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anonymous asked:

It's bothering me how upset I feel about i feel about mikeys new video😒 I know they didn't mean any harm, I'm just really disappointed in them all. I don't even know why I'm coming to you on this but I needed to let it out xxx

See okay I must have an unpopular opinion because I literally don’t care. Like obviously to each their own and I see why people are upset/offended, but I don’t care at all. I don’t love the trend but, the way I see it (and a lot of other YouTubers have said the same), people are getting mad about smash or pass but no one said anything about fuck marry kill where you’re literally choosing to kill someone lol. Like, I play games like smash or pass and fuck marry kill with my friends ALL THE TIME. Whether it’s about boys from school or YouTubers or other celebs, we play it all the time. The only difference is these are three hot, single boys on YouTube and me and my friends are just 19 year old girls sitting in my basement eating ice cream and talking about boys.

And I see a lot of people saying “their main audience is young girls” and you know we say that about TONS of YouTubers but when they look at their own analytics, that’s not true. Most viewers are 18+. And anyway, they started YouTube to put out what they wanted to do. They’re not responsible for making PG content if that’s not what they want to put out. It’s like when Louise started talking about sex and hook ups and relationships. She acknowledges that she has younger viewers but she’s still going to talk about what she wants to talk about, because it’s her channel and that’s why she made it.

So I totally get why people are upset. I 100% get it, but personally it doesn’t bother me. They are 20 something year old boys who are talking and acting like 20 something year old boys do. Maybe it’s derogatory. Maybe they shouldn’t put it online, but there are a lot worse things on the internet and to get mad or upset or hurt about this seems… I don’t know. I don’t know. Like I said I understand why some people are upset about it, but you have to understand that you subscribed to horny bachelors and you’re going to get content that reflects that. I saw some people unsubscribe from Mikey in the comments and that’s insane to me. If that’s what’s making you unsubscribe, damn. Maybe you shouldn’t have subscribed to the buttercreams in the first place. They’re not angels. They’re 20 year old boys doing and talking about things that 20 year old boys do.

Sorry. I respect your feelings and everyone else’s, but to see people getting genuinely upset about it and unsubscribing to Mikey or yelling at him in the comments makes me wonder if people are just becoming overly sensitive about certain things.

Smash or pass: all of the buttercreams?

IM SMASHING EVERY SINGLE ONE. THEY’RE HOT AS FUCK. See? I’ve objectified them and I put it on the Internet. We all do it. They’re humans, not reincarnations of Jesus.

Things to know about Killing Stalking

To every story, there are both pros and cons. A story like Killing stalking is no different. Now, Killing Stalking wasn’t a story that I was going to get into, honestly. There were so many bad things that I had heard about it, and so I was shying away from it. However. Today I took the time to sit down and read it, and now I’m here to share my thoughts in an analysis- type thing. Now, of course take my words with a grain of salt, because I’m obviously not the author, so I don’t know the exact details of everything. If you want to continue reading though, everything will be under the cut!

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can’t do a read more cause im on my phone but uhhh

tw discussion of family, sexual abuse, racism/fetishization, ummm i think that’s mostly it
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i dont have the energy to go into a long rant ((EDIT: well….. this clearly turned out longer than expected)) cause i had three different heart-to-hearts tonight but. turns out my step dad (the one who sexually abused me? yes the very same one) has watched every single lecture that jordan peterson, the far right anti-sjw psychology professor at university of toronto, has posted online. he wanted to talk to me about them, and asked what it was like to be in one of his lectures. i want to fucking die

the other heart to heart was with my step-sisters (my biological dad’s step-kids) about all the narcissistic and offensive shit my biological dad does. i told them that he doesnt talk about himself nonstop because he actually loves himself, but because he hates himself. in fact he doesnt love anybody. which is unfortunate for both me and their mother. it’s also why he verbally and emotionally abused me, and cheated on all his other girlfriends. me and my stepsisters also talked about how their mom is way more meek when he’s around and i was like yeah well i bet he encourages it because it fits his asian house wife fantasy… like you should see the fucked up porn in his browsing history… this convo lasted about 4 hours and we were all just sitting on the kitchen floor

and finally i had a 2 hour conversation in the car with my mom where we cried bc she said she regretted getting together with my stepdad cause she didnt realize he would be bad for me. she did it originally bc she wanted me to have a bigger family than just her after she divorced my dad, in case she died and i would be alone. ive decided to try to reconcile with my stepdad in the spirit of this. i just have to like. figure out how to ignore that he thinks sjws are a plague on humanity. and that he talks about nothing else. and that his daughter is starting to say homophobic shit. i love my little sister but like. anyway

tomorrow i plan to have lunch with my dad and subtly bring up the issues raised by my stepsisters. they’re worried about their mom and they want him to stop imitating asian accents. i have literally told him over two dozen times to stop, in every way imaginable, but he continues. he thinks im being a sensitive sjw because he doesn’t believe me when i say that they’ve asked me to keep telling him. i dont know how else i can get it across to him???? he actually thinks he’s so progressive though, and i think that’s the problem. also my sisters’ boyfriends hate him but there isn’t much i can do about that now. and he’s always embarrassing himself at the filipino community gatherings because he like… thinks he’s one of them? hes oblivious, and is constantly an intruder.

