de delena

anonymous asked:

Whenever I see de shippers saying that "delena is goals" I wonder if they seriously would want a relationship like that? Or if they're just so blind... Because who the hell wants a toxic relationship?? No one.

a lot of people who are naive and who have never actually experienced toxic relationships want toxic relationships because they don’t fathom the consequences of toxic relationships and i’m just like *sigh*


DEFAW - day four - favorite parallel - caretaking 
damon and elena will ALWAYS put each other before themselves. their love is pure and true and real. over and over we see them protecting, supporting, and taking care of each other. in moments of weakness, they give each other strength. in times of danger, they fight unrelentingly until the threat is vanquished. in a town shrouded by darkness and uncertainty, they give each other bright, brilliant starlight. they give each other a foundation that cannot be broken, will not be shaken. even death is no obstacle for their love.

if the rest of the world goes up in flames, these two will stand side by side, hand in hand. because if they can’t douse the flames, they’ll watch the world burn. together. 

The writers knew Nina was leaving TVD early season 6, if they really wanted to build Stelena to be endgame they could’ve done it when Elena got Alaric to compel her memories away and Damon was trapped in the prison world (while simultaneously building Bamon. 😒). So that interview where they said that Stelena could’ve been endgame but wasn’t because Nina left sounds like bullshit to me and I don’t believe it for a minute. Don’t blame the actress for your bad writing and planning.