So I very recently realized that I'm bi and no matter how much I want to and try, I can't come to terms with it. I grew up in a strong Christian household, and the whole "being gay is a sin, but we can still love gay people" mentality is just so frustrating but it's what I've always been taught and I don't know how or if I will ever be ok with being gay and I'm just so angry and frustrated at myself for not being ok with being me. I'm sorry. I just needed to vent.
I am not religious and I really wish I could help you here but thankfully my reach for wlw of all kinds is vast and I have some religious wlw friends that have some words of advice!!