doesn't somebody want to be wanted like me

anonymous asked:

The 'I'm ace not blind' reminded me of that post of the catholic school, where the nun said: I can look at the menu, I just can't order. And it made me thing that being ace or aro it's like, you look at the menu, you can say 'this looks good' but you just, aren't hungry. And it doesn't mean you are wrong, broke, sick, or smth. You just aren't hungry. And being demi is more like, you just eat what you really really REALLY like. (1/2)

And in both scenarios, you just CAN’T push somebody to eat what the don’t want or when they don’t want to, because it’s wrong to obligate people to act against their will. (2/2)

this is perfect tbh because I’ve literally used this exact analogy on multiple occasions haha

TERMINUS IS ACTUALLY A WHITE SOCCER MOM

a thesis by me, @wapy


1. Terminini has always been supportive to Megatroni, but in the “I will compell you to choose the path that I deem right” way. Megatron’s opinon on the matter doesn’t matter, he just gotta do it.
2. Terminus was convinced his soccer son’s born to be a leader, the very best, like no one ever was.
3. Terminus comes back from the death still thinking his son’s the very best. What? My son? Doing terrible things? I’m sure this is a mistake, he must have had a good reason, I know him, he isn’t like that. Terminus doesn’t even want to hear the accusations (not even from Meggier himself), he just goes straight into “MY SON? NOT RESPONSIBLE”.
4. He immediately goes back into compelling Megatron to be whatever he, Terminus, wants him to be. Fuck Megatron’s own opinions and fuck all the war years in between. He just gotta be LEADER AT ALL COSTS.
5. If my son can’t be the top 1% on this school you’re damn right I’m gonna get him transfered to another school (they depart to another universe)
6. Of course my son has the RIGHT to be the best at his new school.

she could not show him
the wilds of her winter heart -
he only loved warmth.

I got tagged by @koch43 and @axylh, so let’s do this real quick!

Rules: tag 9 people you want to get to know better

Relationship status: My heart is full of love and I’m very happy UwU

Favourite Colours: orange, light grey, green, purple, cardinal red

Pets: My Norwegian Forest Cat, Padisha!

Wake Up Time: irregular, currently often around 11 AM because my schedule is messed up

Cats or Dogs: I adore both equally 

Coke or Pepsi: Coke, definitely!

Text or Call: Generally, I prefer texting, mostly because calling people makes me stumble over my words if I don’t know them very well. However, once I’ve befriended someone, I like being on calls with them! 

Last Song I Listened to: Uff good question, probably Wiener Blut by Falco because that song is ridiculously catchy and ridiculously ridiculous. 

I don’t know who to tag, most people I know have been tagged already, so just consider yourself tagged by me if you read this and feel like doing this!

The signs as The Perks of Being a Wallflower quotes
  • Aries: “Just tell me how to be different in a way that makes sense.”
  • Taurus: “I think that if I ever have kids, and they are upset, I won't tell them that people are starving in China or anything like that because it wouldn't change the fact that they were upset. And even if somebody else has it much worse, that doesn't really change the fact that you have what you have.”
  • Gemini: “So, this is my life. And I want you to know that I am both happy and sad and I'm still trying to figure out how that could be.”
  • Cancer: “We didn't talk about anything heavy or light. We were just there together. And that was enough”
  • Leo: “I just need to know that someone out there listens and understands and doesn't try to sleep with someone even if they could have. I need to know these people exist.”
  • Virgo: “I am very interested and fascinated how everyone loves each other, but no one really likes each other.”
  • Libra: “So, I guess we are who we are for alot of reasons. And maybe we'll never know most of them. But even if we don't have the power to choose where we come from, we can still choose where we go from there.”
  • Scorpio: “I would die for you. But I won't live for you.”
  • Sagittarius: “Things change. And friends leave. Life doesn't stop for anybody.”
  • Capricorn: “We accept the love we think we deserve.”
  • Aquarius: “please believe that things are good with me, and even when they're not, they will be soon enough. And i will always believe the same about you.”
  • Pisces: “It's just that I don't want to be somebody's crush. If somebody likes me, I want them to like the real me, not what they think I am. And I don't want them to carry it around inside. I want them to show me, so I can feel it too.”

anonymous asked:

So I've met my daddy online, he knows what I look like and I was curious as to what he looked like. I found a picture of him and I'm scared that he won't be attracted to my body since I'm a big girl and he's skinny and muscular. What if he doesn't want to be my daddy anymore because I'm fat?

