my little sunshine who radiates love and warmth wherever he goes. i can always count on you to make me smile and to cheer me up. you have such a special light around you, you’re always so positive and happy and can’t help to make others feel the same way. since you came along i’ve felt myself having a better outlook on things. you’ve shown me that a lot of good things can come from just a smile. you bring me so much happiness just from being you.
The following is directed at those few who complained about Daehyun & HakEnt these past few months; especially on Daes birthday. Im just really fed up and need to say a few things & i know the majority of the baby fandom has no part in this.
Tbh i think alot of us appreciate daehyun alot more since this lawsuit started. I know i do. There were alot of times when i strayed or got bored here on tumblr since the same old posts crossed my dash everyday or only other groups showed up. This is by all means not baps fault since they are not at all obligated to keep us updated, post alot on their sns and share their life with us. I’d rather have them post something cause they want to and not cause they have to.
So here’s the thing: Daehyun did all that because he wanted to. He replied to fans on twitter, set up the fancafe, showed us his smile when he hung out with friends/family, let us know that he still trains with sharing his dance vids and song covers, kept us updated with pics & vids of the other members and decided to participate in HakEnts performances and letting us know about them so fans could go watch him while simultaneously giving us who couldnt attend new pics & vids through them. He has been nothing but being a sweetheart.
During all this i’ve seen nagative things cross my dash everytime daehyun did anything really (not from the people i follow but they shared comments they saw online). To some ‘fans’ he apparently cant do anything right. One time he posts too much trying to steal all the fans from the other members and demanding too much attention being all up in our faces, another time he does something that could harm them in the lawsuit, then he’s being too rude or mindless, does spend too much time with his friends and not enough with bap and in the end he is not smart enough to realize that he’s being “used” by his teacher.
Can you all do the rest of us babyz a favour and just take a step back and actually use your brains for once before you talk? it would be much appreciated. You cant complain about the others not posting enough and at the same time bad mouth daehyun when he does. He’s not trying to steal any of us away, he’s trying keep us around and reassured that they’re fine and still here. You accuse daehyun of being too mindless and hurting those around him by not thinking before he speaks and yet here you are doing the exact same thing. no, actually you’re being worse. What you’re doing is assuming things about stuff you have no insight in and thinking you’re entitled to have any say in their life and the choices they make.
Bap has been in the business for more than three years and know how it works and what they’re allowed to do and what not. They have lawyers they can consult if they’re not sure whether they can or cannot do or say certain things during this lawsuit. They know. They dont need you to tell them. And saying daehyun did things that could hurt them is ridiculous when yongguk and zelo released tracks that without a doubt fire shots at TS and their current situation far more clearly than anything daehyun did all this while. All other members can travel for several months and not spend time as ot6 and yet only daehyun gets scolded when he spends some well deserved time with his friends he hasnt seen in years. Can you all just stop with your double standard?!
Lastly, Daehyun isnt totally naive. He chose to participate in those performances. He knows that HakEnt and his friends who have the same dream as him get attention they wouldnt get otherwise through his attentance. Have you ever thought about that that may be his way of giving back? They showed nothing but support for him and bap and that this is his way of saying thank you by giving them some spotlight? I also heard that the live stream was actually planed to be for just HakEnt and they combined it with daes bday. You know what that means right? They gave up alot of their airtime to make it about daehyun and us babyz. Willingly. Of course the stream wouldnt have had as much viewers if daehyun hadnt been there, but they still changed it all to give him the most time. And yet some of you dont think its necessary to just think for a moment before you insult his friends and teacher he loves dearly.
And although it probably were only a few who spoke badly about this whole situation, congrats. You did it. We wont get any performances anymore till the lawsuit is over for however long that will be. And i wouldnt be surprised if daehyun doesnt post as much anymore since it wasnt the first time he had to apologize for absolutely nothing. I couldnt even blame him.
Do us all a favour and leave the fandom or sit down and shut up and give positive support to our boys instead of making them feel even worse and guilty for nothing in this already hard time.