I hate that trans men and dfab nonbinary people have to indirectly (or even directly) misgender ourselves to have discussions about abortion or ‘women’s’ health care. Like, so much of the discussion about abortion is gendered. I don’t get it. It’s so easy to just say things like ‘pregnant people’ instead of 'pregnant women’. And there’s no escape from it. Any health care I require that relates to the genitals I was born with shouldn’t be called women’s health care, because I’m not a woman. Menstrual products should not be called feminine hygiene products because not everyone who uses them is a woman/girl.