don't change yourself for love

Bias: I like it when a girl does…. Me:

Originally posted by realitytvgifs

No, you are not “too sensitive”
No, you are not a “pussy”
No, you are not a “baby”
You’re not a “cringey SJW”
You’re not taking things too seriously
No, you are not overreacting

People do not get to treat your poorly then justify it with even more disrespect.

Healthy Relationship. . .

In a healthy relationship, everyone needs to make compromises.

But that doesn’t mean you should feel like you’re losing out on yourself.

When you started going out, you both had your own lives and that shouldn’t change.

Neither of you should have to pretend to like something you don’t, or give up seeing your friends, or drop out of activities you love.

And you also should feel free to keep developing new interests, making new friends and moving forward.

You aren’t weird just because you don’t share the same interests as your peers

You’re not ugly just because your parents cannot afford to buy you designer clothing

You are not stupid or living under a rock just because you were unaware of a new trend

You are not boring just because you don’t smoke, drink, or party as others may do

You are not lame just because you only have 3 close friends

There is nothing wrong with you just because you haven’t had your first kiss yet

There is nothing wrong with you just because you’ve already had your first kiss

There’s nothing wrong with staying on top of trends and trying new styles

There’s nothing wrong with having plenty of friends that you may or may not interact with all the time

There’s nothing wrong with happening to share the same interests as your peers

There is absolutely nothing wrong with being different from others OR similar to those around you. Yes, we were all “born to stand out”, but some of us stand out in similar ways, and that is how some of our best relationships start. We are all one and the same when it comes down to it. We are all human.