don't need certain people

Dear harmos,

Please don’t ruin this for Mani by saying insane things and alienating her fanbase from the others. She needs all the support she can get and it needs to come by way of her dancing prowess and overall presence on the show. You can be supportive of Normani without demeaning other people’s favorites okay?



Dinner with Simon? Yes, I can totally see how people think Harry’s been making his own choices without any strings attached.

Even if babygate were to end tomorrow you still could not convince me that they are free.

anyone else noticed the trend here on tumblr of worshipping certain famous women for like a couple months and there being serious hype for them and then like a month later everyone’s ripping into them and talking about how much they hate them

I’m so sorry I’ve been so slow with posting new fics lately, I’ve been really all over the place especially with my mood and it’s been tough to actually get things done but I’m trying I promise. I’m working on Roseville 3 and hoping I can get it done soon and I’ve got a couple other things I’m working on so hopefully something will be finished soon.

hung out with a good friend tonight and after a few drinks and dinner it turned into a big venting session where we each talked about a lot of personal stuff and worked through our problems, and it made me feel sooooo much better. thank god for her.  we just jive really well

i just… yeah.  i’m not broken.  my sis and i will mend eventually, given time.  i’m not crazy for having feelings for my boss.  he’s not in a good mindset, give him time to figure out his life.  money bullshit is temporary, give it time.

it’s hard to just let things go and try to move on and play the waiting game.  but i feel more like a normal person again.  it was cathartic.  i’m going to try and escape from my own head and hang out with people and just focus on friendships for a while.

if sis wants to make up, she will… or it’ll happen somehow.  and if the boss cares about me like i do about him, that’ll eventually make itself known too.  i can deal with that if and when it happens.  fuck it.  and if it doesn’t?  i’ll be fine.

i need to just… remember how i feel right here, right now.  i know it’ll all come back to me tomorrow or the day after.  but right now, i’m cool.  

anonymous asked:

People are socialized to believe penis = male and vagina = female, that's why people assume lesbians "can't/shouldn't" like penises. In my opinion, being a lesbian and refusing to date a woman with a penis is transphobic unless that person has a personal trauma related to penises. People need to question WHY they don't like certain genitalia. If it's because it doesn't "match" the gender of it's owner, the person should acknowledge transphobic and societal-based influences in their preference.

To be completely honest, I don’t like genitalia - whether it’s penises, vaginas, vulvas, testicles, whatever. I’m just not into it. But I’m still intimate with my partner. We just don’t do anything that involves genitalia. That doesn’t make me any less gay. Genitalia isn’t what makes a person or their gender. And it’s really gross when transphobes reduce people to their genitalia