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PSA about Damen

He is bisexual. Bisexual means he is attracted to women and men. He sleeps with women and men. Falls in love with both women and men.

No, he is not “straight with exception”, he is bisexual.

No, he is not “basically gay” or “straight turned gay”. He is bisexual.

He doesn’t see any gender as better or more interesting or whatever. He thinks that sleeping with women is different than with men and he enjoys both.

Writing/drawing him as “never looked at another man before Laurent” is disrespectul and also noncanonical. Writing/drawing him as “only ever beds men and never looked at a woman in his life” - same thing. Even in AUs, you should never erase his sexuality.

Important sidenote: The author, C.S. Pacat, is bisexual herself. 

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Felicity is the most misogynist thing about Arrow.

Felicity has consistently, from as far back as season 1, viewed every other woman has her competition. She’s thrown every other female character under the bus to better herself and it genuinely baffles me that Felicity fans accuse those who dislike her of being misogynist, because Felicity has - since her conception - been the writers primary tool to facilitate their own misogyny.

Felicity dug into Moira’s background (granted she was enlisted to do so, however she continued even after she was specifically told to stop). Felicity then used the information she’d found on Moira (that also involved Thea) as she saw fit, with no regards for the women in question. She told Oliver, simultaneously dismissing Moira’s privacy, driving a wedge in the Queen family, viewing Oliver’s opinion as higher than either Moira or Thea (who the info ACTUALLY concerned) and faciliated the writer’s need for Queen Family Drama and more Oliver-man-pain.

Felicity made a petty remark of “What was it fantasy island?” Because she found out about Shado and Sara being present on Lian Yu. Oliver is traumatized and is hallucinating about a dead Shado, is consumed with guilt over her death and has consistently expressed that the island was too horrifying for him to talk about. And Felicity gets so jealous over the mere existence of a dead girl who was a part of Oliver’s life literal years before Felicity even knew he existed, to the point where she makes scathing comments and flippant remarks about his trauma.

Felicity needs to be reassured and explicitly told that SHE is Oliver’s ‘girl’ when Sara joins the team, because she doesn’t see Sara as an equal and is so threatened and intimdated by another woman joining the team they needed to literally specify that Felicity is The Girl ™. God forbid women work togehter and value each other without being pitted against each other.

Felicity called Oliver’s own mother diabolical AT HER FUNERAL, clearly not having any respect (if not for Moira as a person then she should have AT LEAST have respect for what she meant to Oliver), and this disgusting comment is never addressed or considered out of line in the narrative whatsoever. She also made a similar quip after Amanda Waller was shot.

Felicity is rude, dismissive, ashamed of and disrespectful to her mother near constantly. She looks down on her for not being as intelligent and slut shames her for her dress, despite the fact Donna raised Felicity single-handedly and dotes on her daughter completely.

Before I go on I’d love to point out that ALL OF THIS SO FAR (with the exception of the Waller comment) took place in Seasons 1&2, because people seem to forget that Felicity has always been awful, and they’re viewing the earlier seasons with rose-tinted glasses because seasons 3&4 were just THAT BAD.

When Season 3 started, Olicity was suddenly a thing, and they shoehorned in some flashbacks to try and make it more feasible, one of which included Felicity randomly walking into her boss’ office at QC after hours with no purpose, spying a photo of Oliver on a desk and commenting aloud to herself how cute he is and how “its a pity you’re dead”. This doesnt have anything to do with her treatment of women, but atleast her lack of respect for the dead is a consistent character trait!

Felicity continues to throw Thea under the bus, what started with Felicity telling Oliver about Thea’s true parentage, driving a wedge in the family and neglecting to tell Thea (or moira, who’s secret it was to tell), continues with Felicity outright telling Oliver not to save his sister because it might result in his death (a risk that Oliver has already stipulated that he’s willing to take).

But it gets worse!! A newly resurrected Thea is struggling with bloodlust and is too traumatized to return to her apartment because of what happened there, she moves in with Laurel, because Felicity and Oliver wanted to drive off into the sunset and play house. Months later it’s revealed that Felicity has been consulting with the team behind Oliver’s back the whole time and not once did she suggest they return and not once did either of them consider that Thea might need him. Its also never once addressed that Felicity was wrong for lying and keeping secrets, because Felicity is never wrong!!

(Also in The Flash, Felicity straight up told Eddie that it was completely fine for him to lie to Iris if it was for her own good!)

