This is rather chaotic as I’ve put it together real quick and I’ve plenty favorites - I might add more as I remember or as I go through my reading (some are finished, some are on-going). For now though …
Tbh tho, each instinctual variant stacking has a degree of cruelty associated with each.
Sp-blind is perhaps the least cruel of them all depending on how one looks at it. They can simulate closeness as well as be close to family and friends. But on the flip side, their cruelty shows on the way they treat themselves. By designating acquaintances and friendships as more important than themselves, all their resources — energy, time, sleep, money, etc — go to upkeeping these relationships. They run themselves figuratively bankrupt of everything they have.
Sx and so-blind both differ on the level of cruelty depending upon what viewpoint they are seen from.
Sx-blinds remain cruel to those that view them to be close friends. By putting themselves and their social acquaintances as foremost, they easily neglect and sometimes downright abandon those that have emotional connections to them. Sx-blinds can leave as quickly and easily as they come. Ask them if they fondly recall your friendship a few years down the line and chances are they won’t even be able to remember your name.
Lastly, so-blinds are cruel to anyone and everyone that wishes to be their friend but doesn’t fall within their sx category. So-blinds aren’t quick to call someone a friend. Even knowing them for a year coupled with countless deep conversations may not be enough. It is not uncommon for so-doms/fixes to realize somewhere down the line they mean nothing to their so-blind friend, and no matter how much they can try, their efforts bring them farther from becoming a true friend of the so-blind.
Gureshin drawing from last year~
Shinya confessed his feelings, but Guren is too oblivious… (doesn’t it remind you of certain scene from Catastrophe at Sixteen?)
Guren, I know Shinya isn’t straightforward with his feelings, but it’s obvious that he loves you, why can’t you see it? (•̩̩̩̩＿•̩̩̩̩) (。_。)
I hope you’re all still recovering from last night. Thank the world that Eurovision is on tonight to take my mind off all the drraaaaammaaa (quote P-Chris).
I know that 200 followers isn’t THAT many compared to some of the other main blogs, but I’m still a smol bean, and I’m proud of my 200 since I’ve only had this blog for exactly5weeks. If you’re sat/stood/dancing around thinking ‘Hvem er hun?’ or ‘Hæ, who dis blog?’ then I dunno, good question: T’was I that made this gif and posted this video last night :o)
Now onto the good stuff:
🌟@du-er-ikkealene You, my good friend Elise, are just !!! I love fangirling with you about SKAM and Tokio Hotel and Kensington! I also love making gifs for you, even though they’re still crap :P Best thing about you: Always knowing there’s a lovely comment from you waiting in my inbox <33
🌟@sweetevak Emotional Overload is my second favourite OTP (after Evak ofc) That conversation we had yesterday was just LIT and thank you for helping me ‘push my way through the pain’ 😂😂 Say hi to Peggy aswell.
Best thing about you: The fact that we’re able to communicate our pain to each other through the constant use of caps-lock 😂
🌟@beanievaltersen I’mma write this in Danish, because I feel that it’s important to be able to communicate in our personal/own/native languages on the internet: Håber at du har haft/har en sygt fedt tur i London!! :D Kan stadig ikke komme over hvor tætte vi er lige nu. Jeg er så glad for du kom med din “Heeeeej!👋🏼 *dis me trying to become pals and talk skam theories*“ Og vores theorier er bare de bedste, no ifs no buts no coconuts 😂 Det bedste ved dig: At du skriver på Svensk! Nogen gang krøller det min hjerne! Men det er også rigtig dejligt for mig at lærer rigtig meget om Sverige og forskellen på vores kulturer. (Og så er du også en rigtig rar person at snakke med!)
🌟@br1skeby Jeg er glad for vi kom sammen fordi af en dum anon. SERIØST mange takker for i går aftes!! Det var sinssyg pænt af dig at sende de snaps <33 Og jeg kommer aldrig over din kommentar om sidste Fredags klip😂😂😂
Det bedste ved dig: LEVI!!! 😍😍😍 Og din makeup😍😍😍 Og dine kommentar nogengang altså😂😂
So many more bolds than expected. Let’s root for Eurovision and World Happiness. (I’m still not buying the “This season is the last season” thing, I just can’t let it go). GOODNIGHT and SLEEP TIGHT // SOV GODT