ok this has been bothering me a lot so i’m gonna say it:
You are not entitled to someone else’s personal experiences, especially when they’re being harassed. Stim blogs aren’t some monolith or machine that you put requests into and get gifsets out of. We are actual human beings on the internet and we don’t owe you anything. If a blog says “don’t interact if [x]”, don’t fucking do it. It’s not that hard to respect someone’s boundaries.
We also don’t run our blogs for other users. Stim blogs are mostly personal blogs, so telling us you’re unfollowing for whatever reason or doing other rude things will just get you a block. If a blog trigger tags or caters to you, that’s great! They’re a great person! However, it doesn’t give you the right to harass a blog that doesn’t or can’t. They are not you, their blog is not your property. Sending manipulative messages in order to guilt users into doing something for you is not okay either. Prioritize yourself and follow blogs that can be accessible to you.
And lastly, we deal with life too! We get overwhelmed! Don’t send us messages telling us to be kinder during unwanted interactions, especially when you know the blogger is getting swamped with hate messages. It costs nothing to be nice and show other people kindness (or straight up leave them alone) when they’re clearly overwhelmed. PLEASE don’t purposely hurt someone just because you can. Nobody thinks it’s cute or “bratty”, and they definitely don’t think it’s endearing. It’s cruel and it just makes you look childish.