Then, when Felicity finds out Oliver fathered a child years ago that he didn’t know about, her temper tantrum caused such a distrubance in the team dynamic that they got killed and Barry had to go back in time to correct the timeline to stop it from happening. So Barry obviously knew about the kid.

William’s mother straight up tells Oliver that she doesnt trust him or his intentions and if he wants to get to know his son then it has to be a secret and strictly as a family friend until she’s convinced he’s in it for the long haul (this makes total sense given the Oliver she knew was a selfish, egotistical playboy who was NOT father material, she needs to see that he’s changed, and not overwhelm her son unnecessarily if it turns out that he hasnt).

When William is kidnapped and Felicity finds out about him as a result, she is petty and juvenile while they’re working, completely dismisses and gets snappy with Samantha when she apologizes, even when Samantha takes full responsibilty for what she asked Oliver to do, and not once does Felicity ever ask about William’s wellbeing. Felicity is surpised to discover that William - like Oliver - likes baseball, and makes YET ANOTHER SCATHING COMMENT AT OLIVERS EXPENSE by saying that they should hope the resemblence ends there, because she apparently thinks that her fiancee has absolutely no positive qualities whatsoever that might be nice to pass on.

Felicity then breaks up with Oliver for lying to her, even though he didnt want to but had to if he wanted to know his son. Even though she spent months lying to him mere weeks earlier, even though she told Eddie that lying was okay. Even though she told her mother the prior week that it was okay if Quentin kept things from her because she should trust he had a good reason.

Felicity then keeps the apartment (yknow the one that used to be Thea’s until she had to move in with Laurel to deal with her trauma), as a result Oliver slums it out in the Arrow cave, because depsite running for Mayor, Oliver is unemployed. Felicity has a CEO salary but of course she keeps the apartment. She’s Felicity. God himself shit her out and she is completely right all the fucking time even when shes a self-righteous, hypocritical piece of shit.

Felicity makes bitchy comments about the breakup when theyre trying to work even though she was the one to end it, she then tells Oliver that he will always be who he was on that island. She basically told him the most traumatic experience in his entire life is all he will amount to, and the person he is as a result of his trauma is not someone she can love and its his fault that he’s that way because apparently she’s a victim blaming piece of shit as well as a hypocrite.

Laurel dies and on her deathbed tells Oliver that Felicity is the best thing for him despite the fact she loved him too. The writers wanted to 10000000% make sure that we all know that Felicity is The Girl ™ and anyone at all that might’ve potentially maybe been competition just pales in comparison, my guy.

Diggle is traumatized by the situation with his family and Felicity makes YET ANOTHER INSULTING, DISRESPECTUL “JOKE” AT OLIVER’S EXPENSE by saying Diggle is “one illegitmate child away from a great Oliver Queen impersonation”, making another dig at William, yknow the kid that she dumped Oliver over, the one Oliver didnt know about himself until shortly before she did, the kid that Oliver had to say goodbye to, before he’d even gotten the chance to be a dad to, in order to keep him safe. (But she loves Oliver so much guys! Honest! So totally cares about his wellbeing and whats best for him, even at the detriment of herself, I swear!)

TL;DR in conclusion, Felicity is a misogynist tool that the writers have been employing from day one. Its a common trope in fiction. She’s the token female character that all other females get compared to/dismissed for. They pit women against each other at every available oppprtunity and have Felicity become this untouchable writers-pet that is never called out and can never be wrong and she’s just so great and can do everything and everyone loves her and no one seems to question any of the horrible things she does because she is so righteous in her writers-pet bubble!

And because she’s a woman they try and champion this as ground-breaking and feminist, when its actually extremely misogynist and anti-feminist, especially when you consider that if the tables were turned and OLIVER was the one doing all this shit to Felicity, then people would be out for blood and screaming misogyny from the rooftops, but because Felicity herself is a woman, they think that it makes her exempt.

But felicity isnt a woman, she’s not real, she’s a puppet being controlled by men and theyre using a female character to get away with misogyny.

The whole idea of The Girl ™ and the concept that one female character has to be the 'Alpha’ and something happens to every other female to prove that she is clearly The Best of the women, is always inherently misogynist and exists to fasciliate pitting women against each other.

anonymous asked:

how is taemin more deserving when he only sold 116k with 4 versions while got7 sold like almost 300k?

This is not about deserving or not deserving, this is about a criteria that Gaon Chart stated and made work last year, and out of nowhere they announce there’s a new criteria that also affects last year’s result, only one month before the ceremony. Awards of quarters of the year in Gaon Chart count albums sold in a period, so this is about numbers, not about deserving/non deserving an award, because there are other type of awards in which there are judges who choose and etc., and there’ll be always different opinions about it. Anyways, that’s another issue. 

