dawaa

Today I had a random man stop me before I was getting on the train, asking if I were Muslim, to which I replied, “yes.” He then told me “Asalamulaykum,” and I responded “WaAlaykum Asalam.” He began to tell me that I will receive no baraqaat if I don’t include the “wa Rahmat’ Allah wa Baraqatum,” so I gave him the entire salaam,’ hoping he’d leave me alone. He began to tell me the importance of identifying as a Muslim, and sharing knowledge with other muslims and non-muslims.

Thinking he was done, I turned to leave, but he continued, and I listened, not wanting to be rude. He asked me if I knew the importance of sharing Islam and said it is my duty as a Muslim. He asked me if I knew the three questions I’d be asked in my grave and that was when I decided it was over. I told him, “I didn’t realize I was on trial” and he told me to stop being defensive, he’s just doing his job as my wali  (protector). He proceeded to tell me that as a man, he had the right and obligation to protect and guide mebecause I am alone. I told him he’s a complete stranger and that I did not need his patriarchy in my religion. 

this is where it turned ugly. He responded saying that, no, he is my wali, and he is no stranger, he is my brother in islam. He told me to stop being so tense, “you’re a perfect example of what the Quran says about women.” I said, “excuse me?” He told me that “In the Quran, Allah says that hell is filled with women, because they are disobedient and always gossip.” I gave him my two cents and walked away.


For those of you who want to give verbal dawaa:

Don’t.

Don’t quote verses of the Quran that do not exist.

Don’t say something with absolutely no proof.

Don’t approach complete strangers and interrogate and berate them.

Don’t.

Fourth of July at the Masjid

So. Much. Fun.

There is only a street that separates the park where they set off the biggest fireworks display in the city and the masjid, and we sat just uphill enough to get the best vantage point on the whole show.

Beforehand there were plates of Pakistani food, halal hotdogs, and sweets galore. After getting my fill of chicken and rice, we prayed Asr, and then set up a dawaa table across the street from the Christians who were handing out pamphlets about Jesus and books aimed at converting Muslims. It was my first experience with Why Islam, and I had fun correcting misconceptions and hearing the “arguments” presented by Christians. Some people were sarcastic and hostile, but nothing notably bad happened.

Then came Maghrib, which we came to slightly late (as this very tenacious Christian woman argued the trinity with us for about twenty minutes) but I learned how to make up rakat, Alhamdulillah.

And then the fireworks started. I wonder what the Chinese were doing when they discovered that masterpiece of distraction/destruction. Either way, Alhamdulillah everyone forgot about all their problems for around half an hour to look up at the pretty explosions.

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Judul : “Masalah dan Solusi (Underestimated)”

Barusan, ane dan teman ane, sebut saja Mr. X, sedikit bincang2 mengenai underestimated. Yang mana, underestimated ini bisa jadi penyakit yang memprihatinkan buat kepribadian seseorang. Namun, bukan berarti penyakit ini ga ada obatnya.

Berpedoman pepatah asing yang berbunyi :
لكل داء، دواء
“Likulli daa'in, dawaa'un,”
Yang artinya : Setiap penyakit, pasti ada obatnya,“
Kita berdua coba mencarikan obat dari penyakit ini kedalam beberapa uraian definisi, efek, juga solusinya. Berikut paparan kita :

Dari underestimated, ada dua perlakuan yang terjadi, antara "meremehkan atau diremehkan”.

Yang pertama, meremehkan : hal ini biasa dilakukan oleh subjek internal atau bahasa lainnya, “ane meremehkan diri sendiri,”

Efeknya : ga Pe-De, mempermalu diri sendiri, dan menutup diri.

Solusinya : coba cari teman yang tepat untuk diajak sharing. Bisa ke saudara, teman dekat, atau bahkan orang tua. Satu lagi yang penting, ente harus percaya 100% ke org yg ente pilih jadi temen sharing.

Yang kedua, diremehkan : kalau yang satu ini biasanya dilakukan oleh eksternal atau jelasnya, Anda diremehkan orang lain.