Hunny. If somebody doesn’t want to be your daddy just because of some weight, he doesn’t deserve to be your daddy to begin with! Weight shouldn’t be a problem, I hope everything works out.☺

anonymous asked:

I don't know what to about this boy it's almost been 2 years and he keeps coming back and then leaving again I'm sooo exhausted he says he loves and then he doesn't my family hate him but I can't bring myself to hate him, I've told him to let me go loads of times but we end up talking as if nothing ever happened it's like cycle that never stops but I kinda don't want it to stop but I know it'll kill me in end I cry the nights he doesn't talk to me n thats not what I want anymore :((

I’ve witnessed so many of my friends go through the same situation that you are experiencing right now and it breaks my heart. It’s so easy to tell somebody to just get over it or leave, but for the person who’s experiencing heart break it’s so much more harder than that.
My opinion for you?
I think it’s time to cut this relationship to an end. It may hurt, but eventually the pain of leaving will subside, sometimes even quicker than you initially thought. Staying with him at this point is hurting you more than leaving!!! It’s too toxic and it sounds like to me that he doesn’t know what he wants. That’s something NOBODY needs. Go be with someone who loves you without hesitation. But at the end of the day it doesn’t matter what advice I give, it’s up to you to make a change and that’s only something you can do. I wish you the very best!! Don’t let 1 silly person ruin love for you.

