don't put up with bullshit

its been said before but this is a daily reminder that mental illness does not excuse toxic behavior

it can offer an explanation, but you cannot treat someone with cruelty and then just like “well sorry it’s my mental illness i can’t help it”

i don’t have a solution, because i know that mental illness by nature can be difficult or impossible to control, but do not let a friend or partner or parent or anyone be a dick to you and say that you have to put up with it because that’s just how they are

or even worse, guilt trip you about being upset with them

i am saying this as someone with a diagnosed mental illness that im on medication for:

mental illness does NOT give anyone the right to treat you badly

and if someone tries to excuse their toxic behavior by claiming it’s mental illness and they cannot help it, that’s a red fucking flag

i don’t see how anyone is surprised that marlene killed yvonne so spoby could happen. it was pretty fucking obvious that she wasn’t going to stick around from the start. it’s rushed, it’s shitty writing, it’s problematic as hell, and yvonne and spoby both deserved a far better resolution. 

But come on, this is the writing team that decided romance was having caleb and spencer fall in love for half a season only for caleb to cheat on her with hanna and then claim he’s loved hanna all along, who are still romanticizing a teacher/student relationship that, even looking past all it’s other transgressions, continues to be boring af, who think the best way to put emily and alison together, the slowburn ship to end all slowburn ships who would have had no trouble being brought together naturally, is to introduce two other girls for emily and then inject emily’s eggs into alison in a complete and utter violation of both girls bodies. 

like, did you expect better from the writers? really? if you didn’t see this coming i don’t know what to tell you. 

Shout out to all the teens who know they don't want children and have to put up with the bullshit people who tell you you're not old enough to make that decision or that you're going to change your mind
My Opinion on the Zodiacs
  • Aries: Crazy bitches; lovable but god sometimes it's hard. Don't know whether they are about to yell or cry.
  • Taurus: Super awesome great perfect. A lottle materialistic, kind of stubborn, and makes friends when they are given food.
  • Gemini: I love Gemini's. Complicated on the outside, simpler on the inside. Don't talk about feelings bc they have so much they couldn't possibly describe.
  • Cancer: The perfect parent. Caring, protective, but catch onto and don't put up with bullshit. Usually funny and already know their zodiac sign
  • Leo: These fireballs go from gentle warmth, nurturing the Earth, to damn near roasting it in a second. Emotional, and yet deny emotion. Usually fun and flirty.
  • Virgo: The nerd friend who gets most of what they know from books or other people. Plays an instrument, reads the instructions but substitutes something different if they know better.
  • Libra: Not as balanced as you may think, they search for it more than find it. Indecisive and patient; hard to frustrate. Loves to care for people and will often sacrifice even needlessly.
  • Scorpio: Also emotional, but has no trouble hiding it. Come in a wide variety and it's often hard to point one out. If you want to get close to a Scorp be ready to be more open than them.
  • Saggitarius: The party guy of the zodiacs. Likes to have fun, go on adventures, and take risks. Never holds a grudge, and is usually an open book.
  • Capricorn: The perfect blend of capri-sun and corn. Maybe you like it maybe you don't. That is all.
  • Aquarius: Argumentative grammar Nazi's who can never keep an opinion to themselves. Some how still lovable. Frustrating yet funny.
  • Pisces: All you sweethearts out there, a thumbs up to you. If you've been hurt, it's okay to take a break but remember who you are.

There are so many things kids should never have to go through or even witness

ooc:: today was the biggest clusterfuck and i frustrated cried myself to headache levels. the incompetence of some people is incredible and tl;dr back to square one in the job department. so hey if you have cute asks or questions or something, fire them my way because hah; i need ‘em right now.

I’m just like, not here for cis male sexuality at all. Like, I don’t care what men do or what men want. I engage with men on my terms and my terms only. The less they act entitled to, the more willing I am to share. Unless I have specifically asked or shared something, I do not caaaare what men think about me or my body. If I don’t know you, don’t talk to me about anything that might even be tangential to your interest in sex. My time, energy, and attention does not exist for random men’s appreciation or use, and I don’t want it to.

So tldr: Don’t ask for anything more than I’m offering and don’t talk to me about my body unless we’re already talking or already friends. That content, whatever it was, wasn’t an invitation. ✌🏼️

Reminder....

Never put up with bullshit abuse, not from your fucking mum, your boyfriend, your cousin, your best friend, NO ONE

You are fucking special, you are so special and you NEVER EVER EVER DESERVE TO BE HURT. Don’t let anyone trick you into thinking that you should accept abuse of any kind. You fucking run, you get out and you get safe and you find support, even if that takes time.

Don’t forget. You never deserve to be hurt by anyone.

forehead touches, amirite?