also my step sisters literally clean up after his every mess like he’s an infant. they pick up his garbage as soon as he gets up and he gets angry at them for cleaning his shit off the table. he called home yesterday and made them print off hundreds of little stickers for his election while he was away at work cause he printed off the wrong ones. like these girls aren’t your servants!! and then he asked to borrow their mom’s car, and when they asked if he would drive them to work on his way to his campaign, he complained to me in the angriest, pissiest of voices that everyone was making demands on him. like………. i want him to just fucking……….

anyway this all sounds like a bad night but ive gotten even closer with my sisters (we decided even if our parents break up we’re gonna stay friends) and sorted some stuff out with my mom, who is the most important person in the world to me. i mean im extra pissed tonight that she got together with my step dad after he sexually abused me but what can you do.

this probably sounds really robotic and weird i just? lots of stuff has happened tonight and i needed to get it out.

likes are always really appreciated if you read the whole thing!! ❤❤ i hope u have a good day and talk to people u love

oh ps. i also found out that the like twelve times i had a conversation with my dad this year while i was away at school, was actually my step sister and stepmom suggesting he contact me. he loves bragging about the fact that i go to university of toronto but he doesn’t want to talk to me. nbd in the grand scheme of things bc i don’t care if he calls me cause the only thing he talks about is himself but yeah. and also he lied to them that my mom cheated on him when actually he cheated on her (why would your new gf’s kids need to know this in the first place??). and he told them the reason i admire and still talk to his ex-gf was that she was so successful and i didnt have a successful female role model to look up to (apparently my mom doesnt count, and i can’t admire my other mother figures for their own fucking merits).

my dad also said my mom “probably cries just to hear the kind of world i get to live in… if she understands at all.” like uh considering she’s the parent i talk to daily? i think she gets it? and i was like “why would she cry?” and he was like “you’re living the life she wishes she could lead”…… like actually no im living the life YOU wish you could lead. she always just wanted a big happy family and you fucking ruined that for her haha. but NICE PROJECTING THERE BUDDY. not to mention the condescension. anyway that last bit happened like a month ago but im still mad lol

💕 Thank You 💕

Thank you for sticking with me so far ;v;! I know a lot of you followed me because of Kylux and Techienician. (It’s not that i don’t love them but my interest do change from time to time. I know once Episode 8 come back in December i’ll probably draw them more.)

But right now my ships are simply rare? Lol and more toward Star Wars Rebels characters..(Lyste, Zeb, Kallus, Thrawn..etc). So i won’t get offend if you need to unfollow me because of that. But for those who stay, thank you. Thank you for the reblogs, likes, and simple talking to me ;v;. (I’m very timid and get anxious a lot but i really do like talking to people.)

What can i say…Thrawn is a big fan too. Veers hold him back!

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anonymous asked:

Hey girl, tell Tumblr to quit unfollowing you!! I lub you too much! (Don't worry I have notifications on so after a while of you "not posting" I start to notice lol) butttt in that post of bug, ready to risk it all (lmfao) where can I find the skippy peanut butter behind her on the counter? Thank you lovely!

#1: u have notifications on FOR ME?? ;’’’)) omFG thats so amazing….i love u

find the peanut butta here!

anonymous asked:

Hey I'm just curious as to why you personally think aro/ace people belong in the lgbt+ community. Cuz I'm on the Ace spectrum but personally don't feel like I belong in the community since I'm still straight and Cis. (Not trying to be rude or anything, just curious)

ah I didn’t want to answer this publicly but it’s anon so I have to, and I do want to answer it since it’s just a polite question ^^;

First of all, I don’t want to try and tell you that you should feel connected to the lgbt community if you don’t. Even if I have questions about your reasoning, I can’t make you feel that way and I’m not here to try and tell you what you should feel because that’s none of my business.

To me, ‘asexual’ and ‘aromantic’ are valid lgbt+ identities just as ‘pansexual’ and ‘gay’ are. It defines a type of attraction that works differently from heterosexuality. 

For example, someone might be straight romantically but they are asexual. This can make relationships challenging and sometimes frightening for ace people. I’m not the Ace/Aro Representative of course, I’m just speaking from my point of view and from what I’ve heard from others like me. 

Speaking as someone on the ace/aro spectrum (although I’m not straight), I have always felt like something was wrong with me, and I have never felt valid for not experiencing attraction the way people are “supposed to”. As a kid I would go out of my way to act as though I was not on the ace/aro spectrum. This caused me constant discomfort, loneliness, and a fear of relationships. 

