don't be rude please!

Let's be nice to each other please

To the anon that sent me a bunch of hate (not posting bc it was really rude, explicit, and it was like 12 different messages):

I understand your frustrations about the show Arrow, and I get that you are mad about some of the choices. So am I. But please don’t hate me for liking Felicity. I support all female characters on the show. This is a positive blog.

I liked Laurel a lot, and I was very sad to see her go (I literally was sobbing, ok?). I do not bad mouth her character or say anything against her. I have never attacked her, and coming onto my blog to attack me was unnecessary and cruel.

Just because I am a Felicity blog doesn’t mean I am against Laurel. I love both. I was angry when they killed her off, and she deserved a lot better. I don’t make Laurel gifs or post a lot about her, not because I don’t like her, but because this is a Felicity blog. Felicity Smoak is my all time favorite character and this blog is for her. I track felicity tags, and I literally only have felicity content on my dash. NOT because I don’t like Laurel, but because I’m focusing on her.

I can’t say this enough, but we don’t have to pit female characters against each other. I understand not liking a certain character, you are entitled to it, but I personally love all female characters, and me supporting one doesn’t mean I’m not supporting another.

Telling me I am a dumb b**ch for defending Felicity is also not cool. If you don’t like her, you don’t have to read my defense of her! The title of the post was literally Felicity Smoak Appreciation. If you don’t want to read it, literally don’t.

So the next time you decide go into someone’s inbox and leave so much hate (such as telling them to kill themselves) all because of FICTIONAL characters, please reconsider. Arrow is a TV show. Yes the characters and the show are important to me, but at the end of the day, it’s just a SHOW. It’s not real. And it’s not worth attacking real people and being horrible to them for a fictional show.

This fandom can be so toxic and people get so caught up in shipping and stanning characters that we forget that there are people behind these computer screens. Getting hateful messages to kill myself and calling me a b**ch hurts. I am a person, someone you have never met, and you have no idea how much your words can affect me. As much as I’d like to say that I can brush it off, it really does sting, and I’m begging people not to go into inboxes just to send anon hate.

An Announcement and a Little Concern

Hello all! I’m sorry to put drama on your dashboards, but yesterday some information was brought to me and I need to be entirely clear and open about some things in order to protect myself, and hopefully to protect you guys too.

I have only one character in the game, Syrena Kalihd, and that will never change.

I am not Selene Kalihd (also known as @jaybartram / @princess-zeldaluna / Zelda Luna), and I have no ties whatsoever to this person. They are a pathological liar who lies and manipulates to knowingly and purposefully take character appearances and names, and then attempts to paint themselves as an innocent and unwitting party to gain sympathy. After the recent occurrence of someone making a duplicate of a character named Empress Quistis and using the false blog to slander that person’s name by sending hateful messages, I am more than a little wary of people taking other people’s character names and faces, and I feel I need to make it 100% clear that they are someone who made a willful decision to copy me, and they are not in any way an alt or secondary character of mine.

I am not someone who feels that similarities in character appearance warrant upset; the ffxiv character creator is fairly limited, and coincidental similarities or even duplicates are to be expected. But an active attempt to copy my character’s appearance and name is something that I’m uncomfortable with, and I am made even more uncomfortable by the fact that when questioned, Zelda claimed she doesn’t know me/has never seen me/did not copy me, despite that all of this is clearly untrue.

I will be presenting evidence; not because I am upset at the copying, but because I am upset at the lying, double dealing, and manipulation this person has exhibited, and I need to prove that this is not a coincidental similarity.

Buckle in guys, this is gonna be a bit of a ride.

Keep reading

anonymous asked:

((Please don't interpret this as rude I'm just trying to understand and you seem wise)) Where does it say Keith is Asian? I'm not saying he's not I just can't find it. Cuz his dad is Texan, right? Which makes his mom Galra and thus not of any Earth ethnicity? Please I'm not trying to be rude you just seem smart in this issue.

