don't worry it's just a first time thing

anonymous asked:

Hi! So... can you explain why you don't ship Creek? (It sounds bad. I didn't intended it tho. I love your blog, and basically everything that u're posting! I just want to know what you don't like about this ship, because I'm theirs trash lmao)

no worries, i dont mind explaining!

there’s a lot of things that bug me about creek? first off its origins because it all started with Tweek vs Craig back in 1999 which was literally their only interaction ever. and they were pitted against each other and fought the entire time. but somehow it became one of the most popular ships in the fandom and rivaled style for years. 

and like, i get rival ships, i do, because i love staig LOL and thats what youd expect to come out from that episode, right? but with tweek and craig no one really ships them as rivals? they ship them as like…cute and soft and gentle and loving and it just seems really out of character to me. i dont think id hate creek as much as i do if it was like, done right, you know? ive just never seen someone handle it in a way that appeals to me. (and a lot of the time people dont even get staig right… maybe im just really nitpicky mndfmsdfn)

and the whole Tweek x Craig episode really bothered me, too. i mean the episode was really funny but the thing that didnt sit right with me was…how they were basically forced together. and they kept claiming they weren’t gay, but everyone else was pushing that on to them. and even if they were gay, you should never force someone to come out? like…id want craig and tweek to come out and say it when they were ready not because they wanted to make everyone else happy. like it just made me uncomfortable because…theyre literally only together because of pressure and guilt. 

and even then, the only time they enjoy eachother’s company it seems is when theyre away from everyone else and. you know. being friends. but as soon as they have to act like a couple they just….have a blank expression and arent that into it. i just dont like that LOL

i love craig and tweek as their own characters but, when paired together i just…i dont know. its not something i can get behind, so im sorry creek shippers. 


Just wanted to let you all know - I’m sure I’m not the only one who has been getting inbox spam lately - starts with ‘hi’ or similar and if you reply you quickly end up with a request for photos or private chat. They have blogs with nothing on, fairly nondescript urls and a selfie of a young woman as their avatar.
I wanted to give my advice for younger/vulnerable people on here, so I hope you’ll forgive me sounding like your mum.
Here’s my suggestion, if you get a message from someone you don’t know and who isn’t following you, with an empty blog:
Don’t reply to the message.
Mark it as spam if you want to - I’ve started doing that.
Don’t ever send pictures of yourself.
Don’t feel pressured into chatting with someone you don’t know or sharing anything personal.
I have no clue what the gain is for people doing this but I guess they are hoping people will get talked into sharing images.
Stay safe. If you’re not sure something is a good idea, it probably isn’t - trust your instinct. If you feel uncomfortable, stop. Ask someone in real life that you trust - a parent, a responsible adult..
Look after yourselves and avoid nonsense.

anonymous asked:

Bunny Boy Sid tried to get a job as a dealer but they offered him his current position instead. He was nervous in the beginning and trying on the costume for the first time was an adventure. - Sidney fiddled with the hem of the tiny black shorts just inside the dressing room as he tried to find the courage to open the door. Before he could, there was a knock from the other side. "How does everything fit?" his new manager asked. "Don't worry if it's not perfect. We can have it tailored." (1/2)

Sid took a deep breath. “I thing everything is fine except, um, the shorts?” Sid said wincing at how unsure he sounded. He shouldn’t be this intimidated by one tiny woman. “Well come on then,” she said, “open up and let me take a look. I can’t help you if I can’t see the problem.” Sid opened the door and tried to look more confident than he felt. “The hem is too short. I’m sure a larger size would work fine.” His manager took one look and smirked. “Trust me dear, those work perfectly.” (2/2)

shorts anon again Sid adjusted quickly. By the time he spilled drinks onto Geno It’s more like: “Is my ass hanging out?” “No” “Damn”



anonymous asked:

Lol y is every touken shipper so sad bout the new chap? As a non touken shipper it is clear as daylight that touken's gonna happen. Sensei ships it like his life depends on it. I don't actually ship anyone from this manga probably bc my first priority is all of them being alive. But don't worry guys it's gonna happen. Give them time to develop a lil bit. Ishida sensei just ships it too much lol

looks like the spoilers about kaneki rejecting touka were false, as nothing of the sort happened in the actual chapter. i mean, i would have been very understanding had it happened, but it looks like sensei has different plans. 

and yes, i agree! it’ll happen. if there’s one thing i’m confident in, it’s touken eventually becoming official. :’D

anonymous asked:

Hi Xekstrin! Do you have any VN recs with decent m/m content? Or is DD basically the only thing that exists? I think your review was pretty spot on but as a gay trans dude it's also the very first time in my life that I've been able to be ME in a game so I'm torn. :( No worries if you don't know of any, you're just the best person I can think of to ask! Thank you!

Hey Nonnie! My forte is (probably always going to be) wlw stuff, but I’m glad to point you in the way of other mlm games you can enjoy! DD absolutely is not the only one.