At first, Press It was the best-selling album in its first week after release (x). Then, as a result of the 1st quarter of 2016, Press It sold 114,567, and GOT7 sold 99,977 copies inside of that quarter. Taemin’s Press It ended being the best-selling album of the 1st quarter of 2016 in Gaon Chart with the criteria of that moment.

This means that the copies that both Taemin and GOT7 sold out of this 1st quarter don’t count for this award - even if GOT7 sold more than 300,000 as you’ve said, they don’t count for this award. It doesn’t even affect at the fact that Taemin was the best-selling soloist in the first half of 2016 (x) and the best-selling male of SM between January and April-May (xx).

Then, this change of criteria (x) that was suddenly announced at the beginning of 2017 reduced this period of time that they name ‘quarter’, so they’ve basically deleted sold copies of Press It that were actually included in the previous criteria, while this was an advantage for GOT7.

So, this is not about deserving and not deserving. This is about Gaon Chart being extremely disrespectul to Taemin but also the rest of artists that have been affected by this change of criteria. A change of criteria that has been announced in January 2017, only one month before the ceremony, and that has affected a result that has been developed between the first months of 2016 and has been confirmed by June 2016. 

This is not about saying GOT7 don’t deserve the award, and of course this is not about saying Taemin must have his award with this new criteria. The real fact is that Gaon played really, really ugly with this change of criteria, and as a consequence there’s people trying to make Taemin look ugly or make GOT7 look ugly, when none of them is responsible of this.

You can believe GOT7′s album was better? Sure! You have every right in this world to prefer GOT7 over Taemin. And in my position I don’t blame them for this. But, the fact that for once Press It was going to receive a big recognition, and also being Taemin the only soloist between the winners of best-selling awards in 2016… then all of his work and SHINee World’s work being treated as sh*t. Sorry, but this is not deserving and non deserving, this is about a company following a criteria, then suddenly taking decisions without caring about the real consequences; this is about not giving Taemin an award that he was deserving since last year because he followed the criteria. This is not about deserving and non deserving, this is about a really disappointing attitude from Gaon and hurting Taemin, SHINee and SHINee World.

2017′s TaiYama Week ★ Day 4. Fan Corner. Talk/Share about fan created content you enjoy!

You know what I’m absolutely obsessed with? Taito doujinshi. Comics conceived by fans and physically published into books to be sold to other fans. I have a field’s day everytime I get my hands on a book with perfect artstyle and solid narrative.

Contrary to popular belief there’s plenty of doujinshi that don’t focus on “just smut”, it just takes a lot of patience to hunt down and filter things until you find what suits your tastes.

While I favor those, Taito is also the only anime pairing I don’t entirely mind seeing adult content of, as long as 1) there’s some nice story to enjoy and 2) the drawings don’t stray from erotica. Erotica doesn’t portray intimacy in a disrespectul manner and doesn’t usually get more graphic than necessary.

That explained, some of my personal favourite Taito doujinshi include:

  • Going to bed Tales by Nobita Nobi / Gekkou Touzoku - this is a bitter-sweet story that focuses on Taichi’s growth and how he learns to deal this new feeling called “loneliness”. It’s PG and really cute in my opinion.
  • Sunday Music by Nobita Nobi / Takahashi Mako - A small collection of stories between Taichi and Yamato. Pure fluff, PG.
  • Family Complex by Nobita Nobi - This one is the best thing ever! I wish I could understand evertyhing lol, but I can provide a summary of sorts:

Summary: One day Hiroaki arrives home with food for him and Yamato both, but he finds Yamato there along with Taichi and they have already finished eating what Yamato cooked. Hiroaki gets super depressed when Yamato says there’s nothing left for him. Of course, his father feels resentful of how Taichi always gets to eat and spend time with Yamato instead of him, completely cluesless to the fact they are lovers.

So, Hiroaki re-arranges everything at work so he can dedicate more time to Yamato and he actually starts showing up home earlier. This leaves Taichi in an awkward position because apparently he does go there quite a lot. lol Yamato saves the day by arriving just in time, he and Taichi talk for a bit but they don’t have privacy anymore, not with Hiroaki around. Hiroaki tries to cook at some point but he fails and lets everything burn, so of course Yamato and Taichi’s kiss is interrupted when he rushes to Yamato’s bedroom in a state of panic. Yamato goes to help. When they’re done eating Yamato casually asks Taichi to leave when he’s done. This apparently never hapened before, Taichi gets really depressed, thinking he should have known better and that it’s only natural for Yamato to be with his family instead.