  • No canon source has listed Keith as asian (as far as I know)
  • People headcanon him as Korean because of his voice actor (Steven Yeun) or as Japanese because of his earlier counterpart (Keith/Akira Kogane)
  • Assuming his mom is full-Galra, Keith is therefore half-Galra. 
    • However, there is the possibility that his mom is only part-Galra herself. Keith’s mom could therefore be asian herself, and we just don’t know it yet.
  • Keith’s father, assuming that was Keith’s biological dad, is inferred to be from the South, possibly Texas. We have no idea what race/ethnicity Keith’s dad is, because that information hasn’t been given to us yet.
  • ‘Texas’ is not a race or ethnicity, because Texas is only a state. You are Texan if you live there or were born there, but if you were doing a census you wouldn’t write ‘Texan’ as what you identity as.
    • A white person can be from Texas.
    • An asian person can be from Texas.
    • Anyone of any race can be from Texas, they just have to be born in/live there.

TLDR: The Korean Keith theory is still alive and well, hallelujah.

anonymous asked:

"Don't be fucking rude!" please? xx

enemies to lovers is my ultimate kink goodbye

There were no words to describe just how much I hated Harry Styles. The way he dressed like an off duty model, the way he never cut his goddamn hair, the way he always got what he wanted. I had begged our director not to cast him in the role opposite me.

“I’ll do anything, please, give another guy a chance.”

She raised her eyebrows at me, “I’ll give another guy a chance when they get as good as Harry.” I sighed and closed my eyes as she continued. “We don’t give handouts in the theater and we certainly don’t let our disdain for other actors get in the way of our art. So be professional, I expect more from you than this petty nonsense.”

“Yes ma'am.” I murmured as I looked over her shoulder at Harry who was talking to some of his friends, laughing about something he had said that I’m sure wasn’t funny as he picked his satchel up off the ground and threw it over his shoulder.

Harry knew I hated him. It wasn’t a secret. He also knew he would get this role and we would have to play lovers. He knew I would rather die than play someone who was supposed to be in love with him. And he auditioned for the role anyway, winking right at me when he announced which role he wanted. Fucking wanker.

***

We did our first scene together the next day, scripts in hand as we proclaimed our love for each other. In my head I was thinking of absolutely anything else, like what I was going to eat for dinner tonight.

“Stop, stop, stop, stop!” Our director yelled as Harry leaned in to kiss me. I tried not to slump in relief. “I feel nothing.” She threw her hands up in the air, “I picked the two of you because you’re the best I have and I thought you could overcome your differences–”

Harry and I immediately started babbling, trying to defend ourselves, talking over one another.

“Enough!” She pinched the bridge of her nose and took a deep breath. “The two of you are going to do an exercise together to work on your intimacy.”

“Fantastic.” Harry muttered sarcastically. “I don’t need to do this exercise,” He said louder, “She’s the one who clearly zones out when doing scenes with me it’s like she’s not even there.”

I started to defend myself but she said, “Then maybe you should try to be more captivating, Harry, honestly I almost fell asleep myself listening to you.” I snickered and Harry glared at me, “You’ll both do the exercise or I recast the both of you.” We started to protest but she held up a hand, “If one of you can’t do it you both lose your parts. Work together.”

I was furious. I couldn’t believe this idiot was going to make me lose my role.

“Now, the exercise.” She clapped her hands together, “Props! Get me some blankets and pillows!”

I already did not like where this was going and I could see the look of horror mirrored on Harry’s face as we watched the props team set up a makeshift bed in the middle of the stage.

“I want the two of you to lay down under those blankets like you’re husband and wife and I want you to talk to each other. I don’t have to hear it, no one in this room has to hear it, but I want you to talk. I’ll know if you didn’t do it right so don’t even try to fake it.”

I looked around the room at the rest of the cast and crew, “…With everyone watching?”

She rolled her eyes, “Everyone take a twenty minute break!” She announced and everyone dispersed, leaving us alone on the stage. She soundlessly pointed to the blankets and pillows and turned away from us.

Harry and I glared at each other for a few moments, “Are you going to do this or are you going to continue acting like a child who throws a tantrum when she doesn’t get her way?”

