If youre gonna ask someone, make sure its the person you want to go with. I honestly dont think you should even ask someone else if the person you originally wanted to go with cant go or says no… because then the youll kind of put “your backup date” through a bad and possibly boring night. Dont be a bit** about your “backup date”. You should of never asked if you were gonna put little to no effort at figuring how to get the proper paperwork in. The attitude is TOTALLY unnecessary!