I remember being teased relentlessly throughout my childhood and my teenage life where people would say that because of my skin I’ll never be beautiful enough, they would even recommend skin bleaching products. So as a child I quickly realised that as a dark skinned girl I was not considered beautiful enough… At that time I didn’t know that it was the negativity from the people around me that was causing me to hate my skin and myself for that matter. I remember a time during school photos where a girl shouted “she’s too dark! You won’t see anything on her ID but her teeth!”, of course everyone laughed it out… And so did I…. Because I didn’t want to make it seem like I was offended… Their feelings felt more important than mine… After all growing up I was always reminded of how unlikely I was of ever being beautiful or finding someone that found my darkness beautiful…..
As a 19 year old today I sit here and say “I never gave in to skin bleaching”, “I was constantly reminded of how ugly I was but that only made me love myself even more….. I began considering myself as someone different, someone beautiful and out of the ordinary.”
Your skin no matter how dark it is that when you smile you can only see the glow of your teeth is worthy of love, your skin is that of a goddess and you should never feel anything about your skin but self love. I write this to all of the people that have gone through similar and worse, you don’t need to learn to Love your skin, the love is already there… You just gotta unleash it.
I would like to hear some stories of yours if you’ve ever gone through the same thing…. Message me on Instagram.
Congrats to you Miss USA. Dark skinned black beauty. You are gorgeous. We salute you. Dark is beautiful. And you are proof, thanks for showing the world. Thank you to God and your parents for creating you.
this is for all the darkskin black girls who never get praised on social media. who don't fit the social media standards of beauty. who see everyone screaming about how they love black girls in all shades but yet see themselves and girls like them still getting no love. this is for the girls who are hurt seeing every other black girl getting hella notes and attention on here but are still wondering what's wrong with them or why they're not pretty enough.
your darkskin is beautiful. your hair is beautiful. your features are beautiful. don’t let social media standards of beauty get you down because that will kill you inside. you’re absolutely worthy and someone (if not more!) will realize that. 💕