Children Answer Our Questions About Love and Marriage
  • WHAT IS THE PROPER AGE TO GET MARRIED?
  • "Eighty-four. Because at that age, you don't have to work anymore, and you can spend all your time loving each other." (Judy, 8)
  • "Once I'm done with kindergarten, I'm going to find me a wife." (Tommy, 5)
  • WHAT DO MOST PEOPLE DO ON A DATE?
  • "On the first date, they just tell each other lies,and that usually gets them interested enough to go for a second date." (Mike, 10)
  • WHEN IS IT OKAY TO KISS SOMEONE?
  • "You should never kiss a girl unless you have enough bucks to buy her a big ring and her own VCR, 'cause she'll want to have videos of the wedding." (Jim, 10)
  • "Never kiss in front of other people. It's a big embarrassing thing if anybody sees you. But if nobody sees you, I might be willing to try it with a handsome boy, but just for a few hours." (Kally, 9)
  • THE GREAT DEBATE: IS IT BETTER TO BE SINGLE OR MARRIED?
  • It's better for girls to be single, but not for boys. Boys need somebody to clean up after them." (Lynette, 9)
  • "It gives me a headache to think about that stuff. I'm just a kid. I don't need that kind of trouble." (Kenny, 7)
  • CONCERNING WHY LOVE HAPPENS BETWEEN TWO PEOPLE:
  • "No one is sure why it happens, but I heard it has something to do with how you smell. That's why perfume and deodorant are so popular." Jan, 9)
  • "I think you're supposed to get shot with an arrow or something, but the rest of it isn't supposed to be so painful." (Harlen, 8)
  • ON WHAT FALLING IN LOVE IS LIKE:
  • "Like an avalanche where you have to run for your life." (Roger, 9)
  • "If falling in love is anything like learning to spell, I don't want to do it. It takes to long to learn." (Leo, 7)
  • ON THE ROLE OF GOOD LOOKS IN LOVE AND ROMANCE:
  • "If you want to be loved by somebody who isn't already in your family, it doesn't hurt to be beautiful." (Jeanne, 8)
  • "It isn't always just how you look. Look at me. I'm handsome like anything and I haven't got anybody to marry me yet." (Gary, 7)
  • "Beauty is skin deep. But how rich you are can last a long time." (Christine, 9)
  • CONCERNING WHY LOVERS OFTEN HOLD HANDS:
  • "They want to make sure their rings don't fall off, because they paid good money for them." (David, 8)
  • CONFIDENTIAL OPINIONS ABOUT LOVE:
  • "I'm in favor of love as long as it doesn't happen when 'The Simpsons' are on TV." (Anita, 6)
  • "Love will find you, even if you are trying to hide from it. I've been trying to hide from it since I was five, but the girls keep finding me." (Bobby, 8)
  • "I'm not rushing into being in love. I'm finding fourth grade hard enough." (Regina, 10)
  • PERSONAL QUALITIES NECESSARY TO BE A GOOD LOVER:
  • "One of you should know how to write a check. Because, even if you have tons of love, there is still going to be a lot of bills." (Ava, 8)
  • SOME SUREFIRE WAYS TO MAKE A PERSON FALL IN LOVE WITH YOU:
  • "Tell them that you own a whole bunch of candy stores." (Del, 6)
  • "Don't do things like have smelly, green sneakers. You might get attention, but attention ain't the same thing as love." (Alonzo, 9)
  • "One way is to take the girl out to eat. Make sure it's something she likes to eat. French fries usually works for me." (Bart, 9)
  • HOW CAN YOU TELL IF TWO ADULTS EATING DINNER AT A RESTAURANT ARE IN LOVE ?
  • "Just see if the man picks up the check. That's how you can tell if he's in love." (John, 9)
  • "Lovers will just be staring at each other and their food will get cold. Other people care more about the food." (Brad, 8)
  • "It's love if they order one of those desserts that are on fire. They like to order those because it's just like their hearts are on fire." (Christine, 9)
  • WHAT MOST PEOPLE ARE THINKING WHEN THEY SAY, "I LOVE YOU":
  • "The person is thinking: Yeah, I really do love him, but I hope he showers at least once a day." (Michelle, 9)
  • HOW A PERSON LEARNS TO KISS:
  • "You learn it right on the spot, when the 'gooshy' feelings get the best of you." (Doug, 7)
  • "It might help if you watched soap operas all day." (Carin, 9)
  • WHEN IS IT OKAY TO KISS SOMEONE?
  • "It's never okay to kiss a boy. They always slobber all over you. That's why I stopped doing it." (Jean, 10)
  • HOW TO MAKE LOVE ENDURE:
  • "Spend most of your time loving instead of going to work." (Tom, 7)
  • Don't forget your wife's name...that will mess up the love." (Roger,8)
  • "Be a good kisser. It might make your wife forget that you never take the trash out." (Randy,8)
Perks of Being a Wallflower (Book): Sentence Starters
  • “She wasn't bitter. She was sad, though. But it was a hopeful kind of sad. The kind of sad that just takes time. ”
  • “Maybe it’s sad that these are now memories. And maybe it’s not sad.”
  • “I just want you to know that you’re very special… and the only reason I’m telling you is that I don’t know if anyone else ever has.”
  • “You can't just sit there and put everyone's lives ahead of yours and think that counts as love. You just can't. You have to do things.”
  • “We all deserve the love we think we deserve.”
  • "And in this moment, I swear, we are infinite.”
  • “It's nice to have things to look forward to.”
  • “I was very grateful to have heard it again. Because I guess we all forget sometimes. And I think everyone is special in their own way. I really do.”
  • “I was suddenly very aware of the fact it was me standing up in that tunnel with the wind over my face."
  • “Standing on the fringes of life offers a unique experience, but there's a time to see what it looks like from the dance floor.”
  • “I don't know the significance of this, but I find it very interesting.”
  • "I went downstairs and watched a half-hour long commercial that advertised an exercise machine."
  • "They kept flashing a 1-800 number, so I called it."
  • "The woman who picked up the other end of the phone was named Michelle. And I told Michelle that I was a kid and did not need an exercise machine, but I hoped she was having a good night. That's when Michelle hung up on me. And I didn't mind a bit.”
  • “We Are All Infinite”
  • “No more pencils, no more books, no more teachers' dirty looks, when the teacher rings the bell, drop your books and run like hell.”
  • “Put my head under my pillow, and let the quiet put things where they are supposed to be.”
  • “We can't choose where we come from but we can choose where we go from there.”
  • “I love my mom so much. I don't care if that's corny to say."
  • “Things change, friends leave. And life doesn't stop for anybody.”
  • “There's nothing like the deep breathes after laughing that hard. Nothing in the world like a sore stomach for all the right reasons.”
  • “He said it was the kind of book you made your own.”
  • “So, this is my life. And I want you to know that I am both happy and sad and I'm still trying to figure out how that could be.”
  • “I would die for you. But I won't live for you.”
  • “So, I guess we are who we are for a lot of reasons. And maybe we'll never know most of them. But even if we don't have the power to choose where we come from, we can still choose where we go from there. We can still do things. And we can try to feel okay about them.”
  • “I am very interested and fascinated how everyone loves each other, but no one really likes each other.”
  • “I think that if I ever have kids, and they are upset, I won't tell them that people are starving in China or anything like that because it wouldn't change the fact that they were upset. And even if somebody else has it much worse, that doesn't really change the fact that you have what you have.”
  • “It's strange because sometimes, I read a book, and I think I am the people in the book.”
  • “It's just that I don't want to be somebody's crush. If somebody likes me, I want them to like the real me, not what they think I am. And I don't want them to carry it around inside. I want them to show me, so I can feel it too.”
  • “Enjoy it. Because it's happening.”
  • “He's a wallflower. You see things. You keep quiet about them. And you understand.”
  • “This moment will just be another story someday.”
  • “We didn't talk about anything heavy or light. We were just there together. And that was enough.”
  • “And I guess I realized at that moment that I really did love her. Because there was nothing to gain, and that didn't matter.”
  • “Please believe that things are good with me, and even when they're not, they will be soon enough. And i will always believe the same about you.”
  • “Just tell me how to be different in a way that makes sense.”
  • “It was the kind of kiss that made me know that I was never so happy in my whole life.”
  • “I just need to know that someone out there listens and understands and doesn't try to sleep with someone even if they could have. I need to know these people exist.”
  • “Sometimes people use thought to not participate in life.”
  • “Maybe this are my glory days, and I'm not even realizing it...”
  • “When to stopped wishing things wouldn't fall apart, you'd stop suffering when they did.”
  • “I wonder what it will be like when I leave this place.”
  • “When the police came, they found my brother asleep on the roof. Nobody knows how he got there.”
  • “I just think it's bad when a boy looks at a girl and thinks that the way he sees the girl is better than the girl actually is.”
  • “I would give someone a record so they could love the record, not so they would always know that I gave it to them.”
  • “Why would I care whether or not he loved me when he didn't even really know me?”
  • “So, I heard you're this ninja or something.”

