d to the i to the l to the f

  • BPD: I want attention!! I want A t t e n t i o n!!!! gimme dat validation and love!!!
  • Also BPD: is what I would say if anyone loved you. i bet no one has even thought about you all day. Everyone is forgetting about you and no one needs you like you need them.
  • Still BPD: also pretending you don't have a fp isn't gonna make it stop hurting when you see they've gone a whole day without talking to you and are 100% fine.
  • BPD: GIVE ME LOVE AND ATTENTION I NEED ATTENTION OR I'LL S E L F D E S T R U C T
  • My Avpd: you can't ask for attention what will you do when everyone's worried about you that's manipulation™ you can't make everyone worried abt you you're problems aren't as bad as theirs you can't be the center of attention what if everyone is looking at you what if someone is depending on you to be the strong one Y O U C A N T T E L L A N Y O N E abt how bad you are rn just don't talk to anyone until someone notices something's off
  • BPD, showing up again 3.2 seconds after I start isolating: wow look no one is concerned guess they all hate you and everyone is actually just pretending to like you and-
  • Me: okay wtf it's been ten minutes clam urself me
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make me choose edits  draco malfoy or newt scamander?

requested by @chochanng, my amazing irl friend, and hope you like it, you hoe <3

D R A C O   M A L F O Y

“’y e a r s ago, i knew a boy who made all the wrong c h o i c e s.’ 

                                                                     ‘who was the boy, father?’

                                          ‘it was me.’” -b.x. // (via @euphcnicus)

BALANCING CHARACTER TRAITS

Conformist ☆ ☆ ☆ ☆ ☆ ☆ ☆ ☆☆ ★ Rebel 
Naive ★ ☆ ☆ ☆ ☆ ☆ ☆ ☆ ☆ ☆ Cynical
Compromising ☆ ☆ ☆ ☆ ☆ ☆ ☆ ★ ☆☆ Inflexible
Selfish ☆ ☆ ☆ ☆ ☆ ☆ ☆ ☆ ★ ☆ Self-sacrificing
Apathetic ☆ ☆ ☆ ☆ ☆ ☆ ☆ ☆ ☆ ★ Emotional
Fearful ☆ ☆ ☆ ☆ ☆ ☆ ☆ ☆ ☆ ★  Reckless
Childish ★ ☆☆☆☆☆ ☆ ☆ ☆☆ Humorless
Dependent ☆ ★ ☆ ☆☆☆ ☆ ☆ ☆ ☆ Loner
Passive ☆ ☆ ☆ ☆ ☆ ★  ☆ ☆ ☆ ☆ Aggressive 

tagged by: stole it from @k-nico-robin*yoink* (thanks mate!)

tagging: not sure who has done this but I’ll go with the basic spam tag list xD
@1chijirexu​ , @askthelongnosedsniper​ , @bcczeandgettinglcst​ , @chefalier​ , @douxpudding​ , @dcflamingc​ , @konekonami​ , @minister-of-candy​ / @candymusings@pilawforhire plus everyone else who wants to ! (and again to remind, it’s optional so no pressure! :>) 

mikamee  asked:

yesssss ask game!! cotton candy, strawberry, rocky road, butter pecan, birthday cake please i need some good recommendations! black raspberry!! black berry, neapolitan, blueberry lemon (i have never eaten any of these flavours besides strawberry...what even is rocky road??)

cotton candy: three places you want to travel to?

paris, buenos aires, seoul

strawberry:  a language you wish you could speak?

i guess korean would be handy but i’d also really love to learn italian

rocky road:  favorite songs at the moment?

location/khalid, you’re not good enough/blood orange, me and your mama/childish gambino, milk/f(x), easy love/sf9, company/tinashe

butter pecan:  favorite songs for life?

house of the rising sun/the animals, straight to hell & guns of brixton/the clash, piledriver waltz/alex turner, le temps de l’amour/francoise hardy, stronger than me & you know i’m no good/amy winehouse, cornerstone/arctic monkeys, atomic/blondie, save me/bts (i have a lot and this probably isnt even it lmao)

birthday cake:  favorite books?

