anonymous asked:

i jsut want to say i am very appreciative that you are answering all these questions with a level head (when some do them are obviously being hateful) But i'm a little lost in all of this because I was (and still am) very sheltered. What does terf mean? Again, i'm sorry if I'm being ignorant but I'm jsut confused on all of this that's going on?

i answered this a while back, friend! if you search “terf” on the blog you should be able to find it :)

anonymous asked:

hiii~ what does "mochipanko" mean? I hope you have a lovely weekend!!

mochi - rice cake

pan - bread

anko - sweet red bean paste

aka a mix of my favorite sweets/food! idek how I came up with this…i was craving these foods probably

Okay people can hate Simon and Clary as much as they want but that scene where she has to kiss Jace and Simon watches???? Like the Queen told her to kiss who she most desires and Simon said “Just hurry up and kiss me” so quickly, like he is so in love with her, there was not a shadow of a doubt in his mind that obviously she felt the same and their kiss would be the key to their escape, and then to have it fail, and then to have to watch that person make out with someone else and have it be the answer to all their problems, I mean, like…I can’t. This kid waited literally years to have Clary feel the same way as him and now he realizes she still doesn’t and never will and no matter how many times she says “I love you” she will never mean it with the same gravitas he does I mean can you imagine that though??? Like really imagine that. Loving someone with everything inside of you and then having to come to terms with the fact that they feel that way about someone else??? Like I seriously can’t deal Simon is too pure for this life that episode was too savage I’m -

TalesFromRetail: Having items set aside over the phone does not mean they are free...
 I worked at a clothing retail store when I was in college (as far as I know, it closed years ago when it went out of business). Once in awhile, we would get a call from potential customers asking about the current deals or items available. If they asked us to set some aside, it wasn't a major problem as long as the items in question had at least several left in the store. We had a lady call in and ask us to set a couple items aside. A couple items turned into a whole slew of them: about $100 worth of clothing. She said she'd come into the store in an hour or so for them. (I didn't take the call, a co worker did, and said co worker told me to expect her since he was going off shift). She walked in about an hour or so later, like she claimed. C = Customer. Me = Me. 

C: “Hi, I’m C and I called about having clothing set aside?”

Me: “Good afternoon, here are the clothes you wanted.”

(I put them up on the counter and started to tell her the total when she started to take them).

Me: “Oh, excuse me, the total of those will be $100.00.”

C: “I don’t understand, I had you set them aside over the phone.”

(At this point, I thought maybe the person who took the call had her pay over the phone and she was just retrieving them).

Me: “I’m very sorry, did (co-worker) have you purchase over the phone?”

C: “No, I won’t give out my information over the phone and since I had these set aside, I’m taking them.”

Me: “I’m very sorry but setting them aside over the phone still means you have to pay for the purchase.”

She took the clothes off the counter and briskly tried to walk out. No one took the sensors off the clothes yet because they hadn’t been purchased so when she tried to leave, the alarm went off. She was so embarrassed or angry that she dropped them in a large pile in the front and stormed off.

tl;dr: a woman thought setting clothes aside over the phone means you don’t have to pay.

By: dejacobs0

Sweeter Bitter 2 of 3

Chapter 1

A/N: You are losing your senses one strand at a time.

I opened my eyes to the sound of a vibrating phone. I peeked my head through the layers and stretched as the satiation from last night rippled throughout my body. I opened the message and blinked, staring blankly at the text.

How’s Cali?

I sat up in the bed and gazed around at the empty room.

What the fuck does he mean? I thought.

Haha. 😐
As if you don’t already know.

I don’t that’s why I’m asking.

Where are you?


No the fuck you’re not.“ I say aloud. "You are here, I saw you twice.”

I pulled back the covers and padded into the empty bathroom, I came out and walked throughout the two room suite. I called his name, but I was met with silence. There was no evidence of last nights activities except for the ache between my thighs. My purse and shoes were exactly where I left them. I retraced my footsteps from last night and I walked back into the bedroom and noticed that my dress was exactly where he dropped it. I picked up my dress and tossed it on the chair. My phone vibrated in my hand and I jumped as my adrenaline started to rise.

Doll. Is everything ok?

Why are you doing this?

Doing what?

I saw you in the elevator in the hotel in Cali and then again last night here in Vegas.


FaceTime started ringing and I answered.

“Doll, do you miss me that much that you’re seeing me everywhere you go?”

“I’m not crazy. I know I saw you.” I explained gazing at the screen.

“It wasn’t me.” He pauses. “I just finished my workout with the guys and we’re going to head back to the house to chill out.”

I was shaking my head. “You’re here. You spoke to me.”

