of stuff I'm comfortable posting on tumblr. I guess this one thing has been beating me up more than anything else these past few days... It's stupid, but I just need to know. How do you deal with it when you don't know where you stand with someone? Like when someone tells you they care about you, but you know they're faking it. How do you deal with it when someone makes you their second choice? Cause like... It's not a good feeling. Sometimes I wish that I was more confident. But at the same time, I can't do that without having anyone on my side, you know? I'm sorry I'm so vague. I just don't know how to get passed this. I'm probably wasting my time but yeah. I'm sure me and a lot of other people could use some advice with this topic so even if you say it to someone else and not me, I just need to hear / see you say words that might help me feel better. Does that make sense? And I'm sorry for typing in the title section lol, it's just bolder and easier to see I guess. Okay sorry I'm rambling. I love you!

I love you @taylorswift

anonymous asked:

you will be the reason parents don't understand what trans means anymore when their child comes out, you're the reason it will be harder and harder to get hormones because doctors will be too scared to let people start hormones because of all you fake trans people who will eventually regret your transition.

Jay says:

TW for transphobia, anon hate, I’ll tag this with drama cos a lot of people don’t want to see this - I just want the person who sent this to see this really.

I know we don’t normally answer hate, but this one got me so riled up, that I couldn’t let it slide.

The way you wrote this infers that you’re trans yourself, anon, so I will write this response assuming you are trans.

You yourself should know that the myth of trans regret is simply that - a myth. Approximately 96% of trans people feel their lives improved after transitioning. (http://www.transstudent.org/transregrets) So why do you insist on reinforcing that?

As a trans person, you should know that transitioning - whatever that means to you - is very important, and often lifesaving. It’s a vital part of life for many trans people. I’ve been on T for two months, and I already feel my life is getting better in subtle ways.

Doctors already limit our access to medical transition - like many trans people, I had to be diagnosed as mentally ill to transition. For anything, we generally need a referral letter of permission from a doctor to get hormones or surgery.

Cis people already limit what we can do in our own lives, why do you insist on making it harder for young trans people, particularly non-binary people, to fit into their own community? Just because someone does not fit your streamlined, specific trans narrative, doesn’t invalidate them.

There is no such thing as a “fake” trans person - just people who realised they misidentified who they are, through honest mistake, and those people don’t deserve to be condemned. 

There is no place in the trans community for gatekeepers like you. If you follow this blog, don’t. Because we don’t want your hateful views near us. We respect all trans people, not just those you deem “worthy”.

anonymous asked:

I would think they would like to keep their fan base, seeing as if you don't have one you don't sell tickets. Tickets to moves or those fundraising activities, our watch a TV show your in! Not saying live for us BUT don't play us for fools.

That’s probably why we’re reacting the way we are. We aren’t stupid. We know when something fake is happening. And treating us like assholes that you disparage when we don’t eat the bullshit you serve sucks. We are smart.

And we would like nothing better than to support Josh. But he gives us nothing and then they smack us around as haters when we point out the truth.

That poker pic was not from last night. There was still daylight in California when it was posted. If you look at the videos on various friends’ IG (including the two friends Claudia brought) they’re wearing different clothes. Josh’s friend still has long hair in the poker pic even though he cut his hair yesterday.

So why did Michelle start the insanity with an old picture that included poker playing and Josh in his new hat and everyone’s least favorite Spanish actress? Because she wanted to an elicit a response. And it worked but it was mostly directed at the wrong person - Josh instead of Claudia.

Why anyone would be so rude to accost someone on their social media account is perplexing but they did, as Michelle knew they would.

Is positioning this fauxmance that important to you? Who owns the note on Josh’s soul? Because he’s annihilated his fan base for this meaningless movie and talentless girl that he never has anything nice to say about. “NOBODY CARES!”

The year started so well. Josh supporting Bernie. Being thoughtful and well spoken. The music video was cool. Futureman had potential. He became a professional director! And then Claudia showed up and everything fell apart for Josh. A cheap slasher movie isn’t going to get anyone excited.

No one will be happy to see Claudia around but if Josh had some interesting projects people will focus on that. Instead we have nothing but staged pics and an unwashed actor who squandered the goodwill of his fans.

You can’t support someone who doesn’t seem that interested in working. And you can’t support someone who lives a disingenuous life.