delete friend

if you really, really feel the need to call someone out in my inbox the least you could fucking do is provide receipts. Like, please. I’ve had too many friends delete their accounts because of shitty rumors fabricated about them out of spite. Hell, it’s even happened to me. Multiple times. And it’s absolutely fucking terrifying, it’s a heavy, heavy way to fuck with someone.

I understand and appreciate the fact that a majority of the time y'all are just trying to keep each other safe. That’s admirable, and that’s noble. That’s needed.

But some people aren’t above manipulating other people into being their weapons. If you’re going to come up in my inbox and tell me to abandon my friends, at the very least i’d appreciate it if you’d fulfill your basic judicial responsibility and provide some sort of evidence. I refuse to voluntarily condemn someone to social exile without knowing whether or not they actually perpetrated something hurtful.

I’m sick of being afraid to trust anyone.

imagineham  asked:

You are so incredible ❤

me? you’re the one sending lovely messages to everyone out of the goodness of your heart, steph.

but thank you regardless <3 you deserve only good things !

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Can I just remind people that many bisexual and pansexual people, myself included, use gay as an umbrella term for all people attracted to the same sex and we use it as a descriptor for our and everyone’s same sex attraction because it’s specific to that part of our identity. So please stop policing me for using gay to describe my and characters’ same sex attraction. Using gay as an umbrella term is not the same as invalidating and erasing a bi/pansexual person’s identity.