doesnt mean itll happen

destroy the idea that you can’t be in a happy relationship with someone with bpd. destroy the idea that if you’re in a relationship with someone with bpd, it’s automatically toxic. 

just. destroy those ideas. people with bpd can be happy. people with bpd can be in long relationships. we can be happy. we arent toxic. you can be in a healthy relationship with us if you try.

anonymous asked:

What do you do when the person u love doesn't love you back. The person who once was so utterly in love now doesn't even wave when you pass by. They say they don't know why it stopped it just did and your heart is so empty it's almost gone

sometimes people just…stop loving u and there’s nothing we can do to change that. u just gotta understand that, learn to accept it and realize that just bc they dont love u anymore doesnt mean itll happen again bc who knows u might meet a person who will love u twice as hard. i know it hurts n i know ur aching but pls don’t dwell too much on this bc itll just make u hurt more, just focus on urself baby and learn to love urself if u dont n like just take some time 4urself