don't let anybody tell you to stop it

Ya know what grinds my gears about RWBY

When ‘edgy’ rwde RWBY fans:

- Try and blame the bumbleby shippers for the ‘ship war’ between it and [the other ship involving Blake] that’s apparently ruining the show and the three characters, or vice versa ship wise

Because insinuating it’s all our fault will make us feel guilty and hopefully we will shut up [not likely tho]; the whole thing is just our fault because we want our ship to happen just as much as the other side whom of which are not at fault at all. Like almost a ‘war’ doesn’t take two opposing sides to actually happen? Lmao. Nobody is really at fault, except the people that attack others.

- Use them as a reason to not watch it anymore [even though they 'hate it anyway and the writing is awful omg’]

Since the plot that was probably thought up years ago is being ruined by us, even though it 'sucks anyway because Miles and/or Kerry is/are terrible’ and it’s not like two VAs for two of the characters ship it or anything.

- Say 'they only attack the other ships and only want to focus on their ship at all times’

Because I can remember the amount of times I’ve attacked another person for liking a ship [it’s zero], and most people aren’t dickheads, and we shouldn’t be lumped in with the ones that are because that’s bs generalisation. And we all don’t only focus on bumbleby, but for some of us it’s a really big deal that maybe there’s gonna be gay gals that are on screen, and not just in the last scene of the series [cough LoK]. And I think about the whole show but I like to discuss important things to me i.e the ship.

- Claim 'maybe not all of bb shippers are bad but *proceeds to reason why they’re all bad anyway and/or make the ship suffer for a few bad eggs*’

Cool thanks for contradicting yaself, generalising once again and/or making a perfectly reasonable ship seem like it’s shit because some people are mean about it.

- We’re man haters/unreasonably disliking [or insert anything about $un], since ’$un is amazing’

Some people not liking $un that much as a character ≠ man hating/≠ unreasonable. I don’t like all the characters in a show wow I’m a monster.

- Say 'I’m fine with f/f but *here’s why I will not support it anyway*’

If you’re fine with f/f, you don’t have to mention it if you’re disagreeing with the ship for unrelated reason m8!

- Or my favourite: say “the shippers ruined Blake x Yang and I don’t even want it to happen now”

I don’t even know any of these people irl and now I have to watch some people bash a ship because of some random person’s actions I had no control over. Sounds pretty dumb doesn’t it?

- Possibly more stupid bs that is purely subjective opinion they use to try to justify hating the show/a ship/a character.

Apparently we act/are acting like 'entitled brats’ when we want LGBT etc etc representation in the show that has been said by its creators to have it; and we want it in the bumbleby ship. Because somehow, we are forcing them to do it by supporting it, and therefore making the show a piece of shit.

That we are reaching; since [insert any possible evidence for Blck$un] happened and it’s **proof** they’re going to date and that no other ship has a chance.
(if I thought BB was the only option I wouldn’t be discussing it like I do; anything is possible right now).
Literally nothing is canon or set in stone (I promise I don’t say that as a reason to 'disprove’ the legitimatacy of Blck$un as a possibility).

Because two main characters being interested in each other would //ruin the plot//, even though some of the plot has included Yang (and even $un too) being dragged into Blake’s consequences of her past.

And especially, that we are solely responsible for the drama because we are all crazy or just seeing what we want to see.

Because that isn’t exactly what everyone does when they want a ship to happen…?

Let’s be clear:
This goes both ways for anyone who goes around hating (yet some of the reasons would differ).

Going around attacking someone for liking a ship is ludicrous. Spreading hate about a ship is too.

I endeavour to never do that and have been successful. It’s not difficult.
I stay in my tag and all that tumblr shit; I stick to being positive and not including *why another ship won’t happen* as a reason to justify my favourite ship.

Using another ship as a reason to disprove something makes no sense because nobody is correct at this point, we’ve got equal chance of getting what we each want. In the end some of us may end up disappointed, but that’s not happening right now so why can’t we just be civil?

Why should Blck$un shippers suffer because of other shippers? They shouldn’t.
Why should bee shippers suffer because of other shippers? We shouldn’t.

Seriously, any normal person in any ship camp wouldn’t agree with being rude or mean to other people over a ship, or attacking somebody for having different tastes.