“Doll, I’m not.” He turns the phone so that I could see the gym and the guys scattered throughout finishing up their workout. He turns the phone around, so that I can see his face. “Your mind is playing tricks on you.”

“Yeah, I guess. I have to go.” I say cutting the conversation short. I  hung up the phone and tossed it on the bed.

“What the fuck is going on and who the hell did I sleep with?”


“How did you sleep?” Steph asked as she took a sip of her Bloody Mary.

I ignored her question. “Did you see a guy with a white shirt hanging out in the lounge last night?”

“No.” She grinned. “I didn’t see anyone, but Alec.”


“Seriously? The tall Greek god with those lustful gray eyes.” She says licking her lips. I rolled my eyes.

I asked the other girls, Tessa and Dawn, but they also didn’t see anyone worth looking at except Alec, whose magnetism not only captured their attention, but also the entire room as I thought back on the night before. Sebastian said he was in the lounge, he saw us with Alec, but I couldn’t recall if I saw him. I sat back in silence, I had a vivid imagination, but this was surreal, why would he lie about being in Cali? He has no reason to and I know for a fact that both encounters happened. I didn’t make that up, did I?

I dove into the pool and swam two laps, I perched myself at the edge and stared at the guests around me. My heart began to hammer as I saw the familiar blue shades and black hat sitting on a stool at the bar drinking something and gazing at me. Someone must’ve said something because he turned away and began laughing. Two guys emerged blocking my view of him, when they parted he wasn’t there. I swam across the pool and made my way to where I thought Sebastian was sitting, I looked around, but I didn’t see him, I stared down at his half empty glass.

“Ma'am. Can I help you?”

I turned to see the flamboyant bartender gazing at me. “The guy that was sitting, do you know where he went?”

“Sorry, Doll. I didn’t see.”

Doll, why is he calling me Doll, only Sebs does that.

As I walked away I overheard the bartender calling someone else, Doll, and I shook my head. I think I am losing my mind I thought as I walked passed the cabanas into a gift shop, where as luck would have it I saw him.

With a triumphant grin I approached him. “New York my ass. I knew it was you. I’m not making it up now am I?” I say as I pulled off the hat and sunglasses. I gasped. This was not Sebastian, the man was bald with brown eyes. “I’m so sorry.” I exclaimed.

The man snatches his items out of my hand and swore as he walked away.

I exited the gift shop and saw Tessa as she approached me, “hun, are you alright?”

I nod. “Yeah, I thought I knew him.”

I made up an excuse and found myself back in the hotel room, wracking my brain into exhaustion, falling asleep a short while later.

Unbeknownst to me the door connecting my room to the adjacent suite opens and out steps Sebastian in a cream colored shirt and red shorts. He knew she will murder him once she finds out that he’s been here the entire time, but he couldn’t help it, he loved drivng her a strand away from madness.

He crept slowly from the room and into the second room of the suite that had a sofa, he found her asleep on the sofa in a shirt that rode up, exposing her underwear and stomach, the light summer blanket was tangled between one of her leg and part of it hung on the floor. She looked too peaceful to wake, but his hardness had other plans.

How was he going to wake her up?

My eyelids fluttered as I slowly came out of my dream state. My mind was still lucid and I knew I was dreaming, but my body was awake and aroused.

I tensed.

“Doll.” His voice, that delicious sensation between my thighs. “Wake up.”

I was awake. Wasn’t I? Is this a dream? Fuck, my dreams never felt this good. The ripples of pleasure overtakes my limbs and my mind snapped into reality, I moaned loudly gripping the cushions of the sofa as he lapped up my essence. My body began quivering as he entered me slowly, his hands planted firmly on my thighs as he eased out slowly and entered just as agonizingly slow.

I looked up at him and was aroused even further when he bit his bottom lip and his baby blues darkened before my eyes. I laced my fingers around his neck and pulled my hip up to meet his thrust.

Sebastian took immense pleasure in seeing her trying to win their bedroom battles, her delicate frame able to handle the force he exerted upon her. Sadly enough for her he never let’s her win these battles, his ego wouldn’t let him take one for the team. He thrust deeply into her core and stills feeling every muscle contraction, this was home, he knew her insides just as well as her outside, he knew which angles made her melt around him, the positions that renders her helpless, the spots that had her begging for him to end her agony, which tone of voice to use, and the look that caused her heart, skin, and pulses to radiate that intense heat only he could quell.

 He knew by the look in her eyes what would satisfy her; the way she sat and her body language told him how roughly she wanted it, and now, he knows she wanted an instant knockout that will let her sleep soundly, but he had to pace himself for the hours ahead, he would give her a little and gradually increasing until he drove her into madness. She had no idea what she has gotten herself into. She was almost there, he felt her muscle contracting every few seconds and her eyes were closed tightly as she tried to ward off her trembling legs. She bit her bottom lip trying to quell her screams and nothing irritated him more, he was giving her all she desired and he expected to hear her screams of approval. 

