There's subtext in that 'and Derek scares me' line and if you can't read that and only take from the surface there's no point in even discussing the relationship between Stiles and Derek because you're only seeing it from one point of view.
Stiles said that when, and at what part of his development with Derek was it said? And again, to what end do you want to discuss it? Because if you want to discuss why sterek shouldn’t be with a shipper, you’re going to get backlash, I don’t get why you don’t understand that.
I also don’t understand why you think this show is developed enough to provide any clear answer for anything. If you don’t ship sterek that’s fine, but if you don’t want others to ship it based on YOUR interpretation of a flawed show with a nonexistent Bible… well I don’t know what to tell ya, boo. Except sterek is eternal?
I’m working on a post about the continuance of sterek fandom once the teen wolf fandom dies. I can’t wait to publish it and show my fellow shippers the beauty of a world free of Jeff Davis’s nonsense.