do what make you happy

anonymous asked:

I'm surprised you are still about Sherlock considering that major queerbaiting they did. The trailer showed a scene where Sherlock told John he loved him yet this scene wasn't in any of the episodes

Alright, I keep getting messages like this so I’m just going to answer one and have that be it. I’m upset about what’s happened, too. This show has been the most central focus of my life for five years. I love this show more than anything else I’ve ever been interested in and Johnlock was the largest factor in that. I’ve been openly part of the TJLC community for years. I love this show. I painted the wallpaper on my wall, it stares me right in the face every time I walk in the fucking room. I love this show. This show has helped me through so many hard times and been there for me when I needed it most. This show and the people I’ve met because of it are what played the largest factor in me coming to learn more about myself and my own sexuality. This show has made me so inexplicably happy for so long, and Johnlock specifically. I am hurt and disappointed and upset by things that have happened with the most recent season and I’m extremely let down by what we didn’t get. 

That being said, everything that happened up until season four still happened and I still love all of that. I still stand by the belief that Johnlock is real, that Sherlock is gay, that him and John love one another and are in love. This is one of the biggest things in my life that brings me happiness. If that means ignoring shit I hate about Season 4 for the sake of my mental health and wellbeing then I’m going to continue to enjoy that about the show that I loved. 

As a final note in response to your last comment: The ‘I love you scene’ was in the trailer, as well as the episode. It was bait and as much as we all wanted it to be for John it was taken out of context and unfortunately it was essentially nothing. I’m just as upset and hurt about all of this, but I’m doing what I can to stay positive. You’re not the only one coming to my inbox insinuating that I should be dropping this show altogether. But if I did that my mental health and wellbeing would plummet and I just can’t afford that. I’m going to focus on what has always made me happy about this show as I go forward with it. Johnlock. TJLC. The people I’ve met. The community I know. It’s the only thing I know how to do.

Why? Just why?
  • Yakov: Vitya, you should do what makes you happy.
  • Victor:
  • Victor: *gets up and walks to the door*
  • Yakov: Where are you going?
  • Victor: I have to find Yuuri.
  • Victor: You just said, "Do what makes you happy."
  • Victor: So I figured
  • Victor: I'll do him.
  • Yakov:
  • Yakov: where did I go wrong with you? Why're you like this?

It’s okay, as a man, to want to be the head of the household. It’s okay to want to provide for your family. To be strong for your family. To want a family. It’s okay to look forward to marrying a lovely woman. It’s okay to want to be domestic.

It’s also okay to stay at home to take care of the kids. It’s okay if you’d rather step down and let your wife take the reigns. Occasionally, or permanently. It’s okay to be a stay at home father.

You’re not a pansy if you stay at home.
You’re not toxic if you want to be the head of your household.
You’re not weak for not fulfilling a nuclear role.
You’re not overly masculine for craving tradition.

You’re amazing and authentic no matter what you do, so long as it makes you happy.

anonymous asked:

Could you stop posting Ohmlirious? It's fucking disgusting, thanks.

like my friends (followers) say 
its my blog and i do what i want 
and its makes me happy 

anonymous asked:

I followed you initially for all your art and I stays for your art and pretty much everything else! Ur one of my fav artists and you've honestly inspired me to keep drawing after giving up for so long!! Thank you!!

i love u let me love u, keep doing your art buddy, do what makes you happy!

anonymous asked:

Every time I see your art I feel rejuvenated and like ten years has been added to my life. Thank you so much for what you do!

Ahh thank you so much anon!! It makes me super happy that my art has that sort of effect on you! I hope to keep doing what I do from here on out too

masqueradingstray  asked:

My god yes pit tickets for the whole emorphanage!!! But seriously like I have good grades so ever is telling me not to do that and I hate it....

having good grades should not prevent you from being in a band and making music. gerard has a degree! you don’t need to live up to other people’s expectations instead of doing what makes you happy.

Tagged by @daisyinaglass

How old are you 18

1. What’s your current job?
I make ppl food

2. What’s your aesthetic? 
I don’t even know rip
Blue stuff? I like blue stuff.

3. Do you collect anything?
Pics, rocks, recipes, manga

4. What’s a topic you always talk about?
Drawing and YOI

5. Whats one pet peeve of yours?
The words “smol” and “bean” followed by a “uwu” together in a sentence, especially if that sentence is a description of someone

6. Good advice to give?
If you aren’t hurting anyone, just do you. Enjoy what makes you happy. Stand up for what you believe in. Chill.

7. Three songs you would recommend?

- We Were Giants (Stornoway)
- In The Dark (Cathedrals)
- Lessons In Love (Neon Trees)

8. Tagging:
Anyone who wants to do this!

Take a shower, wash off the day. Drink a glass of water. Make the room dark. Lie down and close your eyes. Notice the silence. Notice your heart. Still beating. Still fighting. You made it, after all. You made it, another day. And you can make it one more. You’re doing just fine.

They’re saps

Unpopular opinion: 2016 was actually an incredible year to me, so many cool things happened!! I’ve become independent, I learned and experienced tons of things, I’ve overcome my problems and finally I achieved what I’ve wanted for so long: I am truly happy with who I am as a person! I learned how to be happy and how to stay happy, I learned what’s important and to what extent. I realised that everything is a choice and there are literally no limits!! I finally see that every minute spent on whining and crying under a blanket is a wasted minute!! There’s literally no point in being stuck in one place, life moves forward and so should I!! Every failure is a test of persistence and determination, the key is to never stop looking for solutions!!

tl;dr Bring it on 2017, I’m ready


I have always encouraged you to be fearless, to live your life in the name of love and do what makes you happy… As scary as it is to take the leap, I am excited and full of joy because I know that no matter what happens, I’m following my heart.’ [x]

be unapologetically you.

On Vocal unit Dazed Interview

HJS: I like to be alone. I like to go to cafe alone.

YJH: I hate being alone. I always take someone with me if I want to go out for a walk.

Few weeks ago: 

Jisoo end up accompanied Jeonghan to cafe……….