6 Questions to ask when you’re making a tough decision

1. What option would I choose if I knew I would definitely succeed?

2. What would I do if I didn’t feel scared?

3. Who can I talk to who’s been in my shoes?

4. What are the likely outcomes of each choice and decision?

5. What is the worst thing that could happen; what is the best thing that could happen?

6. Am I making this decision for myself, or am I choosing to please other people?

“People always say love is a feeling,” he says to me, “but it’s not. It’s a choice.”

“How do you mean?”
I look puzzled, and he cracks a smile.

“Because. You may feel ‘in love’ when things are great. Everyone does. What about when things get bad? Whether or not you choose to stay. It’s what makes love a choice.”

And he was right, I thought. That’s how I knew I loved him even though he loved someone else.

—  Excerpt from a book I’ll never write

🌱What way do I go?🌱

 This spread is helpful for when you have two different paths or decisions, and you aren’t sure which will be more beneficial to you. I love this spread because it helps me understand what will make me grow and what keeps me stuck in a loop. Do not delete this caption.

 1- Path 1

 2- Path 2

 3- What challenge will I face? (Path 1)

 4- What lesson will I learn? (Path 1) 

5- What challenge will I face? (Path 2)

 6- What lesson will I learn? (Path 2)

 7- The outcome of Path 1

 8- The outcome of Path 2

I hope anyone who tries this can gain insight to any decisions, or paths!