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anonymous asked:

It seemed like the Elena that was crying over hurting Stefan and apologizing in 4x10 was complete opposite to later in that ep when she called Damon al happy saying she realized she loves him.. like r u really sorry because it just seems ur glad u believe u love him now. I mean I know her pain with stef was genuine but that scene was still a slap in the face

Yeah, I disagree. I think that when Elena was with Stefan, that was genuine emotion, that is what she felt and it was more than simply being sorry that he was hurt because we’ve seen Elena be sorry that she said something that hurt someone who was lost in love with her:

There is no sense of panic, there is no sense anxiety or desperation, she just feels bad. With Stefan:

and what’s more is that she brings it up when she has no humanity and the sire bond isn’t a factor

The fact that Elena is on the phone with Damon and tells him she loves him then gets excited because he’s excited just tells me that the sire bond is in effect because throughout season 4, when she’s with Stefan, it’s like Elena comes out and combats the sire bond without realizing:

and there’s a sense of not having control because she is just breaking through

and very strong, very present emotions arise that if she was completely over Stefan and all about Damon shouldn’t 

and 4x10 is an example of that imo. So.


“We’ve all made terrible mistakes in our life, done things that no apology can heal, but you just have to keep going trying to find some new happiness no matter how much you’ve lost. The strange thing is, losing those people is what brought us together, it’s how we found each other, it’s what made us family.”

shout out to everyone who gave up on the vampire diaries years ago and are now joining us to watch the final episode! welcome to what i like to call “the final stab”


The last episode was wonderful, but I’ll miss this beans..The vampire diaries is a big piece of my heart and will be forever here,inside my life. ❤