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tumblr loves talking about slytherin/hufflepuff friendships but what about ravenclaw/gryffindor friendships

  • just imagine
  • ‘we really should study..’
  • ‘but..?’
  • ‘they’re are better more interesting things to do!’
  • do you see the struggle starting already
  • this friendship is completely ignoring curfew
  • because fuck rules
  • and also rebellion for the stupidest things
  • like 
  • ‘you know what we should do?’
  • ‘use pencils instead quills because quills are fucking stupid’
  • and also lots of swearing
  • like excessive swearing because they don’t have filters
  • lot’s of detentions together for breaking literally all the school rules in like a time span of a week
  • because nothing will stop the two of them from exploring every nook and cranny in the castle and fighting anything that moves
  • so much debating
  • about e v e r y t h i n g
  • laughing at their bad grades together 
  • just gryffindor/ravenclaw friendships 

waalkr asked:

Ah, and I know people keep asking but: Your friend/neighbor seems really nice, how do you see your friendship? Like, you both seem really close and like you have a lot of fun together hahaha Are you close friends for a while now?

AH……. it’s ok I guess I understand because he comes over a lot and when Landon’s here, he’s HERE.. do you know what I mean? Never a quiet presence.. >___>));;;;;;

I’m not really too sure though uhmmm to be honest I can’t tell if Landon actually likes me or if he’s just bored/lonely >/////-////<))) so.. I try not to think about it.. we’ve known each other since we were little but.. eermm it’s a whooole long story but anyway, in addition, my dad said I shouldn’t be friends with him and.. even Isaiah is kind of weird with him.. which I don’t get because Isaiah usually likes everyone @____@))) I think maybe he’s being overprotective of me even though I told him there’s nothing to worry about >/////-////<)));;; but anyway I guess that’s why I don’t like to think of it too much. But even if Landon’s just bored/lonely I think it’s better if he hangs out with me instead of getting into trouble (which he does sometimes) so I’m ok with it ^^);;; I hope that answers the question…

THIS IS WHAT MAKES US GIRLS:

This is what makes us girls
We don’t stick together ‘cause we put our love first
Don’t cry about him, don’t cry about him
It’s all gonna happen
And that’s where the beginning of the end begun

One of the most important relationships you can talk about in this application is Prosperina’s feelings about each of the other ladies in waiting, and Sera. Sera and Juliana are the only ones of the four who managed to remain close to one another in the wake of the rapidly approaching Queenstrial (and even then it’s a ghost of a friendship,) while Alessa and Prosperina both drifted away altogether. I’d love to see you talk about the interrelationships between the girls and the friendship between the four of them as well as how they pair off. How do you envision each of their friendships, and how do you see them having fallen apart? Who was the first to drift away, to close off? Alessa was inarguably Prosperina’s best friend before they realized that they were both competing for the same crown, so write about how Prosperina felt in losing her. Was she bitter and angry, or did she understand? Who do you think was the first to close off, Prosperina or Alessa? Write about how Prosperina felt in watching Sera retreat in on herself. Write about how she felt about Juliana’s part in all of it. Does Prosperina have hope that after Queenstrial they’ll be able to reassemble the shattered pieces of the friendship, or has she accepted that it’s lost forever?

COLORS:

You’re dripping like a saturated sunrise
You’re spilling like an overflowing sink
You’re ripped at every edge but you’re a masterpiece
And now I’m tearing through the pages and the ink

The most important aspect of Prosperina that you can explore is her changed personality. I often equate her to paint, to colors that aren’t her own design. She stood in front of the Elite and allowed them to paint her in varying shades, until the colors that she once sported so proudly were unrecognizable. She’s an entirely different person than she once was. Explore that. Does she even realize just how far she’s come? If she stood in front of a mirror, would she even be able to recognize herself? Would she be able to find a whisper of the old Prosperina? Make the contrast to what she was like before her 180, to know. Talk about the different mannerisms that she’s adopted; different habits, a different vernacular. Tell us what she would have done six years ago, and then tell us what she would do now. Is there any lingering aspect of her old self that she just can’t seem to shake? Would she want to? Talk about how her parents, brother, and friends reacted to it. Did she defend herself, did she make excuses? Again, does she even realize how far she’s come?

