don't even know why i made this

Thought of the day (while reading a “gender marketing” translation with painfully outdated views): I am really, really sick of us only talking about “gender” when women are involved.

A surprising number of important realizations could be made if we develop the habit of talking about gender dynamics even – perhaps especially – in the context of all-male or mostly-male groups.

How does it affect productivity, public image, collaboration, negotiating, client acquisition, etc. to have any group of people involved be entirely men? What effects does this drastic gender imbalance cause in its environment?

LET’S TALK ABOUT GENDER AND MEN, PEOPLE. Gender is not an exclusively female domain.


Me, interviewing the director of basically any film ever: “So let’s talk about the extreme gender imbalance in the casting of this film. What was the thinking behind that? Was there a particular statement you were trying to make, a satirical observation on the politics of society, perhaps? That kind of came out of left field, when we watched the film and all the parts but one were men. Can you tell us a little about the background of that?”


Director: “Um… I didn’t actually consciously think that much abou–”

Me, interrupting: “Come now, don’t be modest! That was a fascinating artistic decision! The drastic disparity between the number of men and the number of women in the film makes it clear to even the most casual viewer that gender is a central theme in this story. Can we delve into that a little bit further?”

Director: “…”


This would be a fun tack to take in regard to race, too.

“I noticed something very interesting about your film, which is that every single one of the leading roles is played by a white actor. Clearly there’s some conceptual message you want to communicate with this creative choice. Could you talk about that?”

Director: *sweats nervously*

I…really don’t know why I made this. But now it exists so ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

  • i can never stress enough how you all should be watching crazy ex-girlfriend.
  • i gather it’s for free on the cw app
  • i gather netflix uploads the episodes weekly in most regions
  •  it has everything tumblr claims to desperately want and yet its fandom is made of like three people.
  •  drop the “sexist title” bullshit and try to actually watch: the entire show is about deconstructing the “crazy” world by dealing with a young woman with untreated anxiety and depression. yes, anxiety and depression
  • and yet the writing is so clever for some reason it feels bittersweet rather than intoxicatingly sad
  • it’s not about romantic/sexual relationships. there are those, but they’re just a means to explore the female protagonist’s life and journey.
  • you get anti-heroes. because you don’t have to be a man making drugs on a cable drama to be an anti-hero. you have to be deeply fucked up and that’s what these characters are.
  • it’s the most diverse cast i’ve ever seen. 
  • one character gets a number on coming out as bisexual. the word is said multiple times. you don’t like shows shying away from it? fucking watch crazy ex-girlfriend.
  • they sing and dance their ass off, and well, and showcasing meta commentaries on storytelling and how even music videos are made. they do pop, rap, rock, old hollywood musicals, you name it. they do everything and they’re brilliant at it. the soundtrack’s online. the music sheets too.
  • it’s just overall brilliant. it won the cw a golden globe and two emmys. rachel bloom is out of this world
  • rachel bloom also led this anti-trump anthem
  • again: cw app and netflix.

Briana and Olivia’s periscope in April 2016:

“It just hurts so much when they say Freddie isn’t real, because he is! He’s just the sweetest thing! He’s so precious, and—”

What was once in your heart
Is now on the floor
And I just need you to connect
Because I am losing my mind
I’ve been waiting all along
But now you’re out of time

I need to feel something, feel something…
I need to feel something, feel something…

Cause I’m all alone

What had been bugging me from Yuri on Ice was how two-dimensional Viktor seemed to be since the beginning. I know I’m not the only fan who felt like this, and every week we hoped for some flashback that told us something about Viktor’s past, something that could shed some light on his mysterious personality.

After the ending of the anime, we still didn’t get that much of his past. We didn’t get to see past programs, or him talking about his feelings when he used to skate (save a couple of rather superficial comments on his coach). We didn’t learn about his family, or his friends (save Chris, but briefly), or what made him get Makkachin and what kind of memories he had shared with him.

And now I just remembered one line he said in episode 10, regarding how he had neglected both life and love:

And I think that we weren’t allowed to see any of Viktor’s past or his previous relationships as a way to emphasize how much he had neglected everything to focus on figure skating.

We weren’t allowed to see his life before he travelled to Japan to coach Yuuri because he hadn’t really had a life before he made that decision.

And I don’t feel bitter anymore about not knowing more about him. It’s just another example of how well narrated this anime is.

vine

Because the pink boy scouts are worth it 💅

… okay but seriously who cut jungkook’s hair??