doily lace


(We often assume that the life of the average lass’ in Victorian England was narrow and restrictive, full of stern governesses, stifling garments and fainting spells. Sure, the 19th century’s rules of etiquette, social class and morality all served to limit the range of acceptable behavior, but don’t let the lace doilies and lavender sachets fool you. Not all of the modern clichés we apply to English womanhood in the 1800s hold weight. Below, explore five things Queen Victoria’s female contemporaries didn’t do as often as you might think)

They didn’t die young- People lived to an average age of just 40 in 19th-century England, but that number is deceiving. Certainly, infants and children died of disease, malnutrition and mishaps at much higher rates than they do today. But if a girl managed to survive to adulthood, her chance of living to a ripe old age of 50, 60, 70 or even older was quite good. These odds only increased as the century progressed and improvements in sanitation, nutrition and medical care lengthened Victorian lifespans.

They didn’t marry young- At the end of the 18th century, the average age of first marriage was 28 years old for men and 26 years old for women. During the 19th century, the average age fell for English women, but it didn’t drop any lower than 22. Patterns varied depending on social and economic class, of course, with working-class women tending to marry slightly older than their aristocratic counterparts. But the prevailing modern idea that all English ladies wed before leaving their teenage years is well off the mark.

They didn’t marry their cousins.- Marrying your first cousin was perfectly acceptable in the early 1800s, and the practice certainly offered some benefits: Wealth and property were more likely to remain in the same hands, and it was easier for young women to meet and be courted by bachelors within the family circle. Later in the 19th century, though, marriage between cousins became less common. Increased mobility due to the growth of the railroad and other widespread economic improvements vastly broadened a young lady’s scope of prospective husbands. Meanwhile, the Victorian era saw a rise in awareness of birth defects associated with reproduction among relatives. Cousin marriages remained popular among the upper class, however. Charles Darwin married his first cousin Emma Wedgwood, for instance, and Queen Victoria and Prince Albert were themselves first cousins.

They didn’t wear tight corsets- The popular image of young ladies lacing themselves into corsets drawn up as tight as their maids could make them is a bit misleading. While the Victorian era did feature fashions that emphasized a tiny waist only achievable through the careful application of whalebone and ribbon, most women wore their daily corsets with a healthy dose of moderation—not to the point of swooning on the divan. Also, at the time, corsets weren’t simply a fashion statement: They were actually thought to encourage good, healthful posture and to keep the internal organs in proper alignment. And the extreme practice of removing ribs to slim the waist, rumored to have flourished in the Victorian era, simply didn’t exist

They didn’t wear pink- Today’s approach to gender-specific colors would confuse—and likely amuse—our 19th-century counterparts. White was the preferred color for babies and children of any sex until they reached the age of about 6 or 7, mainly because white clothes and diapers could be bleached. As they grew older, children were dressed in paler versions of the colors adults wore. Red was considered a strong, virile, masculine shade, while blue was dainty, delicate, feminine. So young boys were more frequently seen in pink, while young girls favored pale blue. It wasn’t until the early 20th century—quite possibly as late as the 1940s—that pink began to be universally assigned to girls and blue to boys.

It’s finally done. I found a pattern from a book published in the early 1900s and wanted to see if I could recreate it. Though I had to tweak several lines of instructions, i think it turned out beautifully.

This doily was created in size 10 crochet thread, and the final product measures around 13 inches (though that might change after I wash and block it).

I want to crochet another one, but use a finer thread and hook… see how it looks and feels created with a more delicate fiber.

Not sure what I’m going to do with this one, though…


Here she is! Genevieve Erica Gilroy. Tassonian priest of the Holy Matrial Orthodoxy.
LARP: Blackpowder and Bloodlines, a brand new LARP bases in Victoria, Australia.

Costume made completely by me. I’m icredibly pleased with my robes/coat (which I made on Tuesday) from 5 meters of black wool and my neck ruff which consists of two thrifted tea-dyed lace doilies sewn together.

I’m also secretly thrilled that her initials ended up being ‘GG’, which was genuinely not on purpose.

Can’t wait for the weekend to begin!

(For some reason this post was in my drafts and it was meant to post 4 days ago….)

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When Irish Eyes are Smiling

rated M, for language and adult situations.

It’s not completely unexpected, but it’s still a shock to see it. Thick, expensive card stock, pale pink with roses and their names embossed in gold.

Madge Undersee and Gale Hawthorne, along with their families, request the honour of your presence at their wedding…

I’m happy for them, I truly am. I’m just still kind of shocked that after nine years together, it took Gale less than three months to marry my replacement.

It’s not like I thought Gale and I would ever marry each other, even if our friends all expected it. And our breakup was completely mutual. But that he moved on so fast is kind of a slap.

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anonymous asked:

where do u find/look 4 backgrounds my guy? im so bad @ backgrounds ): aside from that do u also have any background tips?


  1. Honestly you just gotta go for it, Sometimes things in art aren’t easy and backgrounds can be one of um but hey! that’s okay, the more you do the more you learn the better you get!
  2. experiment with different stuff to figure out what works for u! i have a secret love for photography and weird patterns, so i do a lot of that! 
  3. don’t worry so much about being ‘good’ at backgrounds just go for it and Do what u want, u got it
  4. here’s my media fire with some of those scrapbook page textures uploaded! there’s only a few right now, but i’ll try and upload more omg
  5. here’s a little tutorial of how i do that lace-doilie thingie: