disappointing relationships

There is a distinct difference between caring for someone and carrying someone.

Know the difference.

You are allowed to let people down when they are too heavy.

You are not a bad person because you have limits.

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You can’t rely on anyone.” She shrugs and flicks the ash off her burning cigarette. “Even the people you trust most in the world will let you down at some point. Maybe not in a big way to them but your heart will sink to the pit of your stomach and it’ll stay there forever. You’ll never forget that feeling.” She purses her lips and takes a drag, then she looks at me. Her eyes bright with pain as smoke drifts from between of her berry stained lips. “So, save yourself the trouble and have your own back. Because no one is going to come along and save you when things go wrong. You have to stand on your own two feet and save yourself.
—  Excerpt from the book I’ll never write
This is why I don’t want to let anyone else in again. You let them get close to you and you start to expect things from them. You expect to see them, you expect them to reply or call you. You expect and expect but all you’re really left with is disappointment and why? So he or she can make you feel complete? I can feel that way on my own. So they can make you smile? I do that fine on my own as well. I have my best friends and most importantly, I have myself. And unlike everyone else, I don’t let myself down.
—  You let someone in and all they do is break you before they abandon you, leaving you to clean up the mess on your own - Jess Amelia 
Poly Relationship Headcanons

-An A/A/O relationship and the three of them house hunting but having a difficult time with it because the Omega is being very picky about finding a house with a bathtub big enough for all three of them to fit in, which is nearly impossible. The Alphas are slightly frustrated but they also think it’s cute how important it is to their little mate

-An A/B/O relationship and the Alpha and Beta are all curled up on the couch watching a movie when their Omega walks in all grumpy (because they are low-key feeling left out) and silently shifting as the Omega squeezes themselves between the two and settles for a nap, sighing contently as one set of fingers run through their hair and another traces light circles on their shoulder

-An A/O/O relationship and one of the Omegas is pregnant and as the months go by and the other Omega helps take care of them, the nonpregnant Omega declares that they have no desire to ever go through all the pain and discomfort that comes with being pregnant…that is, until the babies are born and the Omega is so in love with them and they tell their Alpha they want to try for pups during their next heat…ignoring the smug looks on their mates faces at how quickly they’d changed their mind

-An A/A/O relationship in which the Omega seems very innocent most of the time but low-key gets riled up whenever the two Alphas get physical with each other. The Alphas catching on to the Omega’s secret pleasure and randomly making out with each other just to make their cute little Omega squirm until they decide to turn their attention to them

-An A/B/O relationship and during the Omega’s heat the Alpha does most of the fucking but the Beta is present, pulling the Omega to lie against their chest, stroking their hair and murmuring praises while maintaining eye contact with the Alpha because they know the Alpha loves it. The Beta taking it upon themselves to make sure everybody stays hydrated and happily pleasuring the Omega during the less intense waves of heat when the Alpha is less possessive and willing to share more

-An A/O/O relationship and whenever one Omega gets mad at the Alpha, the other Omega almost always takes their side because they are extremely sensitive to their Omega mate’s distress and they get very upset with the Alpha for making them unhappy

-An A/A/O relationship where both Alphas are obnoxiously horny and the very frequent activity is making the Omega tired and grouchy and finally they are just, “Honestly if you need it so badly just fuck each other for godsake, I need a nap.” and it’s not until the Omega is curled up in bed that they hear noises downstairs and with wide eyes and red cheeks they realise that the Alphas had obviously taken the suggestion to heart…sleeping becomes very hard after that

-An A/B/O relationship in which the Omega is more aggressive and outspoken and the Beta is very quiet and gentle, so outside of heats the Alpha and Omega treat the Beta how Omegas are usually treated. The Omega acting much softer around the Beta and being so content to hand feed them little snacks they’ve made, always lighting up whenever they receive praise for their cooking. The Alpha absolutely loving it when the usually reserved Beta plops down on them and demands cuddles and affection that the Alpha is all too happy to provide, being even more happy when their grumpy Omega finally comes in and gives them both a kiss before settling in to cuddle the Beta as well

-An A/O/O relationship in which one Omega is very anxious and gets depressed a lot when left alone so the Alpha suggests adding another Omega to the relationship so they won’t be as lonely anymore when the Alpha is busy. Both agreeing but being nervous as the Alpha tries to find an Omega that they think will be suitable and quickly becoming attached to a very sweet and cheerful Omega…the Alpha being thrilled when their current Omega forms an immediate attachment to the new mate that they chose

I deserved you. You didn’t deserve me. I deserved your love. You didn’t deserve mine. I worked so hard to try to please you and prove that I was worthy. Every minute of my day I tried to figure out a way to make you happier. But somehow your love faded. Now I’m standing around feeling like a failure because my efforts and intentions didn’t go as planned. I thought we were in this together. Now that I have to let go of my claim on you, I’m disappointed that our relationship will have to disappear. It breaks my heart to even look at your face because you hurt me when I needed you the most. I wanted a happy ending for us but you should’ve never been apart of my story.
—  kajecollins