The Tezuka-is-so-done-with-your-Bullshit Photoset

  • psychic: reads my mind
  • my mind: You know, I get it. Being raised as a superstar must be really, really difficult for you. Always a commodity, never a human being, not a single person in your family thinking you're worth a damn off the court -- yeah, sounds rough. Kevin and I talk about your intricate daddy issues all the time. I know it's not entirely your fault that you are mentally unbalanced and infected with these delusions of grandeur, and I know you're physically incapable of holding a decent conversation with anyone like every other normal human being can, but I don't think any of us should have to put up with your bullshit. Pity only gets you so many concessions, and you used yours up about six insults ago. So please, please, just shut the fuck up and leave us alone.
  • psychic: what the fuck
good morning world

and to the punk who compared me to donald trump because I dont want to share my reasoning for talking shit about a cartoon character before I blocked them, go fuck yourself.

you wanna know why im mad at ford that badly, huh??? I was good and ready to keep this bullshit off of tumblr so everyone could be happy but apparently that’s not good enough for you. APPARENTLY I have to explain every aspect of my life that disagrees with how you feel or else im the worst person alive.

cliffnotes version, last year was extremely tough for me. I was dealing with an emotionally abusive relationship and the trauma I still suffered afterword, self-harm, poor performance in school, constant emotional breakdowns, and a heaping helping of mental health issues.

it was also the year I got back into gravity falls! and over time dipper and mabel became like comfort objects to me, something I could hold on to through all of that. I see a lot of myself in both of them, and I’m very protective of them. they are immensely important to me. so yeah, when damvtf aired, I freaked out! I saw someone encouraging dipper to throw himself into danger and hurt himself further for the sake of knowledge, and someone brushing mabel aside, calling her “suffocating”, and I watched her fall to the ground with no promise as to whether or not she would be ok. I was beyond devastated.

and whether or not you, personally, think that’s true or that it was fords fault, has nothing to do with this. I don’t care. I’m not going to come after you like you’ve come after me. the bare fact of the matter is, for VERY PERSONAL REASONS, dipper and mabel both helped me cope with a really shitty point in my life, and I saw ford as a threat to that. hell, maybe I even know in the rational part of my brain that what I feel about him is kinda unreasonable!! but who fuckin cares!!! he’s not a real person he’s a cartoon character!!!!

and like, in the flip side of that, if you are someone who is a fan of ford, maybe even uses ford to cope the way I do with the twins, I respect that. I will not try to bring you down. the worst I’m gonna do is vagueblog about the community on twitter, which I have a right to. I’m not attacking anyone.

and I am so sick and tired of being forced to explain my personal life in order to justify a harmless opinion. I’ve had to do this so many times at this point. why do you care? why do you fucking care, so much that you put this energy into trying to make me feel bad, into forcing me to write huge posts like this? I’m so tired of it. I want to be allowed to talk frankly about how I feel without being demonized for it, especially when I’m doing it on a completely different website than this one.

  • Snowbarry fans: I just don't understand what iris purpose is
  • Westallen fans: iris-
  • Snowberry fans: I don't like iris, idk why, but I know I don't
  • Westallen fan: well actu-
  • Snowbarry fans: her character isn't really necessary, ya know?
  • WA fans: no, she's a hu-
  • SB fans: she doesn't understand Barry
  • WA fans: but she's been his bes-
  • SB fans: she doesn't have any chemistry with Barry
  • WA fans: um, they casted Candice be-
  • SB fans: she's in love with the flash NOT Barry
  • WA fans: are you even--
  • SB: Caitlin on the other hand, she understands him better
  • WA fans: .......
  • SB fans: I kinda wish Danielle was playing iris, she feels more right
  • WA fans: Fuck this bullshit, we don't have to put up with this anymore.
  • SB fans: .......
  • SB fans: um, I don't understand why we can't all just get along haha #healtheworld #makeitabetterplace
things i’ve learned about rp

It’s okay to stop RPing with someone if:

  • they don’t reply on a consistent schedule, or
  • they pressure you to reply more quickly than you can
  • their roleplaying style doesn’t work with yours
  • the way they treat you upsets you
  • they don’t communicate with you

It might seem petty, but if you’re roleplaying to have fun, there’s no reason you need to sit around and complain about your partner all the time. You don’t need to give them another chance.

It’s okay to tell them your current RP relationship isn’t working out. If what you want from the relationship isn’t what they want or can provide, then it’s okay to break things off.

It took me way too long to learn this of people in real life, and too long to learn this for people in the RP community. I don’t expect everyone’s style to match mine, or schedule to work with mine, or reply length or speed to be what I want it to be, but I have a right to stop roleplaying with someone or refuse to roleplay with someone because I know it’s not going to work out.

god it’s almost like dating, isn’t it. jesus.

anonymous asked:

Well now, what about Minkounoi where it's Mink's turn to get dped?

