don't put up with bullshit

its been said before but this is a daily reminder that mental illness does not excuse toxic behavior

it can offer an explanation, but you cannot treat someone with cruelty and then just like “well sorry it’s my mental illness i can’t help it”

i don’t have a solution, because i know that mental illness by nature can be difficult or impossible to control, but do not let a friend or partner or parent or anyone be a dick to you and say that you have to put up with it because that’s just how they are

or even worse, guilt trip you about being upset with them

i am saying this as someone with a diagnosed mental illness that im on medication for:

mental illness does NOT give anyone the right to treat you badly

and if someone tries to excuse their toxic behavior by claiming it’s mental illness and they cannot help it, that’s a red fucking flag

i don’t see how anyone is surprised that marlene killed yvonne so spoby could happen. it was pretty fucking obvious that she wasn’t going to stick around from the start. it’s rushed, it’s shitty writing, it’s problematic as hell, and yvonne and spoby both deserved a far better resolution. 

But come on, this is the writing team that decided romance was having caleb and spencer fall in love for half a season only for caleb to cheat on her with hanna and then claim he’s loved hanna all along, who are still romanticizing a teacher/student relationship that, even looking past all it’s other transgressions, continues to be boring af, who think the best way to put emily and alison together, the slowburn ship to end all slowburn ships who would have had no trouble being brought together naturally, is to introduce two other girls for emily and then inject emily’s eggs into alison in a complete and utter violation of both girls bodies. 

like, did you expect better from the writers? really? if you didn’t see this coming i don’t know what to tell you. 

Shout out to all the teens who know they don't want children and have to put up with the bullshit people who tell you you're not old enough to make that decision or that you're going to change your mind
My Opinion on the Zodiacs
  • Aries: Crazy bitches; lovable but god sometimes it's hard. Don't know whether they are about to yell or cry.
  • Taurus: Super awesome great perfect. A lottle materialistic, kind of stubborn, and makes friends when they are given food.
  • Gemini: I love Gemini's. Complicated on the outside, simpler on the inside. Don't talk about feelings bc they have so much they couldn't possibly describe.
  • Cancer: The perfect parent. Caring, protective, but catch onto and don't put up with bullshit. Usually funny and already know their zodiac sign
  • Leo: These fireballs go from gentle warmth, nurturing the Earth, to damn near roasting it in a second. Emotional, and yet deny emotion. Usually fun and flirty.
  • Virgo: The nerd friend who gets most of what they know from books or other people. Plays an instrument, reads the instructions but substitutes something different if they know better.
  • Libra: Not as balanced as you may think, they search for it more than find it. Indecisive and patient; hard to frustrate. Loves to care for people and will often sacrifice even needlessly.
  • Scorpio: Also emotional, but has no trouble hiding it. Come in a wide variety and it's often hard to point one out. If you want to get close to a Scorp be ready to be more open than them.
  • Saggitarius: The party guy of the zodiacs. Likes to have fun, go on adventures, and take risks. Never holds a grudge, and is usually an open book.
  • Capricorn: The perfect blend of capri-sun and corn. Maybe you like it maybe you don't. That is all.
  • Aquarius: Argumentative grammar Nazi's who can never keep an opinion to themselves. Some how still lovable. Frustrating yet funny.
  • Pisces: All you sweethearts out there, a thumbs up to you. If you've been hurt, it's okay to take a break but remember who you are.

i decided to start doing a “quick” (limiting myself to two hours per drawing) daily sketch and figured why not put them on here too. ofc onew had to be the first one i drew too~ 

so here’s 1/? ^^

anonymous asked:

Cats don't put up with all the bullshit that most dogs will tolerate so that means they're awful and hate humans

If an animal has boundaries that means its disrespectful

i swear to the fuckin Lordt

The Tezuka-is-so-done-with-your-Bullshit Photoset

There’s nothing wrong with having relationship dealbreakers and it’s perfectly healthy to have them, but the woman who wrote that anti-cat article comes off as the same kind of person that my abusive ex was. She hates cats, so obviously anyone who likes cats are dumbasses being manipulated by social conditioning into liking cats. I wouldn’t be surprised if she’s like this with video games or improv or anything else on her list of 49 dealbreakers. (Which she dedicates herself to reading every month, like, that doesn’t seem… healthy?) People who berate and ridicule others for liking things that they don’t like, even harmless hobbies and pet preferences, are some of the most exhausting people to be around. Take it from someone who put up with that shit for almost 3 years: your partner doesn’t have to share all of your interests or hobbies, but if they disrespect you for having them? Run.

anonymous asked:

So me and my boyfriend have been together for 18 months and lately I feel like he's caring less and less about me... we've had a lot of fights during our relationship, he's lied to me a countless number of times but I can't seem to leave him because I actually love him so much! I can't imagine my life without him but I don't know how much longer I can put up with his bullshit 😭

i can only tell you one thing . leave him . no matter how much you love him , that amounts to nothing if he isn’t good for you .