Most importantly to me; why should the chance of Bumbleby happening be damaged or suffer, just because a few people are disgruntled because of some assholes that NONE of us sane people agree with?

Don’t let anybody tell you what to ship. Decide for yourself and be positive about it, aim for support and *that’s it*.

Stop the negativity, please.

anonymous asked:

Robert is the worst possible person. He's violating his and Aaron's home by trying to kiss Rebecca there before Aaron even gets a chance to step foot in there as his home. This was meant to be a fresh start for them, but plot device Robert fails to overcome his plot device-ness and show some actual growth and character. He's let Aaron down again. And if you think this won't break Aaron, you don't know him. If Rob was ugly he wouldn't have half as many fans #properboyfriendforaarondingle2k17

Alright, I’ll bite, anon.

It’s so interesting you claim that Robert is the only one letting anybody down here. You don’t think Aaron let Robert down by beating the crap out of Kasim? You don’t think he let Robert down when he jeopardized their future by sabotaging his first statement? You don’t think Aaron is letting Robert down by taking drugs in the first place? You don’t think he’s letting him down by continuing to take the drugs after Liv tells him to stop? You don’t think Aaron is letting Robert down by choosing to lie to him and push him away? You don’t think that Aaron let Robert down when he wasn’t honest from the start about how much Rebecca was bothering him? And finally, you don’t think Aaron let down Robert by putting them in this position in the first place? ‘He’s let Aaron down again,’ is a completely bullshit narrative.

They both are screwing this up. They are both breaking their vows. Aaron promised to be better. Is taking drugs being better? Is lying to Robert being better? You would think that Aaron is completely perfect and has never done anything wrong in this relationship the way people go on and on about Robert’s mistakes.

Just sayin’ we still don’t know what is exactly said in this prison visit that sets Robert off. The gist we get is that Aaron tells Robert he’s worthless to him (Aaron). Kind of sounds like he’s breaking up with Robert as well as giving up on their future. I’m just not going to get all up in arms about scenes I haven’t seen yet. It’s could all be very different. We didn’t know before Aaron put the beatdown on Kasim that Robert was gonna break up with him. It literally was described as crisis talks. So, I’m just gonna wait and see here, before I talk about Robert ‘letting Aaron down.’ 

And oh my god, I cannot believe you literally said that about his looks. Like what is even that argument. People like Robert because he is an imperfect and complex character who is trying his best only to get constantly told it’s not good enough. Sure, his looks play a role, but they also play a role in people liking Aaron as well. Welcome to the world. 

(Plus Aaron has had the boring proper boyfriend like Jackson and Ed…look at how that turned out. See what Vic said on January 19th)

2017:

Be proud, be brave, be unapologetic, write a book, sing a song, draw a picture, hug somebody, kiss somebody, climb a mountain, ride a bike, go sky-diving, watch a sunset, watch a sunrise, hold a puppy, bake a cake, eat your favorite foods, live loud, love louder. Whatever this year stole from you, take it back. Fight. Be whatever you want to be, do whatever you want to do. Spit in the face of adversity. Be proud. Love to live and live to love. Be your own hero, be somebody else’s hero. Don’t stop. Don’t ever stop. Be loud. Be deafening. Don’t stop living, don’t stop loving. Don’t apologize. Be brave.