I don’t know what genre you might like, so here’s just a whole bunch of them.

Keep in mind some of these games are adult-only, and some of them are about a bisexual male protagonist or a choose-your-gender protag. Some are free and some are paid, so I recommend reading reviews of the games before you purchase some of them. 

I know at least three or four of these games also let you be a trans man, or agender.

M/M Recs

mooooore M/M recs (might be some overlap from the two lists)

As an aside, I want to make it clear that I think the fact that DD lets you customize your MC is honestly fucking incredible and should be commended. More games should let you be trans. Just having a binder on your MC is such a small detail but so important to so many people & while I have my gripes with DD, that’s one thing they did right by their fans. 

anonymous asked:

Mom help I need advice. I'm a junior baritone and it's my first year as low brass section leader . But today was the second day of camp and we did 3 laps around the track. I'm not the most fit (and we ran out of water at home so I had no water yet) and by the time we were done I could barely hold my baritone up and I had to break attention to keep myself form falling. I'm worried that my section and the other sections leaders will think I'm weak and I just don't know what to do. Any advice?

First off, congrats on section leader!

This sort of thing is something I think a lot of low brass players deal with. It’s no secret we have really heavy instruments.

The first step would be to try and get to a place where you can keep your horn up and stay at attention- do some cardio, lift weights, etc. Also, if you’re doing laps, be sure not to wear yourself out. Set a steady pace and don’t sprint.

Secondly, you should be able to have the respect of your section no matter how tired you get. You were made section leader for a reason. Play to your strengths. Identify what you can do as a leader, and do it. It’s not the end of the world that you’re bad at something, and some would say it makes you more approachable. There have been some very bad section leaders in my band that were extraordinarily good marchers. Friends have told me they found them unapproachable and intimidating.

And always have water. Get a reusable bottle or be That Person who brings a milk jug full of water to practices. Sacrifice to the hydration demons. Do whatever it takes.

In any case, go out there and rock it, my child.

Anybody else have thoughts?

anonymous asked:

You are right. They will as always be the first to speculate and post about locations. And they will be the first to bash MacKenzie "when she deserves it" or what were the words yesterday? They will freak out and worry as usual. Fake sightings and fauxheads, maybe another random couple and lots of experts cause they know it's bullshit to say Sam and Cait don't need a vacation as a couple since they work together all day, every day. Even these couples need time together outside of work.

For me, anon, the most telling thing about Sam and Cait has always been that they go their separate ways when on hiatus. There’s just no way the ES can spin that to make their 🚢 float. Some die-hard ES cling to the BTS and magazine shoot photos as proof positive of the love SC have for each other. They also believe Red Carpet 😍and other public appearance interactions. At the end of the day however, all the above interactions are WORK. They are not personal.

For me it’s similar to having a SO who says “I love you” but their actions say otherwise. They may be inattentive, vague about their whereabouts or show little interest in you. So do you believe their words or their actions? I’m going to believe their actions. Sam and Cait interact for their work but what do they do when they are not on the payroll? They go their separate ways and run to be with their SOs. It’s pretty simple.


*points to Haikyuu* this series will be my next victim for my dumb doodles.

Another comic from piyocchi’s idea, who still have more ideas up her sleeves and keep feeding me with prompts. Sort of Valentine-ish thing I guess?

[ Starter for @agirlwithaprettynicelife ]

It sounded so simple in her mind. Just get in, pick the first computer she could find and infect it with the virus she created. Get out and it was done. Could be easier, right? Except she was no spy, and the action part wasn’t really her thing. Kurt was way better prepared for those moments than herself, but, hey, both of them were used to do what it was needed, even if they were no good in that.

Also, it was worth mention DYAD building wasn’t exactly a suburban house with only the nosy neighbors taking care of your place. It had security cameras everywhere, and a considerable number of strong men and women in their security staff. The cameras she could take care of, now the staff… She had to study their schedules, to know exactly what time they change turns for a few days before daring to make a move. Also, the cameras provided her with another very valuable info. There was a backdoor they didn’t have someone taking care of. Sure, the cameras were there to do the service in the place of a person. Cheaper. And better for her.

Becca had tried to mess up with the security cameras from other places using her phone, and it worked. Still, being there and standing so close to DYAD, she was afraid that all her past attempts were only a result of luck timing or something. She would need much more than that to get in and out of there alive.

Alright… It’s now or never.” Words didn’t exactly worked as well as she wished to motivate her, but she went in anyway. First camera, the one pointed at the back door, she put it to replay the last minute of recording. so it wouldn’t call any unwanted attention from the security guy, who was probably sleeping in front of the dozen screens he had to pay attention to. That door was a pain to open, not being projected to be open from the outside. Still, Kurt taught her a trick that worked just fine for it, and before she could start panicking, Becca was in. Now she needed to keep an eye on the camera map on her phone and find the first computer she could get her hands on.

