don't let others ruin your day

Greetings Gray-Aces and Ayyyy Asexuals!

Wowie wow is today a special day! Because YOU ARE DEFINITELY VALID!!!!

Screw the discourse here. Screw what people have to say about your sexuality. You know what? You are still V A L I D.


I am so sorry it got especially bad recently. But I’m letting you know you matter. You still matter and it’s not a contest of who has it worse. It’s still about sexuality, it’s just you’re simply “no” or “it will have to depend.” You are valid.

Here are some ace/grey ace celebrities!

•Janeane Garofalo
•Paula Poundstone
•Bradford Cox
•David Jay
•Nikola Tessa (speculated)

Feel free to add more if you’d like! Have a safe day and happy pride month 🏳️‍🌈

Nugganites (Not to be confused with the fabled Nougat Knights, famed in dwarfish mythology as the ancestors who, at the beginning of the world, created the treacle mines and other subterranean sweets.)

Raising Steam.

The dwarfs are one of the most complex and developed races in the Discworld, and this is still incontrovertible canon. This is a book about how the world keeps spinning, about maturity, about preparing for change, about social responsibility, about terrorism and politics and cultural and industrial revolutions, and Sir Terry refused to let that keep him from giving us Nougat Knights.

The signs as quotes
  • Aries: "don't waste sunsets with those who will be Gone by sunrise"
  • Taurus: " don't let us forget that the causes of human actions are usually immeasurably more complex than our explanations for them "
  • Gemini: "this may be a sad chapter but you aren't a sad story"
  • Cancer: "you are a masterpiece don't let scribbles bring you down"
  • Leo: "A flower doesn't think of competing with the flower next to it, it just blooms"
  • Virgo: "have a life that you don't need a vacation from"
  • Libra: "sadness is a creator not a destroyer"
  • Scorpio: " see the light in others and treat them as if that is all you see"
  • Sagittarius: "we assume others show love the same way we do - and if the don't we worry it's not there"
  • Capricorn: "be soft, don't let the world make you hard, don't let the pain make you hate, don't let the bitterness steal your sweetness"
  • Aquarius: "don't ruin a good day by thinking of a bad yesterday"
  • Pisces: "hug me until I forget how terrified I am of everything wrong with my life"
  • -Poiroiti
Preference #83: You're self conscious about your body
  • Michael: Your eyes scanned the computer screen in front of you, pictures of girls with the perfect bodies staring right back at you. You couldn't help but wonder what it would be like if you looked like that, what people would think of you, or even how people would treat you. You sighed and stared down at your own stomach, poking at it. "Babe..." You heard a voice from behind you as you quickly shut your laptop. "Why are you looking at those pictures again?" "Because I wish I looked like them..." You admitted quietly, trying not to cry. Michael engulfed you in his arms and smiled down at you, poking your stomach. "I don't care about that. You're beautiful and you make me happy. I would take you over any of those girls any day. You're healthy and your body is perfect the way it is. Alright?" You nodded your head and cuddled into his chest, smiling the rest of the night.
  • Ashton: "(Y/N), you've been in the bathroom for half an hour, what's wrong?" You heard Ashton's voice from the other side of the door. You quickly wiped your tears and opened the door, revealing Ashton with a worried look on his face. He looked down at you and frowned once he saw your pants. "They don't fit. I'm too fat to wear them." You started to cry once again and he grabbed onto you, stroking your hair. "You're not fat, please don't say that. You're beautiful. I love you and everything about you." He made you look into his eyes and he wiped your tears. "You are an amazing girl and you shouldn't let a pair of jeans ruin your day. You're beautiful, don't let anyone else tell you otherwise."
  • Calum: "I look disgusting." You frowned as you walked out in the bikini you had just bought. You hated wearing bikinis because it showed literally everything. Calum looked over at you and frowned back at you. "You look amazing." "You're just saying that because you're obligated to." You looked at yourself once more in the mirror and groaned, throwing a shirt over top of your body. "No, I'm saying it because you truly do look amazing. You have curves and I love that you do. It makes you adorable and beautiful and I don't know why you can't see that." "But-" "No ifs, ands, or buts, you're beautiful, babe. Always will be."
  • Luke: "If I looked like her you would love me more!" You yelled at Luke and he tugged at his hair, shaking his head. "No, I wouldn't love you more. I love you the way you are now. I fell for you for you, not because of your outer appearance." You turned to him and glared. "So, you do think I'm fat?" "NO!" He groaned and got up and began to walk towards you. "You're beautiful inside and out. You have cute chubby little cheeks and you have an amazing body, regardless of what you think. I love you and will even if you gain or lose weight because my feelings for you aren't because of your weight."
  • A/N: Idk if this is good or not, but yeah. I know how it feels to be self conscious because well we have been there. I used to stare at myself in the mirror and basically pick out every part of me that I hated, but that doesn't help or fix anything. I have just come to terms with my body and learned to accept it. I don't think that weight should be a factor for beauty. If you're a bigger girl, good for you. If you're a thinner girl, good for you, too! Your weight shouldn't define who you are, or even define if you are beautiful or not. Everyone is beautiful in their own way and weight shouldn't be a factor if you are beautiful or not. I know how hard it is sometimes, but honestly it is so much better learning to love your body rather than hating it every day. ANd if you are unhappy with it, do something about it! Eat healthy, workout, maybe go on a diet? Who knows, but if you aren't happy with how your body is then it's up to you to make yourself happy. I feel like I am babbling now, but that's all I really have to say. I love you all and again if you're ever feeling down on yourself send me an ask and we can talk there or if you want my imessage just ask for it (off anon I don't wan't it out there) and we can talk. :)