  • psychic: reads my mind
  • my mind: You know, I get it. Being raised as a superstar must be really, really difficult for you. Always a commodity, never a human being, not a single person in your family thinking you're worth a damn off the court -- yeah, sounds rough. Kevin and I talk about your intricate daddy issues all the time. I know it's not entirely your fault that you are mentally unbalanced and infected with these delusions of grandeur, and I know you're physically incapable of holding a decent conversation with anyone like every other normal human being can, but I don't think any of us should have to put up with your bullshit. Pity only gets you so many concessions, and you used yours up about six insults ago. So please, please, just shut the fuck up and leave us alone.
  • psychic: what the fuck
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Stop the guys who broke in here. Right now.
- Why should I?

good morning world

and to the punk who compared me to donald trump because I dont want to share my reasoning for talking shit about a cartoon character before I blocked them, go fuck yourself.

you wanna know why im mad at ford that badly, huh??? I was good and ready to keep this bullshit off of tumblr so everyone could be happy but apparently that’s not good enough for you. APPARENTLY I have to explain every aspect of my life that disagrees with how you feel or else im the worst person alive.

cliffnotes version, last year was extremely tough for me. I was dealing with an emotionally abusive relationship and the trauma I still suffered afterword, self-harm, poor performance in school, constant emotional breakdowns, and a heaping helping of mental health issues.

it was also the year I got back into gravity falls! and over time dipper and mabel became like comfort objects to me, something I could hold on to through all of that. I see a lot of myself in both of them, and I’m very protective of them. they are immensely important to me. so yeah, when damvtf aired, I freaked out! I saw someone encouraging dipper to throw himself into danger and hurt himself further for the sake of knowledge, and someone brushing mabel aside, calling her “suffocating”, and I watched her fall to the ground with no promise as to whether or not she would be ok. I was beyond devastated.

and whether or not you, personally, think that’s true or that it was fords fault, has nothing to do with this. I don’t care. I’m not going to come after you like you’ve come after me. the bare fact of the matter is, for VERY PERSONAL REASONS, dipper and mabel both helped me cope with a really shitty point in my life, and I saw ford as a threat to that. hell, maybe I even know in the rational part of my brain that what I feel about him is kinda unreasonable!! but who fuckin cares!!! he’s not a real person he’s a cartoon character!!!!

and like, in the flip side of that, if you are someone who is a fan of ford, maybe even uses ford to cope the way I do with the twins, I respect that. I will not try to bring you down. the worst I’m gonna do is vagueblog about the community on twitter, which I have a right to. I’m not attacking anyone.

and I am so sick and tired of being forced to explain my personal life in order to justify a harmless opinion. I’ve had to do this so many times at this point. why do you care? why do you fucking care, so much that you put this energy into trying to make me feel bad, into forcing me to write huge posts like this? I’m so tired of it. I want to be allowed to talk frankly about how I feel without being demonized for it, especially when I’m doing it on a completely different website than this one.

homophobia is a lot less “sometimes people don’t like/respect you because you’re gay” & a lot more “society has not been structured to support or even accommodate your relationships or who you are as a person.” oh, and violence. lots of violence. then let’s throw in some self-hatred while we’re at it.

anonymous asked:

If you were offended it's not because I called you a trophy wife but because you're unhappy with the situation you put yourself in. You said it; you don't produce anything and have no plan of doing. Your content with getting this fame by being Cry's gf. Sure you go to college but it seems your neglecting your studies to take part of the internet-fame instead. I asked you if the fame mattered to you and if being (sort of) a trophy wife bothers you. Me calling you what you are doesn't degrade you.

(part 2) I mean if you don’t think being a trophy wife is something positive and you didn’t like me calling you that (couldn’t argue against it either) then maybe my words aren’t the problem but rather your decisions? Your relationship to cry is not a problem but you can’t deny you feed on his fame. Like I said I don’t watch the streams but as I’ve understood it you just joined it as an official member. Before you just played with them from time to time. It’s a big difference when you think about it.

(part 3) Just to clarify you and cry seem happy and are definitely in love. I don’t see a problem here at all. You joining lnc as an official member I don’t get but sure! I was simply wondering if being a youtuber’s version of a trophy wife bothers you. Obviously it does and then maybe you need to look upon yourself and make changes after how you want your life to be. I’m not calling you anything that you obviously can’t say that you’re not. Many things about you can be used to explain a trophy wife.

Alllllllllllright, the only reason  I am posting this shit is to show you all these abuse tactics used by this anon. First, they insult me and degrade me, then they disregard their insulting and degradation by trying to turn it around and invalidate my upset by saying they weren’t actually meaning any offense and use the “it’s what you are - I didn’t call you that, I’m just pointing it out” tactic. 

example here: “Me calling you what you are doesn’t degrade you.”

If anyone tries to pull this bullshit abuse on you, don’t stand for it. Delete that person from your life. Do not stand for anyone trying to invalidate your upset at their abuse.