Hiroaki keeps making sure he gets home early so Taichi doesn’t feel confortable with going there to eat (LOL). So one day Taichi is eating with his own family (the Yagami family is all hyped because Susumu - Taichi’s father . is showing up on some random TV comercial lol). Taichi is depressed that he isn’t with Yamato anymore and when he suddenly realises he can’t be a family with Yamato anyway he suddenly starts crying (the Yagami family freaks out and ask him immediately what’s wrong lol). 

Takeru finds Taichi eating alone one day and surprises him by smiling and saying he already knows everything about how he and Yamato are a couple (Taichi gets spooked). Yamato calls Taichi and invites him to come over and he’s so relieved Takeru feels happy for him. Well, Taichi and Yamato have sex (it’s the only NSFW part) but somehow they start arguing and Taichi leaves, feeling worse than before.

Later, Takeru decides to help them sort it out somehow. They’re forced into a conversation and when Taichi finally explains his worries, Yamato calls him stupid, it’s not like he has a proper family with his parents divorced anyway. Yamato blushes and admits that he loves him much to Taichi’s relief and happiness.

And this time they have some privacy… thank to Takeru, who decides to butt in and happily convinces his father to hang out with him instead. It works and Hiroaki even gets to meet his ex-wife. This one is really sweet.

  • Out of the Blue by Nobita Nobi - another story Hiroaki makes Taichi and Yamato’s intimate life a constant struggle. It’s NSFW but I swear the humor wouldn’t be as hilarious as it is without it. This one is translated to English, no need for a long summary like the one above.
  • Things to come by Nobita Nobi - this may as well be one of my top favourites, because it starts with Sorato, it leaves us some hints of Taiora, and ends with Taito. It happens around the time Diaboromon invades Odaiba, with that photo of Taichi doing a V-sing in front of his wet bedsheets and that other picture of Yamato hanging out with Sora in front of a sex bar (I don’t know how you call it) both spread around the internet. There’s two NSFW scenes.
  • Happy Blue by Nobita Nobi - it’s a really short story about the never stopping flow of time and growth. Some NSFW but nothing too heavy.
  • Brother Mission & Umbrella by Nobita Nobi - When I first read this I actually found Takeru oddly invested in Yamato, but the story works so surprisingly well I find it hard to not like it. xD

Summary: The story begins with Yamato asking Taichi if he has found “it”, to which he replies with a sad “no”. When Koushirou meets them both on the way to school and asks what’s wrong he absolutely freaks out: Taichi has lost his digivice!!

Of course Taichi pretends he doesn’t care, he calls Koushirou a child like he’s just overreacting and goes away. Yamato follows him, maybe it’s not lost yet. Taichi insists it’s lost and acts like he has long ago given up on searching. He fakes a smile and says it’s can’t be helped, he can’t stay a child forever.

The story consists of Taichi trying to convince himself it’s time for him to grow up, he can’t be there for Agumon anymore, everybody around him is changing (there’s a panel of Yamato and Sora in the Christmas episode). He doesn’t really want to change, but life forces people to.

Yamato gets worried, Taichi isn’t at school and finds out he’s skipping classes. He goes to the Yagami’s where Taichi has locked himself in this bedroom. His mother thanks Yamato and asks him to do something about his stupid son (LOL), but it doesn’t work. Yuuko and Hikari are disappointed not even Yamato managed to make him open the door.

Even a shut-in needs to eat, so Taichi is caught when he tries to sneak food out of the kitchen. He runs away when he sees Yamato there. Yamato follows him all the way to Odaiba’s beach. In a “tri-fashion” Yamato tells this doesn’t look like Taichi at all, to which Taichi replies what the hell does that even mean, he doesn’t know him all that well. Yamato is shocked and tries to argue, but Taichi suddenly asks about Sora. Yamato is flustered and replies there’s nothing going on. Taichi doesn’t believe him. “It was a date” he says.

I can’t read most of it at this point, but I think Yamato says something about liking Sora but wondering if it’s really “that way”. Taichi tells him this is why he’s still a kid (LOL). He rambles about more things I’m not sure of, but, yeah. Yamato pretends to throw his own digivice to the ocean just to make Taichi’s mask fall and cut the crap. He does freak out. Yamato apologizes two or three times for tricking him but whatever. There’s a kiss. They ALMOST do it right there… Koushirou interrupts them when he shows up with a solution for the lost digivice.

