did if forget someone

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Johndave week - Day 4: Hurt/Comfort

Haha shit I’m late?? I haven’t done comics in literal years soooo. Yeah, this is something I think about in terms of John quite a lot. I can’t help but think it might bug him a lot now and then, even if he fixed a timeline, and when confronted he might lash out. Also, bonus pic;

anonymous asked:

who are your favourite tumblr people/friends? 💕

Hi! Here’s a list of some pals (in alphabetical order). I consider a lot more of my mutuals pals as well, but you said friends so I tried to limit it to people I have more conversations with and stuff :)

@626k @asirenscalling @bucky-plums-barnes @buckys-fossil @buckysglow @buckyslion @buckyywiththegoodhair @bxckytrxsh @canumoveyourseatup-no @denialanderror @harleyqueen7 @holtzmannishot @juggihead @marvelatthepeople @mellifluous-melodramas @poe-also-bucky @poptartcalum @radical1995 @rcbbiereyez @speedstxrs @teamspider-man @theassetseyeliner @winterscldicr

I just want to be able to love someone and not fear the day they’ll finally leave me.

I just want to be able to love someone and not be scared that I’m somehow hurting them.

I just want to be able to love someone and not have to worry that I’m always being a burden.

I just want to be able to love someone and not be anxious that I’m always messing everything up.

I just want to be able to love someone and not be afraid that they will resort to violence.

I just want to be able to love someone.

I see your Cute Dragon Age Dads Letting Daughters Braid Their Hair headcanons, and I raise you Cute Dragon Age Dads Teaching Their Daughters to Be Badasses headcanons:

  • Alistair taking her to important meetings, breaking down the talking points for her, asking for her opinion. Helping her to be fair minded in a heavily prejudiced world. Showing her it’s ok to make mistakes, that even the End of the World might not be the end of the world.
  • Zevran teaching her how to pick locks, how to disappear, how to stay in control of every interaction, but also how to know when to let go. Making sure she knows that she is her own person, that she doesn’t owe anyone anything, but also how to know when she’s found a just cause, a worthy ally, a friend. 
  • Fenris taking her on little quests, only the safe ones at first, but tougher ones as she learns and ages. Teaching her to observe power dynamics, how to tell when an innocent is overpowered and needs help. The importance of being brave, for her own sake and others.
  • Anders with a mage child, determined that she will learn to use and control her power without the Circle. Guiding her through the dangers of the Fade, making sure she never feels the guilt of accidental destruction.
  • Sebastian bringing her in to see petitioners and diplomats. Showing her how to lead by example, the importance of listening, courtesy, compassion. Showing her that sometimes kindness is the fastest way to reach a person. Giving her a little bow so she can practice like daddy, looking forward to the day he can pass his grandfather’s bow on to her.
  • Cullen giving her a wooden sword and shield when she asks to train like daddy and taking her out for lessons every morning. Taking her into the war room to teach her strategy, asking her for more and more input as she learns. Teaching her that it’s ok to question, that quitting isn’t the same as failing, that it’s ok to try a new path.
  • Blackwall making sure she knows the importance of standing up for others, of standing up for herself. Teaching her the value of saying “no” when something feels wrong. Building her up so she will feel confident enough to do it when the time comes. 
  • Iron Bull letting her run wild at first, a fierce, grubby warrior with a pointy stick. As she grows, showing her how to control her strength for greater impact, how to spot weaknesses, how to honor a worthy foe. The value of a challenge.
  • Solas meeting her in her dreams. Introducing her to his friends there, raising her with a new perspective on the world, one without the prejudices of those who fear the Fade. Teaching her to approach both spirits and people as individuals, to give them the benefit of trying to understand them as they are.
  • Dorian showing her the importance of trust, loyalty, friendship. Letting her flip through “safe” books when she’s little, but showing her tougher, more important works as she grows. Asking for her help when he’s researching, proving to her that her presence, her thoughts, her perspectives are important. 
important post

hey guys.

i have a kind of weird announcement and i’m a little nervous. i like the name Charlie a lot, but right now it reminds me of someone I’d rather forget. I’ve did a lot of growing since them and since i chose my name. i want to move on with a fresh start and a brighter future.

so from now on, can you please refer to me as either Jack or Jackie? or Blue of course. Blue will always be my name. but as for my legal name, it would mean a lot to me if you’d use Jack.

thanks guys. all the love to you. 

oh and if you could like this if you read it, that’d be cool of you.