anonymous asked:

Hey So I identify as Bisexual but I don't really understand the difference between bisexuality and pansexuality. I mean I would, and have, dated non-binary and gender-queer people. But I would not identify as pansexual because it doesn't work for me and to me it just seems like people who are afraid of using the word bisexual came up with another word that means the same thing because they wanted to feel special and different. Am I being unfair? I honestly don't understand the difference

Yes, you are being unfair. You may not understand why somebody wants to identify as pansexual, but by feeling that pansexual people just want to feel special or different, you’re invalidating a label and an identity that is often personal and meaningful to them, in the same way that somebody would be invalidating you if they were to say “bisexuality isn’t real” or “bisexuals just do it for attention”.

bi-privilege​ has an excelllent post on the difference between bi/poly/pan and we have a short answer in our FAQ.

anonymous asked:

Yo! First, I loooove your art and you're actually the person who convinced me to try Homestuck (it's pretty addictive). I'm really at the beginning of it (page 3325) and I already have a few ship, but I'm kinda scared that they'll end up with somebody else If that doesn't bother you could you just please tell me if : Rose/John Jade/Dave Karkat/Terezi Wayward vagabond/Peregrine Mendincant Will ever be canon or Will even be hint?because I love them so much Anyway, You're amazing, i love ya Bye!

arigatos B) ohoh glad you’re enjoying it uvu

weell are you sure you don’t want to find out yourself?

also HS is not over yet so the final couples (if there will actually be some when it’s over) aren’t certain! but if you want to know

Johnrose is most likely not happening (Rose is with someone else), Davejade yes, in a way, but currently they broke up, Karezi was canon for a while but not at the moment and WVxPM never became canon tho it might if they meet again!