He tugs on her chin, freeing her bottom lip, he kisses her heavily, leaving her gasping for air. He presses his hand on her belly as he felt himself in her, she was close and so was he.

“Sebastian, please.” She cooed.

Her body was now his and that was all it took for the both of them to ride the wave of undying passion together. He collapsed on top of her, their breathing heavy, labored, and in sync.

“Dollface.” He whispers in her ear before he lifted his weight from her and disappeared into the bedroom.

Post Note: This short three part series came out of nowhere and I hope you enjoy it. The next chapter of Convergence will be queued up close to the end of the week. 

anonymous asked:

what does "painfully thick" mean ? sorry, i'm a new follower and i LOVE your blog 💞 it really gets my mind going 😅😂

Aw thank you so much!! So I saw this pic floating around tumblr one day, and I decided to commandeer the Painfully Thick™ train and that’s how this blog got started hahaha

Since then I’ve added like 10 guys (lmao) to the Painfully Thick™ classification because I really like writing about beefy men apparently 😏😂😂 I’m glad you enjoy reading about them, anon! 😘😘

BTS Reaction To Their GF Wanting To Work At A Travel Agency

*GIFs Not Mine*

Reaction Masterlist

Anonymous said:

Pls can you do a BTS reaction to their gf wanting to become a tour operator/ to work for a travel agency?

Jin: so does that mean you could plan our vacations and find good deals? Or send the others off somewhere so I can get a break from them?

Originally posted by savethepeebees

Suga: as long as when it comes to our vacations, you give me time to rest and don’t overplan everything, it’s all good. You’ll be really good at it. 

Originally posted by syubto

J-Hope: Aww I think that’d be a great fit you! Just don’t go flirting with the locals on your trips and bring me back some food.

Originally posted by ttaegiis

Rap Monster: I’m just happy there’ll be someone else around who can translate. 

Originally posted by choke-me-namjoon

Jimin: so does that mean I can leave planning our vacations to you?

Originally posted by okayoongz

V: so I’m hearing wonderful vacations with my girlfriend that I won’t have to plan

Originally posted by bangtanroyalty

Jungkook: *eventually starts to worry that if you’re leading tours, you’ll be gone a lot just like he is so he might worry that it’ll be even harder for you two to see each other.*

Originally posted by yourpinkpill

anonymous asked:

Would you mind not giving Joy Sparkle BS views via your blog? You folks do a fine job here and she's just as (if not more) toxic than Greg. Her videos here would do a disservice versus helping. Just a head's up. Thank you!

No, sorry. I don’t want to be part of her drama. I’m not taking sides. If she’s part of Greg’s current drama, she’s part of his current drama. I’m going to post her side like I would for anyone else feuding with Greg and I post the bare minimum of her videos about him. I’ve only posted two or three of her videos throughout this whole drama even though she’s made 20+ videos about Greg in the last week.

I’m just trying to get all the information out there. I don’t care if she’s right or wrong, I hope everyone realizes just because I post something someone said against Greg does not mean I 100% agree with them. For example Drew’s recent tweets. They were awful. My #1 priority on this blog is archiving. I want it to be a resource/timeline of information about Greg and his online dramas.

I posted that last video because Joy showed a clip of Greg saying he was going to “rip her apart” similarly to how she said to Lainey “I’m coming for you bitch”.

twotrays23  asked:

7,8,9 and 50 please?

7. If you could be a mythical creature, which would you choose?
- mermaid

8. Do you prefer reading paper or electronic books?
- paper. I have a kindle filled with hundreds of books. But If I can get a copy from the library I’d prefer to read it that way.

9. What is your favourite item of clothing?
- I have a green hoodie I got while teaching middle school several years ago. I absolutely love it. I even wear it to bed in the winter.

50. Invent your own word. What does it mean?
- I actually do this all the time. I couldn’t even attempt to spell half of them if I tried. When I taught 1st grade I had one for the little pieces of torn paper on the edge of a notebook when you tear out a page. All of the kids started using my made up word. I loved it.

Thanks Mark

So…why is it all of a sudden a woman is weak for falling in love?

As a feminist, I try to encourage the idea of not needing a romantic partner in order to live a fulfilling life. I started this, because a few years back, I came to the realization that I was being too hard on myself when I wasn’t in a relationship. It took leaving a very conservative and small city and rediscovering myself to realize that as great as romance can be, I don’t need it to be happy. I don’t go out of my way to find a date or worry over being single when I am anymore. I always tell myself that it’s better to be single forever than to lower one’s standards and settle only for the sake of being in a relationship.