Taichi’s suddenly happy and relieved because apparently the digivice was in his house all along (WHY IS IT ALWAYS LIKE THIS I SWEAR TO GOD) Yamato punches him right there (LOL) and is totally pissed at this point. XD

But Taichi has an epiphany and suddenly realises even if everything changes Yamato is still with him and yeah Taichi is a moron. But this one is cute.

  • Sakura no Toki by Kadota Sakana - it happens soon after WarGreymon and MetalGarurumon combine in the Our WarGame movie. They start wondering about how it felt. Nothing especial happens but the art is very cute.

There’s more, much more, but I’m ending this here for now.

As you may have noticed I’m building a new list of doujinshi. I don’t necessarily love to death everything I have there but since my goal is simply to share all sources I know of, be patient with me and I’ll keep adding more titles. I’m really slow in this.

the toxicsgfans tumblr account is a jewel. I’m still trying to understand why they think this is hating on him? This is a screenshot of a post that is supposedly hateful. I’m not saying there aren’t hateful things there, because there are. I’ve seen it with my own eyes people talking shit and leaving hateful comments on Rahul Kohli twitter account and some cringyworthy screenshots are there. There are also screenshots of people encouraging disrespectul behaviour at comic con (mon-el was raised as a slave owner and that should absolutly be brought up, all the shit the sg writers pulled in season 2 should be brought up, we are allowed to critique those things. booing at actors and asking questions about their personal lives should be out of discussion though). The rest of the screeshots are pretty much people saying that chris isn’t pretty and that being tagged as ‘hate’. I KNOW there are other hateful things directed at OTHER  supergirl cast members that aren’t there. That tumblr account does not represent the entire sg fandom. 

anonymous asked:

Love the funny side of the fandom that anything Lauren tweet to retaliate turn to be a meme. Never real ever. I decide not you period. So delusional. Mistake I'll never live down. Thank youu. Do people actually take her word seriously coz if they don't, that sucks to be Lauren and it's disrespectul, contradicting to their claim saying that they look up to her.

it’s invasive, scary, delusional, disrespectful to her, and the fandom never really listens to her…Ever.

I feel like the fandom is a giant spongebob meme to everything Lauren says 😂

Am I the only one who feels like the commentators really discouraged Enzo? Like,they KNOW what’s Enzo’s state right now,the least they could do was support him a little. The only one who tried to encourage Enzo somewhat (the irony lol)

I mean,for real,Booker T was talking about how he ‘likes’ Enzo ,but in the next second he was talking about Enzo used Cass to get on the top.

And I find that really disrespectul. You could clearly see that Enzo was upset,not only for his loss,but for the fact that everyone was convinced he’s not going to win. I mean,Enzo’s a pretty confident guy,but I could tell this hit him really hard.

Honestly, I hope at the next draft Enzo ends up on Smackdown Live. I just feel like they would treat him better there. Daniel didn’t disappointed me in any way until now, I hope he’s not going to with Enzo.

And if he DOES stays on RAW…I have an idea of who sent that message to Kurt and Corey.

Call me crazy.

But I think it’s James Ellsworth.

I mean,think about it:

-If he splits Enzo and Cass,Enzo will get more love from the crowd while Cass only gets hate.

-If Enzo gets more love,he’s more likely to be the next WWE (insert champion here)
while Cass will stay in his shadow.

-So if Cass will stay in Enzo’s shadow,Carmella will most likely leave him for James.

It’s all in his favour!

But we’ll see.

anonymous asked:

I didn't know about that song from Ruelle but I just listened on Spotify and I'm fucking pissed of that they're gonna used on a c/lace. I just really don't care about those two together and I was happy that jaia hooked up. Anyway and the artist wrote the song for MALEC?? This is disrespectul.

well obviously she did the lyrics spell out malec if u listen carefully. im insulted af

perfectlyimperfecthades  asked:

I added you because your words seem genuine and relatable; I am disappointed and even disgusted at some of the questions posted by the disrespectful dick-holes. What is your favorite horror/suspense book or series? I'm a huge fan of Neil Gaiman and Lovecraft.

Thanks a lot :) yep some people are pretty disrespectul and cowards, they feel powerful hiding under a computer. Anyway, I don’t read a lot but I really liked Sherlock Holmes 

starlightkai replied to your post: my reposter who reposted my entire magazine cover…

holy fuck lmao literally people are so fucking disrespectul. i’m so tired of people taking advantage of creators. we make stuff to share and for people to enjoy but that does NOT give you the right to take things that you didn’t make and post them without credit. saying “this isnt mine credits to the owner” does literally nothing for the person that made it and put their effort and possibly hours of their time into it

!!!!!