DO I WANNA KNOW:

So have you got the guts?
Been wondering if your heart’s still open and
If so I wanna know what time it shuts
Simmer down and pucker up
I’m sorry to interrupt it’s just I’m constantly
On the cusp of trying to kiss you

*pietro maximoff voice* You didn’t see this coming? Talk about her relationship with Domitius. Talk about how close they used to be. Talk about them as children ( I am so WEAK for flashback drabbles. You have no idea. ) Talk about how they used to play, how they used to sneak off away from boring parties they they were dragged to to climb trees in the dark, talk about how Pros always beat him to the top. Talk about how the boys used to joke that Pros should be off at lessons with the other ladies in waiting and Dom would stand up and say don’t worry about it, she can hang better than you, and Pros would exclaim that she could defend herself but let’s be honest, it was nice that someone was finally paying attention to her. Talk to me about them growing up alongside each other, talk about the deep bond that came from it. Talk about the fact that they were probably each others first kiss. Talk about how Pros felt when Dom left for war. Talk about how she felt when he didn’t come back. Talk about Pros trying to mold herself into the Queen that she thought Dom would need, the Queen that she was told he should want. Talk about the fact that Dom wants none of those things, and how Prosperina was only molding herself to fit this idealized version of him that the Kingdom knows, and talk about how he is none of those things. Talk about the fact that Dom can barely stand to even look at her anymore. Talk about the tragedy of it all.

Quick question

What do you guys want to see next?

A Sirius Black x Reader (friendship)
A Harry Potter x Reader (trying to keep it gender neutral)
A Luna Lovegood x Reader (female reader and love interest)
Or a friendship fic between Hermione Granger x Ginny Weasley x Reader?

Send in an ask and let me know so I know what to finish for posting!

I hope you are all having a great day! x

anonymous asked:

I recall you talking about some long distance friendships. Do you see each other when you can? Like when you have money, time etc. I feel like some of my LDFs are a bit clingy and expect to see me on a consistent basis. I might not have money for the plane ticket, something might be going on with work, etc. I think the great thing about long distance is seeing each other less to cherish the moments, if that makes sense. How can I nicely tell them it can't be a regular thing?

Long distance friends are really, really hard. But really, really special. Some can see each other more often, some can’t. 

Noel lives 750 miles away from me. It was definitely a lot easier when she still lived in Washington, DC and was only a bus ride away. We saw each other practically once a month for a good stretch. Then she moved back to Kentucky and we’ve seen each other once since then. (Wow, that felt weird to think.) 

It’s not that we don’t want to, it’s just that you’re right — it’s really hard to work with and coordinate. We both have super busy jobs and lives in our own cities and postgrad budget limitations. We were spoiled before. Because now seeing each other isn’t just planning a quick weekend trip via a Bolt bus. Now it’s a trip trip. Like, vacation time and airplanes and planning. 

You’re right — long distance makes you really cherish the moments you have together. But a lot of times I still wish we weren’t so far away. I wish we didn’t have to cram so much friendship into a limited timeframe, always go go go. I wish Noel lived three subway stops away from me and we could get dinner after work or hang out watching movies all night. 

I’m sorry your LDFs are a little clingy. Maybe they’re not clingy so much as they miss you? It’s easy to get that way when you miss someone. But if they expect to see you on a consistent basis, it’s gotta be a little give and take. You go there, they come to you, you meet in the middle, sort of thing. My best advice is to be honest — you love them, but right now, you can’t see them all the time. If they’re your friends, they’ll understand. Then, remind them (and yourself) that it won’t always be like this. Someday, you’ll be bigger and have more vacation time or more money or maybe live closer and things will be easier. 

I honestly wish I could talk to you one more time to see how you are doing. I miss your friendship more than your love. I wish I could take it all back

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To My Friend Who Wasn't Really My Friend

Fool me once, shame on you.

Fool me twice, shame on me.

Fool me three times, why are we still friends?