All of this, however, does not mean I would never date a man or a woman I was attracted to physically, spiritually, and emotionally just for the sake of being what a select few would consider a truly “independent woman.”

I’m seeing a few people criticize Wonder Woman for her relationship with Steve Trevor, as if this relationship somehow makes her weak. I just don’t understand this. For one thing, unlike Joss Whedon’s mess of a version of the character, the Steve we saw in the movie was a kind man who respected Diana for her strength and compassion–not just her beauty. He never talked down to her. He was a good match for her and complimented her well. I also said this before, but allowing yourself to open up and love and trust another person is one of the bravest things a person can do. Human beings are emotional animals, and heartbreak sometimes takes a long time to recover from. Some of us have had bad experiences in trusting people, and the fact that some of us allow ourselves to love again after those experiences is amazing (and this is not me saying that those who choose not to open themselves up to romantic love are weak and not amazing in different ways). Diana has never been outside of her island until after she rescues Steve and her aunt is killed by a German soldier. It would be easy for her to hold him at arms length throughout the movie, but she doesn’t, because along with him being tested by the lasso, she trusts him based on instinct. Leaving the island with him was brave and allowing herself anything romantic with him was also brave.

In short, romance does not make anyone, especially women, weak. It is not required to be strong, but it doesn’t hurt either.

anonymous asked:

I hope we don't have to hear about her every time they happen to go to the same place in la lol not a single person that saw him said she was there and she was in a completely different area than him yet u still got anons about it. He literally liked something about being single before the show as if his ass knew when he probably literally had no idea she would show up considering mitchy dropped her ass

I just feel bad for him bc this bitch doesn’t define him, she’s fucking nothing compared to him and I don’t want his legacy to be “remember when Luke dated arzaylea” she doesn’t deserve to be even muttered in the same sentence as Luke. He deserves better, bc he’s so much more than she will ever be. Luke moved on time for everyone else to do the same. Let her crash and burn with her shitty modelling contract and followers. She got what she wanted so she can keep it and fuck off

Hi! You seem like a really understanding person, and I feel you can answer some of my doubts. I want to represent more gender diversity in my writing, so I decided to write about a non-binary character. In every place I search about they always refer to the gender dysphoria and how they didn’t feel like their gender represent them. And it made me reflexionate about my own gender. And here’s my problem, I don’t feel dysphoria bout using female pronouns and being femenine, but I also don’t feel dysphoria when people use male pronouns and wear more masculine clothing? I’m pretty confused about it, because everywhere I look dysphoria is an important part of how they discovered their true identity. How you can answer to the lack of dysphoria? What does it mean?

Sorry if I bother you, you have a great blog and thanks a lot for all the work you already do.


hey there!!

first of all thanks for the lovely kind words about our blog (there’s 3 of us by the way hehe) and thank u so so much for wanting to diversify ur writing with nonbinary characters!!

now, about dysphoria. not every trans or nonbinary person experiences gender dysphoria. it is by no means an essential part of identifying as trans/nonbinary/gnc. a lot of advice focusses on it because a lot of ppl DO experience it but definitely not all. ur lack of dysphoria doesn’t mean u can’t be trans!!

as for not minding any pronouns and not minding presenting both masculine and feminine, perhaps u might be bigender, or genderfluid! don’t be afraid to look into the options out there!!

once again thanks for the kind words and ur post was no bother at all!!

 - mod daria

anonymous asked:

Hey, I don't if you theorize about stuff or not, but I'd like to hear from a fellow VRAINS fan. Do you think the reason Aoi might be in a coma is because her VRAINS form is actually still online and just unconscious somewhere? Like she's trapped in VRAINS for a bit?

I’m not much for theories, but I will say that does sound reasonable. I mean for all we know because the Knights gave her that card they might have some how managed to get her avatar. And thinking back to ep 3 where go trapped Playmaker in Vrains it could be the same, but in a way the knights some how have split Aoi and Blue Angel apart, so like, Aoi is still in vrains, but some how she is separate from her avatar

I’m having a hard time putting my thoughts to words, so I hope that makes sense

anonymous asked:

Relay karmic debt is always mentioned about Saturn. What does that mean exactly. Was i a dick I'm my old life and thats why my life sucks right now😅😅

Honestly, I’m not sure what it means to repay karmic debt. Is that associated with past lives or something? If it is, I don’t know how to answer that, especially because I don’t really believe in past lives and stuff like that. But I THINK it may indicate that it’s your duty to right your wrongs, you know? :-) That’s the only way you will feel free.