Em, literally i will not be this angry and pissed if my reposted gifset even had a “credits to owner” because clearly IT WAS JUST A “Kai magazine Thread” AND THAT’S IT, NO CREDITS OR WHATEVER IN THE ENTIRE THREAD. IT’S DOWNRIGHT STEALING. I was so nice in asking the person to put proper credits on my edit which took me around 4-6 hours to make. I cant believe the fucking disrespect that I got towards this big twitter account who’s just there for the retweets

CAN WE PLEASE KEEP POSITIVITY IN THE FANDOM

Jo Seho acted like a total asshat in the show and Kookie was unfortunately made to feel very uncomfortable.

We have every right to be upset

B U T

Please please please don’t leave hateful or disrespectul comments on his instagram or on social media- the behaviour of our fandom immediately falls back on BTS image and we don’t want to harm BTS image do we?

So let’s concentrate on the positive things. Share and tweet comments about how proud you are of Jungkook he’s doing well and staying strong, how proud we are that he’s ALONE for the first time on a variety show. Let’s spread love and concentrate on positive things,

Don’t act like an immature fandom that gets overprotective and irrational- The anger is justified but we should show that we are more mature that Jo Seho or any other people of Flower Crew that contributed to this whole mess.

Female characters’ condition in fictional worlds (mostly where the yaoi ships are strong).

What is this post about? It’s about what I read the other day on Twitter. So, after last Owari No Seraph episode that made the fandom go BERSERK because:

1. The Mikayuu shippers saw heaven waving a hand at them.

2. The Yuunoa and clearly-simply-not Mikayuu shippers wanted to puke everything they had.

3. Some others (from both sides and simply not into ships at all) suggested that all was going way too gay, more than the manga blabla…

…It was like that, all around the internet, and of course, there was reactions of every sizes and on every subjects around and about ships and pairings and then I saw this.

The tweet goes like that (I don’t screenshot it because there’s no point into blaming that person and send anyone after her): “Wtf was that with the Mikayuu? Why did the authors created Shinoa? Duh wake up everyone! Shinoa wouldn’t exist if it wasn’t for be with Yuu, obviously and yes I ship Yuunoa.”

I didn’t invented a bit of it. Let me tell you I screamed and agressively slammed my hands on the desk. Just so we’re clear, I don’t give a shit about Yuunoa in this, of course you can ship them (I personnaly think they are cool together even if I think Mikayuu wins etc. not the point anyway)…

No, what disturbs me and AFRAIDS me it’s what comes before! What she meant was:

What is the point of a female character if not being shipped (in a hetero ship on top of that, of course because gays can go to hell, it’s obvious) with someone! And I just felt miserable because this girl (it was a girl, and it’s important here, who tweeted it) just thought that the point of a female character was to be the love interest of the main one. It’s fucking scary, isn’t it? 

You can think it’s homophobic, but I’m not sure it’s the point because she ships Gureshin next to that (I did my research and talk with her after that). But it’s so SEXIST! It’s a total lack of respect toward female kind! I thought “What does this girl think about her own condition? That she was only born to be someone’s girlfriend? Someone’s love interest?” How sad is that! 

It may appears like an overraction (the poor girl was flooded with awful and hopefully more intelligent reactions) but it’s not. Actually, when I told her my opinion, she just froze and it was the revelation. Because she DID saw her like that at some point and realised it wasn’t good. She was sorry, poor thing, really. I’m a bit sad for her because she just didn’t think it through and received a lot of hate when she was all ready to understand and share points of view. Anyway.

The point in that post is that it’s really, really, REALLY important that girls, especially the younger ones who don’t always make the difference between fictionnal romances and reality can see this: You don’t exist to be someone’s love interest.

Thus, don’t - AT ANY COST - expect a fictionnal female character to be one. It’s disrespectul, sexist and immediately takes all its humanity away to the character. Shinoa, here, is only a sexual object whom purpose in life is to be Yuu’s lover at some point. Like an animal/thing he’d own (and love yes) but that’s it? 

It’s even more shocking because it’s Shinoa! She’s the strongest female character in this show. The girls in Guren’s squad are too but they, unfortunately, are too deep in the Guren’s harem dynamic… But Shinoa’s got a real development. Through the whole story so far, she learned to care about others, to lead, to team up, that family wasn’t a rotten concept (thanks Hiragis) and on top of that, she’s smart, witty and caring for Yuu. I don’t care if she’s in love with him or not, she’s just there for him, backing him up, helping him… What do you need more? She’s an awesome character! She defo can’t be labeled as “someone’s love interest”.