I rolled my eyes and walked towards the blankets, “Don’t be fucking rude.”

“Maybe if you were nice to me I wouldn’t be,” Harry said sitting down next me, “You know, most people like me, I’m still not sure why you don’t.”

“It must really kill your ego that I don’t like you, huh?” I settled onto the pillow, Harry following after me, facing each other on the ground. “The one girl in the whole world who won’t get on her knees for you.”

“Not close enough!” Our director yelled from the audience.

I sighed and scooted closer to Harry.

“Put your arm around her! Jesus, you’re in love for Christ’s sake.”

Harry sighed and put his arm around me, pulling me close enough so I could feel his breath on my face. “Only girl who won’t get on her knees for me, but didn’t take much to get you into bed.” Despite myself, I laughed and our foreheads touched. “Ah, she has a sense of humor after all.”

I stopped laughing, “I’ve always had a sense of humor, you’re just not funny.”

“Why aren’t you touching him, Y/N?” I sighed at the sound of her voice before resting a hand on his cheek, lightly scratching against the stubble on his jaw.

He smirked at me, the smug asshole. “That feels nice.”

I resisted the urge to slap him and instead took a deep breath. “Come on, it’s not that bad pretending to be in love with me.” He squeezed my waist. “I’ve been told I’m an excellent lover.” He whispered in my ear, sending chills down my spine. “Let yourself fall in love with me for a minute.” He said and his voice was so soothing I closed my eyes. “I could fall in love with you. I’ve thought about it sometimes, when I watch you onstage. You’re so incredibly talented, you’ve brought me to tears more than once. I’ve always wanted to act opposite you even though you hated me.” I couldn’t believe what I was hearing, I was so still, I wasn’t entirely sure I was breathing. “And those lips…” He pulled back from my ear until his forehead touched mine, “I’ve thought about kissing them more times than I care to admit.”

I stared at him, suddenly conscious of every place his skin touched mine. “This is all part of the exercise, right?” I whispered.

He blinked. Instead of answering his finger reached up to graze my cheek and then cupped behind my neck before pulling me to him, our lips colliding gently at first as they explored unfamiliar territory. He was a nice kisser. He had soft lips and knew when to speed up movements, when to pull me closer, when to nibble on my lip and I was breathless when he finally pulled away. His eyes were wild as he looked at me, thumb still idly stroking my cheek.

“Of course.” He breathed. “Just for the exercise.” But he made no move to pull away from me and instead rubbed his thumb over my lower lip.

anonymous asked:

What's wrong with dog breeders? (Please don't answer in a rude way, I just really don't know and I've never really heard about them so that's why I'm asking)

First of all, there are millions of healthy dogs being euthanized in shelters yearly because people would prefer to buy a pedigree dog or a puppy from a breeder. Furthermore, reckless breeding can lead to deformities and health issues in dogs that come from breeders. Additionally, breeding is cruel no matter what the breeder says. It’s cruel to force a dog to give birth to litter of puppy after litter of puppy. When you buy from a breeder instead of rescue from a shelter, you’re essentially euthanizing a healthy dog in the shelter to free up space for the next one.

If the dog pound we got Louie from wasn’t closing down then he would have been euthanized months before we got him. He was there for three months and not one person asked about him. He’s a playful, gentle, hilarious, affectionate, and smart boy and he came to the shelter as a stray. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with dogs in shelters. Just because they aren’t pedigree or a puppy doesn’t make them any less deserving of a family.

