FRIENDLY REMINDER: You are allowed to feel proud of yourself for things that might seem silly to other people, like getting better at a video game or putting together a nice outfit for the next morning or finishing a book. You deserve to feel proud for your accomplishment.

All too often women believe it is a sign of commitment, an expression of love, to endure unkindness or cruelty, to forgive and forget. In actuality, when we love rightly we know that the healthy, loving response to cruelty and abuse is putting ourselves out of harm’s way.
—  bell hooks
No. Don’t message him back. Get off his page. You deserve so much better than this, I promise you that. Don’t put yourself in a position where he can hurt you a second time. You’ll be okay.
—  daily reminder to myself and to anyone who’s struggling with letting go, you deserve so much better. please don’t go back to him when you know he won’t hesitate to hurt you again.


The double hearts means that dave and john are both each other’s most snapchatted person but the grimace next to karkat means that dave is KARKAT’S most snapchatted person and I’m fucking laughing b/c dave and karkat fucking live together so you know karkat is sending snaps to dave from like the kitchen to the living room. from the other side of the couch. from the toilet. from the top of a shitty statue of liberty to the bottom 

meanwhile john is dave’s #1 snapchatted person because dave can’t stop blowing up his phone with pics of him and karkat on dates ADVENTURES…