please please please help me. my boyfriend has a friend who is a girl and they have snapchatted a lot but i kept getting sad and jealous so he deleted her for me but i saw his friend post a picture of him and her sitting together and i'm just so sad and jealous and i don't know what to do bc i feel like he'd much rather talk to her than me and i feel like breaking up with him bc i'm staying sad over it but at the same time i don't know if i'm just being crazy and overly jealous. what do i do?
I know it’s not what you want to hear but maybe you should break up with him. Not because he’s doing anything wrong, but because it sounds like you need some time to get more comfortable with yourself and maybe try to heal some insecurities? Jealousy is a natural human emotion but it can have a very damaging effect on relationships if it’s not kept at bay. Try to rationalise with it. Talk it out with your partner calmly and maybe you can work out a way to relieve your jealousy without affecting his friendships. If he’s insensitive about it then perhaps it’s time to move on
Best wishes darling 💘