What I’m trying to say is that it’s different than what is socially acceptable. It’s different and it’s isolating. It isn’t a choice. I actually often wonder if there’s anything I can do medically to get rid of it so that relationships would be easier for me. 

Here are some arguments I’ve seen against my stance:

  • Ace/aro people don’t experience the same level of oppression as other members of the lgbt community, so we can’t afford to support them. AKA: they don’t face violent transphobia or homophobia
  • Straight ace/aro people are just special snowflake straight people trying to get into the community. AKA: they’re basically straight.

Here are my responses to both of these:

  • Some people in the lgbt community have more privilege than others. That’s just how it is. It isn’t a competition to see who is the most hated. A white afab person (like me) is not going to experience oppression like a black trans woman does. I’m not exactly over here fearing for my life, but that doesn’t make me less included in the community. Ace/aro people have their own struggles related to their identity. We each have different obstacles.
  • People don’t associate themselves with the lgbt community for the heck of it. They might not know whether or not they belong, but their identity that caused them to wonder exists whether they like it or not. When I was running an lgbt network, I had straight aces and aro aces ask me if they were allowed to join. They weren’t intruders, they were looking for a place where they could feel accepted. I let them join without question. This was at a time when the ace discourse did not yet exist.

To summarize, I view ace and aro as identities separate from the heterosexuality that is expected of us. Being ace or aro is not a choice and it causes us to be separated from straight people who aren’t ace/aro. The identity comes with obstacles; it’s not just a walk in the park. 

I see a lot of ace/aro positivity on and off of Tumblr. When I went to my first pride event, you could buy asexual flags. When you sign up for some lgbt sites and apps, asexual is a valid option for identifying yourself. To me that says that asexuality is an lgbt identity, even when a few people on Tumblr are saying it isn’t. 

(To clarify about who’s speaking here, in case you don’t follow me or you’re a new follower, I’m afab and I like girls so I was already a part of the lgbt community before I knew I was on the ace/aro spectrum. Also I didn’t come to this stance right away, I did seriously consider the other side. I talked to my friends about it, and it sorta haunted me for a while. But now I’m firm in this belief.)

/ the end

Alright, those are my thoughts. I have seen discussions that explain these points a lot better than I just did, but I was trying to keep a balance of simple yet descriptive. I wrote this intending to explain my thoughts because I have largely stayed out of the discourse but wanted to take a minute to both answer your question and just put my opinions out there. Sorry that this is kind of long. I don’t really want to talk about it any more, so if you have more questions, maybe consult with some other people who reblogged that post?

Thanks for asking and reading!

fic snippets

Sorry I haven’t been posting much on this account. There’s been a lot going on IRL, so I’ve been a bit preoccupied overall. Thank you to those of you who are still sticking around though! Before I wrote fic for Zestiria, I’ve only had a handful of followers and now there’s more of you (if I don’t count the bots…lol). It’s both a bit unnerving and nice (?!) since I’m not used to having this many followers for my writing…

AnYWAY, I’m slowly working on a few stories and hope to finish up at least one fic in the weeks to come sorry my writing rhythm is really inconsistent adksjkhjf

Till then, here are a few (unedited) snippets, if you’re interested. Putting under a cut for length:

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anonymous asked:

You support obesity? That's disgusting. There are so many obese children it's becoming an epydemy but I guess you think it's better to eat as much food as everyone want because who heard about self control? This is the last time I'm on your blog.

I am not sure when I said that I support obesity??? I said I liked the post because losing weight is difficult and it promoted positive thinking about losing weight???? Of course, I don’t support people having health issues. Losing weight is difficult but that doesn’t mean people can’t do it or shouldn’t do it? I just don’t think losing weight should be an obsession because that is also unhealthy.

But okay? If you want to jump to conclusions and assume me talking about WEIGHT LOSS POSITIVITY is me supporting obesity, that’s cool?

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Kingsley’s snapchat story is the actual cutest thing ever

anonymous asked:

Get the fuck over yourself. You pretend to be this nice open person but really you just shit on people who don't agree with you and are such an attention seeker. Maybe you don't get tons of likes on your fan fics because they aren't as good as you think they are. I am so tired of seeing you pop up in my dash. I've had to unfollow some who reblog your shit bc its so annoying at this point.

Sorry I keep appearing on your dash. Block me. It’s what I do with people I don’t like. It’s pretty easy. I could make you some screenshots on how to do it. And lol, attention seeker. Why are any of us here? To hide?

And yeah, shitting on people… Me having an opinion that’s different than someone else’s is not me shitting on them. I always state that people I disagree with are free to their opinion. And I’ve never sent anon hate - I never even send anons unless it’s to my friends and I’m drunk and they know it’s me. So… which one of us is the real asshole?

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