If someone has yet to tell you, allow me to be the first: you are important. Something I consistently struggle with (and imagine I will continue to in the future) is allowing myself to have toxic friendships. Guess what? You do not have to be friends with people who do not treat you like a person, let alone a friend. You don’t have to be friends with everyone you meet.

It is hard to recognize when a friendship is not at it’s prime. Usually, you do not even see the damage the friendship is doing until after it’s already over. Then by that time, you wonder why you’ve wasted six months on a friendship that wasn’t even worth it.

Unfortunately, it’s super hard to end a friendship, truthfully. We act like it’s so easy, but, in reality, it actually is rather difficult. We don’t want to deal with the awkwardness of admitting there is a problem and that we would rather split ways. Plus, you did start being their friend for a reason. I have found that some friendships just have more bad than good, and because of that, I would rather not deal with the negativity of that friend in turn to only reap a few benefits. It’s hard to “break up” with your friend. By the way, friendship break ups are totally real.

Invest in those who invest in you (my life motto now that I have started college).

Having a friend who isn’t truly your friend is miserable. They are negative, they don’t support you, and they just bring you down. No one needs a “friend” like that. One of the scariest things I have done is weed out bad friends. Now roughly a year later, I could not be more thrilled to have the amazing friends I do have, and to wake up each morning and not feel as if negativity is haunting me.

To the friend who wasn’t my friend:

Thank you. You showed me that there are better friendships out there and that negativity does not have to be a part of my everyday life. I love smiling, but in my time spent with you, I found myself often frowning. Thank you for never asking about my day or how I am doing, for now, I know that those questions are important and lets a person know you care. I ask them every time I see someone now. Thank you for leaving me hanging in times of need and never going out of your way for me, for it showed me that sacrifice and flexibility are key features of honest friendship. Thank you for our good times, because while I often have spoiled memories of you, I know that we were friends for a reason and not all my time was wasted.

Thank you for letting our friendship end.

Allison (@haleandstilinski) sent me all of these: “15, 36, 28, 50, 45, 34, 23, 12, 17, 6, 2, 9“

15 Hair Colour: Naturally light brown, but I dyed it… and now everyone at college calls me ginger.

36 (representing the core of our friendship, i see what you’re doing) Favourite Food: All of it. No but I feel inclined to say ice cream, since my dad’s part of the Ice Cream Alliance (yeah guys, the Ice Cream Alliance exists and all your ice cream men are in on it)

28 Last thing that made you cry: So on the Friday of our show last week I was very ill and I had an exceedingly bad headache and my friend was telling me that I should just go home because she could get someone else to help her spin the bed (yeah that was my job) but I started crying because I felt the need to do this, I didn’t want to not do it and then I just started crying because it really fucking hurt tbh.

50 Favourite Movie: I’ve questioned myself on this a lot but I decided that I’m going to always say Prayers For Bobby

45 Wearing Any Bracelets?: I’m wearing a hairband on my wrist.

34 Last Person You Talked To: As in all together, you Allison, as in real person, my mum and dad, both at the same time.

23 Ever Been In a Physical Fight: Joke ones, yeah, I attack Elliot a lot but he always wins, and there was also that one lightsaber battle I had with the boys. Also I hit Scott in the face the other day because he tickled me.

12 Favourite Song: AH DON’T DO THIS TO ME I CAN’T DECIDE, I mean, I guess I’ll say Aaron Tveit’s cover of Billie Jean.

17 Favourite Singer: can I say Aaron Tveit? I want to say Aaron Tveit… Or Jordan Lee Davies

6 Any Tattoos you want? Okay so listen i get really into fandom things and allison and I both said we’d want a matching Triskele tattoo, idk were but it’d be cute. Also I recently drew some Runes from Shadowhunters/tmi on my arm in make up and that doesn’t seem like too bad of an idea so… yeah

2 Ever Been In Love? no not really

9 Favourite Show: TEEN WOLF AND SHADOWHUNTERS NO QUESTION

anonymous asked:

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SEND A URL AND I WILL ANSWER Meme.