She just found a empty room with three laptops open when heard footsteps coming on the corridor outside. The program was half way to be installed yet, if the LEDA would pick the pendrive before it was over, it would have been all for nothing. But if she didn’t run… She heard someone opening the door from the small office and she bolted under the wooden table, holding her breath while waiting for the worse.

  • Question: "Wake Up Exhausted": What keeps you up at night?
  • Sara: I'm a very anxious person...I generally worry about pretty innocuous things. 'Did I talk too much today? Oh my god, I need to deposit that check.' Or, 'Oh my god, I hope I don't die.'
  • Tegan: Currently, my neighbors having the grossest, loudest sex ever. It's completely upsetting for the obvious reason that I wonder how many times everything I've been doing has been so audible and clear to people? But tied for first is that it's just really aggressive and very loud. And--I mean this in a loving way--it's very hetero-sounding? Very man grunting, hard, woman sounding like she is being tortured. A lot of "YEAH, YEAH" It's hard. I like living in an apartment building and I don't wanna move...I just wake up kinda mad at them. I don't know what they look like either; that might help.
Elton John talks Ed Sheeran with Rolling Stone Magazine.
  • Rolling Stone: A lot of people don't realize that you work with Ed Sheeran. What's your role in his career?
  • Elton John: I've been advising him, and own the company that manages him. He asks me for advice. For example, a couple of years ago, he told me that the record company wanted a follow up to +, but he was also offered a tour with Taylor Swift, 88 shows in America. He said to me. "What should I do?" I said to him, "It's a no-brainer. You do the 88 shows with Taylor Swift. She'll be on top of the bill. You'll be coming on when people are coming in. It's not your audience. It'll give you so much backbone, and you can't buy that experience. And you know Taylor. You like her. Do that — there's plenty of time for a second record."
  • "He's such a good musician that he will not be satisfied with just playing on his own. And on the new album, x, he didn't want to put "Sing" first. Pharrell has had so much success recently. I'm worried people are going to be burned out by him." I said, "Listen, it's a song that people don't expect from you. If you want to put out 'Don't' first, it's gonna take a while to get up the charts. If you put 'Sing' out first, it will go straight in, and it will be the biggest thing on radio you've had so far." Every record he put out before that, "The A Team" and "Lego House," they took a long time to get up the charts. I think that "The A Team" took a year, and they wouldn't put him on the Grammys. I said to them, "Listen, I'll do a duet with him on 'The A Team.'" That got him on the Grammys because that's what I do. I'm a manager. It was a vital move for him."
  • "But I just give him advice. I've been around for so long and I know the scene. I knew that "Sing" should be the first single, and of course, it worked. He emailed to say, "Thank you so much." He says thank you. He listens. I'm doing it to make sure his career goes the right way. I'm very good at that."
  • RS: It's amazing that he plays stadiums with just an acoustic guitar and no band. I've never seen that done before.
  • EJ: That's unique. I mean, I played Madison Square Garden on my own, but he did Wembley Stadium three nights, which was 85,000 people a night on his own. It's astonishing. It's very brave. But sooner or later, he's gonna have to get some other musicians. He's such a good musician that he will not be satisfied with just playing on his own. I tell him that it's great for a while, but then the novelty wears off. Playing with other musicians will give him a whole new twist, and I think he'll love that, but for the moment he's very happy doing what he does. But putting on my management hat, that has to change soon."

anonymous asked:

I'm going to my first convention in a week or so, and I'm a bit nervous. Not really for the actual con, but because it's the first time I'll be going in public in my cosplay (Dave Strider, by the way), and I'm kinda worried something bad might happen. I don't know why. Dave, you glorious coolkid, teach me your ways!


aint no way to teach you to be me

but thats not a bad thing cause theres no way I could be you either

dont worry about trying to be me and just be you

(man that sounded weird but whatever)

you are your own kind of cool kid and THATS why youll rock this cosplay

not that I can officially condone cosplay that isnt at least a little ironic

but what does it matter what i think?

just have fun

sarangkaeyon  asked:

Don't worry, I'm okay :-) It's just that I have no idea what to request >_< so, let me try again: How would the 4-hyung line from Got7 (do I have to precise? XD) react to seeing you in a swimsuit for the first time? Can I ask for Gif + reaction, please? *-* Thank you~

YOUUPII :D i’m glad you’re fine :D

alright let’s do this :3 

Mark: where do you think you’re going that way?

there is no way any other guy would see this except for me !! come her ;D

Jaebum: i don’t think we’re leaving the house tonight babe ~~

i’ve got much better things to do ;D

Jackson: GOD YOU’RE SOO HOT *excited* i didn’t know that 

i don’t want to go to the beach any more , let’s go some where else?

you: stop it Jackson -_-

*he stops but keeps peeking at you from time to time*

are you sure ? sure? no? hein?


you’re not expecting me to let anyone see you like that hein?

& thanks for always requesting the hyung line :3 i feel happy writing about my Jinyoungie ♥

(as always, gifs not mine. Cr. to owners)