Advice for the Signs (based on the people I know)
  • Aries: you don't always have to be the hero,take some time to yourself and stop pleasing others,you deserve it.
  • Taurus: you ARE good enough,so don't let anybody tell you that you're not.Always be yourself,because you're truly an awesome human being.
  • Gemini: don't feel pressured to be the "funny one" or the "cool one".You're great the way you are.
  • Cancer: don't let people take advantage of your kindness,and if they do, don't dwell on it forever,you don't deserve the hatred.
  • Leo: Stop trying to be someone that you're not. You're honestly a beautiful human being,so be proud of who you are. It's okay to stand out of the crowd.
  • Virgo: it's absolutely okay to be straight forward,so don't be afraid to express you're feelings.
  • Libra: pay attention to people's feelings,and how they really feel inside. You'll start to realize how lucky you truly are.
  • Scorpio: it's okay to open up to people and let them know who you are inside. Don't be afraid to take risks.
  • Sagittarius: make sure to take things seriously at some moments,it'll help you have a better insight on things that you don't quite understand.
  • Capricorn: It's okay to fail,no ones gonna judge you. Just open up and be yourself.
  • Aquarius: don't let people take advantage of you,no matter what it is.
  • Pisces: it's okay to drift into your dreams,but make sure to snap back into reality just in time. Not everything's gonna turn out the way you want it to,and that's okay.
UNDERTALE - Phone Call Starters
  • No one wants to pratfall during a cool technique.
  • Try to be nice to people made of strange materials.
  • This dog loves to be pet. That's its defining personality trait.
  • Our feelings for grease run deep, like a river.
  • I wish I had eight legs... so I could wear four pairs of hotpants.
  • Why can't our history be COOL ANIMATIONS like the humans?!
  • _____ never tells anybody anything.
  • Cherish this bird.
  • Cherish this ghost.
  • If you want to get someone to open up, you should engage them in combat.
  • Don't let a body of water determine your self-worth!
  • After all, I'm housemates with a lazy bag of trash!
  • Plus, its' a GREAT place to meet girls. Don't quote me on that one.
  • Just be your lovable old garbage self!
  • It's not wrong. It's just my headcanon.
  • Seriously, though, stop committing ghost crimes.
  • Emitting slime... that's just what brothers/sisters/siblings do.
  • There's only one talking flower for me!
  • Spikes. Danger bridges. The pillars of youth.
  • My respect for block puzzles was depleted by corporate life.
  • No! Not the flattery supplex!
  • He loves science fiction. Especially when it's real.
  • My knowledge quantity is stagnant.
  • Stop calling and making her/him/them say gross things.
  • Orange means you'll... smell like oranges.
  • Isn't it natural to love meteorology?!
  • I'm forecasting an incoming front of SHUT UP!
  • A real teacher would never accept deadly lasers as an excuse!
  • I don't care about people just because they're popular.
  • You should just call her, and say in a hot voice, "____... I need help with a.... (audible wink) puzzle."
  • It's nice when people are platonic friends like that!
  • You guys becoming friends... it's kinda cute.
  • A spider wearing four pairs of pink booties. Meditate on this image.
  • It's best if you don't encourage him/her/them.
  • Earlier, ____ and I danced with DEATH!
  • I would never take a vacation for any reason.
  • The problem is... dog.
  • I mean, if having an imaginary friend makes you happy...
  • Hey, you didn't hit me with my entire couch!
  • I just wanted to have handsome, bishonen eyes.
  • Let's not get philosophical over the alphabet.
  • Sorry. Can't talk. Too busy being popular online.
  • Wink! ...you can see me winking, right?
  • I wonder if any of my online fans are spiders.
  • Fangs for visiting my website. That's what spiders like to post.
  • Maybe I'm a baby that loves cartoons for children!

anonymous asked:

How can you be all I don't need anybody/a man and constantly bitch about being lonely or wanting a dude?

Oh man, hold onto your hats because this is going to be a long one.

Call me jaded. Call me bitter, but it’s the most ridiculously unhealthy ideal of love to base your whole existence on another human being unless it’s your child. This whole white knight/The Notebook “I can’t live without you” nonsense is tearing you down. Let it go. Stop letting men tell you you’re perfect. Stop waiting to be saved. No one can save you but yourself. You are the only person who you can hold 100% accountable. You aren’t perfect. I’m not perfect. NO ONE is fucking perfect, and until someone sees your flaws and loves you despite them, it isn’t reality. Love isn’t building some ridiculous pedestal and putting your partner on it. It’s saying “to me, you are perfect because I know your bullshit/your fuckups/your annoying habits and I still want to be with you.” Love isn’t being unable to go on without someone. It’s being capable to live without them but wanting them enough to risk the pain of their possible departure. A good friend of mine once told me “his life is everything he needs and wants it to be, and I am an addition.” That is a terrifying truth. Love is just a really great, absolutely scary addition to life. We can all live without it. No one NEEDS a significant other.

So yeah, there are nights when I am so lonely it feels like I’m coming undone. There are times when I come home and wish there was someone here to call out to. I want to share lazy Sundays and busy Mondays and everything great and shitty about relationships with someone who makes me feel like I am magic. But I won’t die without it. It’s an addition.