 /finally stops being a piece of shit and gets around to answering asks (i’m sorry this took like two weeks lmao).

 okay so when the idea of dp-ing mink is brought up, it’s a suggestion made by both noiz and koujaku. at first, mink’s a little taken aback because, i mean, he’s bottomed for them once before, and it wasn’t terrible or anything, but koujaku and noiz had agreed that it was sort of a waste not putting mink’s huge dick to its proper use. so yeah, the suggestion was definitely kind of a shock. mink agreed to it nonetheless. 

 when they get to the bedroom and are settled on the bed, mink takes it upon himself to do everything, seeing as how koujaku was already freaking out the moment mink said yes and noiz was probably going to get too ahead of himself. they’re not going to complain though since the sight of mink sitting on his knees fingering his own ass was quite an enjoyable one. 

 once sufficiently prepped, noiz, looking like he’s already about to bust a nut, is quick to get behind mink and start rutting between his ass cheeks, making extra sure his piercings are rubbing against mink’s hole. mink just grunts and pushes him back with an “oi, get ahold of yourself,” and of course noiz doesn’t listen and just glues himself back to mink’s ass and continues with his rutting. not expecting anything less, he just calls koujaku over to sit up against the headboard. once he’s settled, mink struggles with removing noiz from his person before he silently makes his way over to koujaku until he’s settled right over his dick. he’s about ready to sink down onto it, tip of the dick already perfectly aligned with his hole, until noiz interrupts him with a “wait,” and goes off into another room and comes back hiding something behind his back. mink eyes him suspiciously and when he feels the familiar coldness of metal on his wrists and cloth around his eyes, he just smirks and lets noiz do as he wishes. 

 once noiz finishes tying the knot for the blindfold, always eager, he’s the first to push into mink from. koujaku’s a little jealous noiz gets to go first since it was supposed to be him but whatever, he’ll be the mature one here. and mink groaning on top of him was good enough compensation anyway. 

 when noiz is fully sheathed in him, he had pushed mink over a little so he had ended up chest to chest with koujaku. with mink panting above him, koujaku takes that opportunity to share an open mouth kiss with him while he plays with mink’s nipple (which are almost as sensitive as koujaku’s. /eyebrow wiggle) and jerks him off with the other hand. 

 noiz starts giving shallow thrusts until he hears mink groaning louder and starts giving longer, harsher thrusts. 

 when he feels like he’s about to cum, he slows down before he eventually stops because, oh yeah, koujaku exists. feeling guilty (on some level) that he forgot about him, he pulls mink up so he’s sitting straight and assists koujaku with getting his dick inside mink. not before he teases koujaku a little though by stroking his cock and purposely digging the pad of his finger into the slit. koujaku hisses and is about to tell noiz to fuck right the hell off the planet, but instead a groan passes his lips as mink bears down on him. mink is so damn tight and noiz’s piercings are rubbing against his dick in the most delicious of ways that he can barely breathe. he feels a little bad though because he can see mink’s eyebrows furrowing so he pulls hi down and litters his face with kisses. his forehead, his eyelids covered by the bindfold, his cheek, nose, jaw, chin, and finally his lips. mink appreciates the light kisses but wants more, so he tries reaching for the back of koujaku’s head but he’s stopped when he hears the clinking of the handcuffs. noiz laughs but mink just brushes it off and tries his best to aim for koujaku’s lips again. he misses though and ends up kissing the corner of his mouth and koujaku can’t help but laugh as well and before mink can reprimend him he gives him what he wants and they share a deep kiss. 

 they both vaguely register a “don’t forget about me,” until noiz starts giving light thrusts and fuck, fuck, fuck, does that feel good. koujaku then follows suit until eventually their both thrusting rather harshly into mink, who’s sitting up on his knees as his thighs are starting to strain. noiz is close to cumming but refuses to do so until he finds mink’s prostrate. when mink let’s out a moan too loud for his liking, noiz and koujaku know that they found it and their thrusts get even harder. 

 when mink cums before the two of them, noiz has this shit eating grin on and although mink can’t see it he just knows, and he grits his teeth to keep from saying anything (even though he really wants to).  

 koujaku and noiz follow soon after and cum in unison. trying to milk themselves as much as they can, they continue with shallow thrusts. when they slip out, some of their cum starts dripping down mink’s thighs and fuck if that isn’t the sexiest thing… 

 unable to help himself, noiz pushes mink down and rubs his finger against mink’s sensitive hole before he bends down to lick at the semen dripping out. koujaku looks absolutely scandalized but says nothing as he undoes mink’s blindfold. mink shoots noiz a look that could kill but noiz just pulls back, scoops up some of the cum still dripping out of mink’s ass with his index, and says “that was fun,” before he licks it off. 

8

Stop the guys who broke in here. Right now.
- Why should I?