Efeknya : permusuhan, ga nyaman bahkan terkadang dendam.

Solusinya : coba ajak orang yang meremehkan untuk bicara langsung 4 mata dengan Anda. Pada moment ini, keduanya harus saling memaparkan duduk permasalahan (inti masalah). Utamakan untuk tidak mendahulukan emosi atau egois supaya tidak ada perdebatan yang memenangkan sebelah pihak. Dan yang perlu diingat, prioritaskan solusi masalah, bukan konklusi masalah yg mentah.

Mungkin hanya ini yang bisa kita bagi, maaf kalau terasa kurang berkenan, dan semoga bermanfaat.

#cerminhati

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@mdafi06: Ibnu Qayyim pernah berkata dalam al-Jawaab al-Kaafiy atau ad-Daa’ wa ad-Dawaa’:
الْمُؤْمِنُ الْمُخْلِصُ لِلَّهِ مِنْ أَطْيَبِ النَّاسِ عَيْشًا، وَأَنْعَمِهِمْ بَالًا، وَأَشْرَحِهِمْ صَدْرًا، وَأَسَرِّهِمْ قَلْبًا، وَهَذِهِ جَنَّةٌ عَاجِلَةٌ قَبْلَ الْجَنَّةِ الْآجِلَةِ.
“Seorang mukmin yang ikhlash kepada Allah adalah orang yang:
==> Hidupnya paling tenang
==> Dadanya paling lapang
==> Hatinya paling senang

Ibnu Qayyim pernah berkata dalam al-Jawaab al-Kaafiy atau ad-Daa’ wa ad-Dawaa’:
الْمُؤْمِنُ الْمُخْلِصُ لِلَّهِ مِنْ أَطْيَبِ النَّاسِ عَيْشًا، وَأَنْعَمِهِمْ بَالًا، وَأَشْرَحِهِمْ صَدْرًا، وَأَسَرِّهِمْ قَلْبًا، وَهَذِهِ جَنَّةٌ عَاجِلَةٌ قَبْلَ الْجَنَّةِ الْآجِلَةِ.
“Seorang mukmin yang ikhlash kepada Allah adalah orang yang:
==> Hidupnya paling tenang
==> Dadanya paling lapang
==> Hatinya paling senang – View on Path.

Ibnu Qayyim pernah berkata dalam al-Jawaab al-Kaafiy atau ad-Daa’ wa ad-Dawaa’:
الْمُؤْمِنُ الْمُخْلِصُ لِلَّهِ مِنْ أَطْيَبِ النَّاسِ عَيْشًا، وَأَنْعَمِهِمْ بَالًا، وَأَشْرَحِهِمْ صَدْرًا، وَأَسَرِّهِمْ قَلْبًا، وَهَذِهِ جَنَّةٌ عَاجِلَةٌ قَبْلَ الْجَنَّةِ الْآجِلَةِ.
“Seorang mukmin yang ikhlash kepada Allah adalah orang yang:
==> Hidupnya paling tenang
==> Dadanya paling lapang
==> Hatinya paling senang

Tu saath hai mera,

tu aas hai mera,

tu justjhu hai,

tu ibaadat hai meri,

mera rang hai tu,

mera fitoor hai tu,

mera sach bhi tu hai,

mera jooth bhi tu hai,

mera khwaab, meri sachaai hai tu,

marz hai tu, dawaa bhi tu hai,

dil ka sukoon bhi tu, bechaini bhi tu hai,

meri khudaayi hai tu, kafiriyat ki wajah bhi tu hai,

mera aks hai tu, 

meri muskuarahat mein tu hai, mere ashqon mein hai tu,

khud to na dhund pau, iss qadar hai tu…

meri raat mein tu hai, meri sehar mein tu hai,

mere roje mein tu hai, meri eid mein tu hai,

mera rang bhi tu hai, rangrezz bhi tu hai,

rusvaai mein tu hai, khushi mein tu hai,

jaha dekhu waha tu hai…iss qadar hai tu ki mujh mein bhi nahi…