Reasons Why Jack Kelly is Not a “Cocky Little Sonofa”

  • He genuinely loves his newsies family. He loves them. They are his brothers, some of them his children
  • Again, big brother jack, little brother crutchie 
  • Takes in Davey and Les immediately
  • He’s actually crying during Santa Fe (he feels useless, at fault, exhausted)
  • He’s nearly always feeling guilty over SOMETHING that happened to a newsie (crutchie!)
  • He’s Ready To Cry ™ 24/7
  • He fears Katherine is just toying with his emotions and forces himself to ask if she is because he has been played with before
  • Refuses to take Medda’s money for his backdrops
  • Runs for his life upon seeing Snyder in Pulitzer’s office because he fears that man and the Refuge so much
  • Almost stops working towards better pay because Crutchie got hurt and It’s All His Fault
  • Is not happy-go-lucky and charismatic all the time, more often he is worried about his friends and their health and futures. Also, he does not always like himself.
  • Keeps his drawings private because he a) doesn’t think they’re great and b)has nothing else to keep private
Prayer request

So there’s a very good chance that the mass in my dad’s esophagus is cancer, but nothing’s been finalized yet. I really need some prayers for him and my family.

(Also if you know me irl and like know my parents don’t talk to your parents or anyone else… we don’t want to worry people and he’ll tell them himself if he needs to.)

anonymous asked:

Hey eggplant, I am sure you didnt mean anything mean by this, but maybe saying 'if u ignore the default winner, the ladies field is interesting' might not have been the nicest thing? It just sounds as if you are minimizing her achievements. Now I get that there's a huge gap between first and second, and then not much of a gap afterward, but I dont like the way the ladies almost seem to be okay with that gap. They're not even trying to catch up and it frustrates me (esp that I like many of them)

i find it ironic that you’re saying i’m minimizing evgenia’s achievements, then immediately follow that up with how the rest of the ladies’ field isn’t even trying to catch up to her. that is false. they are. there are more and more ladies backloading jumps and attempting tanos, or even quads and 3As in practice, though we’ve yet to see them in competition. the ladies are also improving their consistency in general, they just haven’t proven to be as bulletproof as evgenia yet, which is why evgenia usually wins.

i’m not always 100% nice about evgenia, or other skaters. my opinions are not always going to align with everyone else’s. i do think her consistency is amazing and she usually deserves to win all her titles. from a career standpoint she’s done an amazing job so far. i don’t think she’s actually as far ahead of the rest of the field as her scores say she is, and that’s on the judges. i think close competition at the top makes for a more interesting field, but since it still seems unlikely that anyone will challenge evgenia next season (though they are definitely trying, and who knows, the judges might surprise us - anything could happen), i’m just personally more interested in who will get the other two spots on the podium.

[Image is a nine-panel comic. Two stick-figure girls are talking. The first says, “You’re always talking about how hard life is for you, but come on–it must be really nice to not have to go to work or school.” The other girl, shocked and slightly embarrassed by this, replies, “Um, actually, no–and that’s a really offensive and insensitive comment. And…it kind of makes me feel bad…” The first girl says, “Oh, you’re just being too sensitive! You know what they say–‘Sticks and stones can break your bones, but words can’t hurt you!’” The fourth panel zooms out and we see that the girls are at a table with a book in front of the second girl. She says “Hmmmmmmm,” squinting at the first girl. She squints down at her book. “Mmmmmm…” She squints back at the first girl. “Mmmmmmm–” In the seventh panel, she picks up the book and THWAP! Nails the first girl right in the face. In the next panel, the second girl is yelling under the table, “What do you say to THAT, Susan?” From under the table, the first girl (aka Susan) replies with nothing more than a feeble, “Ow.”]

Shut up, Susan.

I am literally shaking out of anger right now.

How can people be so ignorant, so rude, so heartless and disgusting. Is that all that they can do?

Recently there have been some really unnecessary comments going down about Mamamoo, saying how “Mamamoo would be a pretty group if it weren’t for Hwasa”, multiple comments even targeting Moonbyul. Hwasa addressed the situation by saying “There were a lot of harsh comments insulting my character. I wasn’t shaken at first but, when I kept seeing them, it hurt”

Mamamoo has even gone as far as to say “In reality, we aren’t pretty and we’re short so we had to succeed with our skills”.

Mamamoo didn’t deserve this. They’re so hard working, so passionate about their work. They put in everything that they can into their art and people am have the audacity to bash them over something so superficial like their looks? Is that all Knetz care about? It’s sad you know.. Finding out your favorite idols feel this way.. It’s so sad to see these comments go down and you can’t say or do anything..