And I really hope girls will see that and stop think authors create female characters just to be love interests. Actually, I wished more authors had bad ass female characters never falling in love to make a point.

Girl, you’re as worthy as any other human. No one says Yoichi or Kimizuki was created to be someone’s love interest, right? (No, Kimiyoi shippers, it’s NOT that time of the day hahaha) No but seriously. And yet, the statement is common for Shinoa. Well it’s not.

It never will. Female characters are first of all HUMAN characters with back ground stories, development, flaws and qualities and YES they totally can fall in love but that’s not what defines them.


There. I’m done.

I am… SO, so, so SORRY for the ranting. 

Feel FREE to share your opinion, debate about it (though you won’t ever convince me of the total opposite haha) and bring your own thoughts about this. 

Sorry again ^^’

anonymous asked:

So according to some Larries Sophiam never broke up. Well I guess technically you'd have to be together to break up so...

That’s such an odd headcanon. And I say headcanon because it sure ain’t a theory. There’s nothing to back that idea up. Ironic that some adult fans who go through all things Larry with a fine tooth comb would naively take Sophiam at face value and believe they were/are legit. How about no? That just goes to show you Hollywood smoke and mirror’s effectiveness is proportional to how much you’re actually paying attention.

However, there’s things bubbling right at the surface of this headcanon that should give even people who don’t much pay attention to Liam pause.  

  • The common belief among Larry supporters is that 1DHQ is bad news. Yet some believe Liam would willingly allow his great love Sophia to get mixed up with them in terms of stuntin’. Because she has been stuntin’. She threw shade at Cheryl and then shade at presumably all of 1D by gyrating to Pillowtalk. Do they think he’s that big of a dullard? That shady? That disrespectul? That thirsty? Really? That’s the ugly, insulting pov of people who don’t have a handle on Liam’s character. But friendly reminder from ya boy, Liam is NOBLE among other things…
  • If some Larries think Sophia ISN’T on 1DHQ’s payroll, then they must believe she is participating voluntarily. Which means she’s a bit of a shady thirstbucket herself. How about taking the high road since she’s under no obligation to take the stunt road? Is that who they think Sophia is? O rly? Interesting…
  • Specific to Cannes, there’s a whole lot going on there and people turn up for various reasons. Also, there’s no evidence that Liam is still there or has been for the past several days. Also, note the timing of Liam’s disappearance conveniently dovetails with Zayn’s Wango Tango performance. And, as Ziam watchers can tell you, this is a pattern that emerged shortly after Zayn left 1D. When one of them is doing a thing, the other disappears. Why is that ESTABLISHED pattern of behavior meaningless but ONE incident of Sophia possibly being in the same city as Liam a big huge deal? Fuzzy logic.
  • People are looking for something to explain away Liam’s stuntin’ with Cheryl other than Liam’s sexuality and (possibly mutual) bearding (with a huge helping of Cheryl promo). He just can’t be queer right? Because Duck Dynasty and “I may not be gay but…” and Attitude, right? But aren’t these the people who always say grain of salt in terms of the media (both social and the press)? That only applies to Harry and Louis, though right? They are the most oppressed mammals on Earth, right? Save the Larry, right? Their bandmates couldn’t possibly be suffering from similar oppression at the hands of the same people, right? Another friendly reminder, not-on-the-payroll Sophia wrangled a b-day message for Liam from Duck Dynasty AFTER he got a ton of bad press about it. That message re-opened that wound. What a supportive, thoughtful girlfriend. #relationshipgoalz  These LGBTQ champions of the fandom buy all of this as legit but are also happy Sophiam are allegedly still going strong?? A pair of thoughtless homophobes? Do I have to say it again? Ok: Fuzzy logic.     
  • The Zayn factor is also feeding into this lack of critical thinking. Even though some Larries don’t think well of Liam, they certainly don’t want him with Zayn. Some buy official narrative Zayn, who is often presented as a douchebag. And some think of Ziam as competition for Larry and there can only be one. This is where certain Larries head-up-their-own-asses attitude comes in, as well as the fetishization of Larry. Because Larry has been so deliberately erased for so long, it actually has the net effect of elevating Larry to mythical proportions. Nice job, 1DHQ. Nothing and no one else is allowed to touch the legend, logic be damned. So then the Ziam erasure happens. The same people who can recognize what’s been going on between Larry should be able to recognize what’s going on between Ziam. If RBB was Larry’s secret message to the fandom, then why wasn’t Ziam’s Instagram twinning seen as a secret message to the fandom as well? There’s something else at play here, isn’t there?

