Fucking so done with getting catcalled every fucking where I go.
I was in the parking lot walking into the tanning salon around 1pm and of course I parked next to 2 older men in a truck and their window was rolled down, so when I got out of my car they felt it was necessary to say “WOW, you’re melting the snow!”
It just makes me sick that even if it’s a compliment in their heads, they felt it was necessary to bother me while I was minding my own business and they would obviously get nothing from it except for my discomfort. It’s predatory, and left me feeling too unsafe to leave the tanning salon until they were gone.
Even if catcalling doesn’t involve shouting any threats, it is still inherently threatening to me, because in my head it’s “walk faster, you’re not going to die today.”