  • Do I Follow Them?: Yes!
  • Why Did I Follow Them?: I saw them quite a bit on my dash, and thought the character was kinda cute lookin’. And the more I caught bits and pieces of the RP they were in, the more I liked ‘em. THEN I CHECKED OUT THEIR BLOG, and it was history. 
  • Do We Role Play?: Not yet! D:
  • Do I Want To Role Play With Them: Heck yeah, I do!! Love their lil fluff ball and want to learn more about them, honestly.
  • An AU Idea For Our Muses: UH, legit drawing a blank here. I AM SORRY, but I’m sure there’s plenty of ideas we could come up with.
  • A Song For Our Muses: Coyote Kisses - Stay With You.
  • Do I Ship Our Muses?: Nope! Could see lots of cute friendship things, though!
  • What I Think About The Mun: Haven’t interacted with them much, sadly, but I bet they’re pretty cool. :D
  • Overall Opinion: Really cool OC, I’d recommend checking ‘em out. *^*
  • Blog Rate: 1 | 2 | 3 | 4 | 5 | 6 | 7 | 8 | 9 | 10

@cleanfluffyreset

anonymous asked:

Hi! I saw your fanvid and I loved it! I was wondering if you could make an early season three video with the song Still And Always Will by Vintage Trouble? When I saw the anon about that song I immediately fell in love with it!

Thank you!! Ahhh, you know, I was idly contemplating doing a vid for that song, but I wasn’t sure if people were sick of me screaming about it by now, hahaha. Give me some time to think about it to develop a °˖✧vision✧˖° and I’ll see what I can do. ♥♥

anonymous asked:

Do you see John and Sherlock as more platonic, even if their friendship goes deeper than the average one, or as romantic?

17/20 questions

John is definitely the romantic one (if/in a johnlock sense).

For a friendship, however, I do truly see it as platonic. They just fit so well together and compliment each other. And in the end, each was exactly what the other needed. Had their first case not happened, I believe each would not have been around too long past it (each for different reasons).

anonymous asked:

Do you ship Spaleb?

yes, i’ve always shipped haleb, apart from when he left hanna for ravenswood. but i do love caleb’s friendship with spencer, you can see that she makes him happy, well more than she was with toby. i’ve never liked toby to be honest and i’m starting a spaleb gifset soon

i’m bored, come talk to me

anonymous asked:

what guys do you see yourself being with forever

Honesty hour!

“As in what? Relationships? Friendships? If we’re talking about relationships, then no one. Not at this school anyway. Nobody makes me get that mushy feeling of wanting to marry them, so it makes sense that I don’t see myself being with someone forever. If we’re talking unrealistically, then I’d say Ryan Gosling in a heart beat.”

Friendship protip:

If you see someone doing something that they would probably be embarrassed about you seeing, like dancing, waving arms to music, stumbling, flashing their undergarments for a split second, or messing something up, pretend you didn’t notice at all, and keep it to yourself.

If there’s no convincing way to pretend you didn’t see it, shrug it off, briefly tell them its fine, and keep it to yourself.

In the long term, people will feel incredibly more comfortable around you.

Alodia’s thoughts....

Maybe one of the worst feelings for anyone is liking someone who can never like them back and what makes it worst is that that someone is your friend. You know that feeling is not right; that you should not feel that way. No matter how hard you try to stop falling for that person, you still fall. You see every sides of that person and you still fall and it will hurt…..so bad.

So do yourself a favor, walk away from them. You’re not only doing this for yourself, you’re doing this to save your friendship. If he cant see how special you are, if he doesn’t care about your feelings, walk away. Just do it. Why would you wanna be with someone who doesn’t see how amazing you are? You are special, my darling. Eventually you will find someone who will love you just as much as you love them. It’s just feelings, it will go away. Pain demands to be felt. So, feel it. Feel it until it hurts no more. Allow yourself to miss them but don’t get caught up in the moment. Do your thing, make yourself busy, enjoy your life. 

And if there comes a time when you think you can’t live without that person anymore, remember this: HE CAN LIVE WITHOUT YOU SO YOU CAN TOO!