Me when the author keeps >implying things and I have no idea what to make of this information and I just want sOME GOD DAMN ANSWERS RIGHT NOW WHY DO YOU DO THIS TO ME?!? GIVE ME SOMETHING!!! ANYTHING!!!
What if Dammek acts bossy to Jude at first like, "Ok. This is how its going down. Listen to my orders and don't fuck up." And then Jude is like "Nuh uh, that shit don't fly here." So after a few bits of arguing, Jude starts to explain how harmful and rude that kind of behavior is and basically conditions Dammek to having to say 'please' and 'thank you' if he wanted Jude's help. Then as Dammek comes to realize just how horribly he was treating his friend, he makes it his goal to be better to him.