Welp, those are just a few things off the top of my head that anyone who intends to consider this reasonably and fairly should think about. If not, you’re no better than the Antis with their “LOL that didn’t happen” attitude of ignorance and denial. And we all know how Larries feel about that.

you know what, any time Ian or any other actor keeps being disrespectul to their colleagues, ex lover and especially to their fans publicly and in such a silly way I’m gonna be pissed off and laugh at them and criticize them because

so no, I ain’t gonna spare them and be all sunshine and rainbows over something so rude and embarrasing coming from a tv star

I don’t care if I don’t know them personally, I don’t need to. What comes to us via social media tells us more than we need to know.

5sos groupie rant

i love 5sos but they really need to get the fuck off their high horse and realize that we dont fucking care about the girls they sleep with. but when those girls are fucking disrespectful cunts that rub it in our faces we WILL obviously get mad and express our opinions because they’re freaking exposing your sex life to the whole fucking world and theyre acting like theyre obvilious to everything when theyre fucking not. they know whats happening but they dont call them out because they don’t want to loose the fuck of the night. but when you start calling out YOUR fans for expressing their opinions and their anger and disgust towards your walking STDs, that’s when you need to realize that you need to open your goddamn eyes because IT’S NOT OKAY!!! ITS NOT OKAY TO CALL OUT THE PEOPLE THAT FUCKING ALLOWED YOU TO BE HERE TODAY AND DRAG THEIR ASS TO THE GROUND,5SOS NEEDs TO REALIZE THAT THOSE GIRLS ARE FUCKING CUNTS AND DISRESPECTUL TO US AND THEY DONT GIVE A FUCK ABOUT OUR FEELINGS BECAUSE ALL THEY WANT IS THE FAME AND THEY POST THAT SHIT TO MAKE US FEEL JEALOUS AND LIKE PIECES OF SHIT WHEN WE’RE NOT. WE’RE THE FUCKING REASON THAT YOU GUYS ARE WHAT YOU ARE TODAY. AND DONT SAY THAT WE ARE FAMILY BECAUSE IF YOU CALL OUT YOUR OWN FANS THAT SUPPORT LOVE CHERISH AND DEDICATE THEIR WHOLE FUCKING LIFE TO YOU INSTEAD OF THE DIRTBAGS YOU HOOK UP WITH BECAUSE THATS NOT A FUCKING FAMILY. AND IM NOT SAYING THIS OUT OF HATE TOWARDS 5SOS BECAUSE I LOVE THEM WITH ALL MY HEART, IM SAYING THIS OUT OF ANGER TOWARDS THEM AND THE FUCKING GROUPIES BECAUSE THEY DONT REALIZE WHO THE HELL THEYRE SLEEPING WITH AND HOW HORRIBLE THEY ARE. AND YES I KNOW THAT ISNT MY BUSINESS BUT THEY NEED TO FUCKING OPEN THEIR EYES AND REALIZE THAT THEYRE FAMOUS NOW AND THEY NEED TO WATCH OUT BECAUSE THE WORLD IS FILLED WITH ASSHOLES AND THOSE CUNTS ARE THE ASSHOLES THAT WILL RUIN EVERYTHING BECAUSE THEY!! ARE!! EXPOSING!! YOUR!! GODDAMN!! SEX LIFE!! AND THATS NOT FUCKING OKAY BECAUSE ITS YOUR LIFE. SO STOP ACTING OBLIVIOUS TO THOSE GROUPIES INTENTIONS AND START SETTING YOUR PRIORITIES STRAIGHT AND REALIZE THAT IF YOU WANT THIS TO BE A FAMILY THEN YOU NEED TO STOP CALLING OUT THE FANS AND START CALLING OUT THE WHORES THAT YOU SLEEP WITH BECAUSE THEYRE DISRESPECTING OUR ASSES AND YOU ARENT DOING SHIT ABOUT IT. AND I FUCKING LOVE 5SOS AND ALWAYS WILL BUT DAMN THEY NEED TO WAKE THE FUCK UP AND REALIZE THAT THE FANS ARE MORE IMPORTANT THAN THOSE SLUTS.

*SMASHES GUITAR TO THE GROUND TO FINISH THIS LONG GODDAMN AMAZING RANT*