Just for confirmation

No matter how many times people say “forgive and forget” “but forgiving people is healthy” “it’s not healthy to always be mad at them”

You are always allowed to hate your abuser
You’re always allowed to resent your abuser
You’re always allowed to feel bitter toward your abuser
You’re always allowed to never forgive them
You’re always allowed to never forget what they did to you.

You never have to forgive someone who abused you if you don’t want to. You are allowed to be angry and upset.

You don’t have to forget who hurt you.

Can you really let go of someone you never did hold? Can you somehow forget something that you never did? Can you really say goodbye to an imaginary life? Can there really be an end when it never did begin?
—  another-broken-hello

anonymous asked:

It really makes me uncomfortable that you say you relate to Tina on a "deep personal level" because from what I've see you're not Jewish? So...how can you really relate to her? Unless you've forgotten that she's Jewish?

This is going to be one of those answers where I have a 50% chance of offending someone somehow, isn’t it?

No, I did NOT forget that Tina is Jewish at all - if you’ve read my fanfics, you’ll see that I’ve written Tina and the Scamander kids as celebrating Jewish holidays such as Sukkot and Hannukah. I know that the Goldstein sisters are both Jewish.

You’re correct - I myself am not Jewish. I get all of my information from tumblr users who ARE Jewish.

I relate to Tina because…well, you know what, I’m going to link a post I made in the past because I’ve got things to do (HERE)

I can still relate to her character, even if there are some differences - she may be Jewish while I’m not, but I relate to her because of her personality and such. She’s been described as “gawky” and “not quite there in her body”, as wanting to do the right thing, as being “brittle” but with insecurity bubbling underneath the surface…a number of reasons, again in several posts.

I’ve seen people on this site relating to people who are of a different gender to them, of a different race, of a different sexuality…etc. etc. I’ve seen people who relate to animated cartoon character, Disney animal… You don’t have to be an exact copy of someone just to relate to them.

Her religion is important, of course, I’m not denying it - but you can relate to characters/people who are of a different religion to yourself.

Originally posted by slayerstark

anonymous asked:

htf singing voice headcanon using actual songs would be cool!

Tbh they would all be pretty bad singers but let’s pretend they r good

Cuddles
On the brightside - never shout never

Toothy
Zombie me - no more kings

Giggles
Everything at once - lenka

Lumpy
Maneater - blue eyed blondes

Sniffles
Run run run - Phoenix alphabetical

Nutty
Ain’t no rest for the wicked - cage the elephant

Petunia
The zombie song - Stephanie mabey

Lammy
Teddy bear - Melanie Martinez

Mr pickles
Cabinet man - lemon demon

Flippy
Ribena - Pegasus bridge

Mole
Can’t sleep love - pentatonix

Splendid
Animal keeper - George barnett

Splendont
Arabella - arctic monkeys

Flaky
Help I’m alive - metric

Buddhist monkey
Chasing it down - mother mother

Sneaky
Bloody shirt - to kill a king

Mouse kaboom
Obsessed with you - the Orion experience

Pop
Leader - phantom planet

Disco Bear
Something with Elvis Presley probably

Shifty and lifty (cuz they’d probably sound the same)
Gallery piece - of Montreal

I’m guessing I don’t have to add cub and mime :P

man nt’s are wild like
ya’ll can just go “oh they probably forgot to respond, no biggy” and go on about your day
while im over here like “they didnt respond ? did they forget ? or do they hate me ? or did something bad happen to them ? did they forget to respond because they’re with someone they like better ?? did they realize that they hate me because theyre with this better person ? WAIT they were going to go somewhere what if they got in an accident what if someone mugged them what if theyre hurt or dying or in the hospital butWHAT IF THEY HATE ME”

Smol beans must be protected

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Who did I forget?? I know someone is missing? Tell me

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Happy Selfie Night!

Tsum Tsums are cuter than me.

Also: shout out to the smol nerd squad aka Leila, Anya and me, because Cody’s getting a phd and some of y'all have kids or are in college and I’m just here like AP classes are hard

I’ll tag @marauders-groupie @cupcakeblake @heda-reyes @itwontsurvivemee @royalblakes @sherlockvowsontheriverstyx @the-ships-to-rule-them-all @of-flowers-and-sunshine @emcri @ravenreyess
I definitely forgot someone WHO DID I FORGET

Edit: this posted to the wrong blog I’m so sorry!!