oh jeez u asked the wrong person about books i am so bad at reading lmao my fave book of all time is the picture of dorian gray tho if u wanna get all dark and philosophical then it’s a good read. also i finished the bloody chamber not long ago and i enjoyed it a lot. all the books i read are a bit gory and depressing apparently lmao

black raspberry:  do you have any pets?

i have one dog and one cat, i used to have two cats but my favourite one went missing :((((

neapolitan:  things that stress you out?

god pretty much everything. but mostly money and studying

blackberry:  have you ever laughed so hard you cried?

plenty of times i am so easily amused and other people’s laughter just gets me going 

blueberry lemon:  favorite blogs?

obviously u mik ur my girl (pls reblog this tag so i can grill you for a change). also @girlsday (an angel) @bushbae (aesthetic royalty !!) @hanniesgf @liplove (god tier aesthetics and no 1 naruto stan) @4wallsfrnkremix (such a nice blog to scroll through) @jins-chin (fav fellow jin stan hello my love) this is a v quick list bcos i just love all of my mutuals?? 

nd rocky road is like a chocolate with biscuit and marshmallow!! it’s good you should try it

thank youuu  💖 pls send more guys!!

Tag !!!

Tagged! :3
Tagged by the cool and amazing @a-sad-and-lonely-traveler (thank you fren)

Copy this post into a new text post, remove my answers and put in yours, then tag up to 10 people plus the person who tagged you. 

Some of these are weird/ personal so you don’t have to do it or answer!
a- age: I am a smol bean

b - biggest fear: Fall back to stuff I had overcome

c - current time: 12:41 AM

d - drink you last had: Green tea 


e - every day starts with: Turning off my 666 alarms 

f - favorite song: Honestly I can’t decide, but I currently obsessed with Weak by AJR 

h - hometown: Mexico City 

i - in love with: Life 

j - jealous of: I can’t really think of anything/anyone 

k - killed someone: Infinity of times (mentally)

l - last time you cried: About, THE SEASON FINALE

m - middle name: Palacios (Palaces) 

n - number of siblings: One amazing big bro 

o - one wish: For things to get even better  

p - person you last called/texted: @a-sad-and-lonely-traveler 

q - questions you’re always asked: Why do you smile so much?

r - reasons to smile: You are alive! You are here! How awesome is that?

s - song last sang: Riptide by Vance Joy  

t - time you woke up: 7 am, yes I wake up early and I like it

u - underwear color: Black

v - vacation destination: (none)

w - worst habit: Laughing by my own just thinking about stuff  

x - x-rays you’ve had: LITERALLY EVERYTHING (I am very clumsy and have ended in the E.R but I haven’t broke any bones… yet) 

y - your favorite food: wow, that is hard I pretty much like everything (EXCEPT CELERY), but I LOVE TACOS  

z - zodiac sign: Aquarius

I tag: @pattie-mae @xxtigersharxx @aroace-whatshisface @totallynaf @sierrakai03 @the-fabulous-killjoy @the-grey-ellipse @the-annoying-and-the-useless @magikalman @bismyname @cthebooklover @average-everyday-sane-pyscho @no-fricklefrackling-inthe-impala @askngtobrngthpiercdchemicaldsco @bandomsworld @fandommernaid @charlotteroo12 (these are all cool people so yeah if you want to do this awesome also we should talk) (I talk with some of you) (I just want to make frens) (Okay… I am very awkward baiiii)

  ❛  …  and  all  the  kids  cried  out   —   PLEASE ..  stop  you’ re  scaring  me !    —   I  can’ t  help  this  awful  energy.  GODDAMN  right  you  should  be   s c a r e d   of  me … ❜     This  is  an  independent   &&   private   The  Joker  blog  inspired  by  dccu  and  dceu  movies.  LIKE  & /or  REBLOG this  post  if  you  want  to  interact  with  this  green  lunatic.

Tagged by the always wonderful kak @nonochuu

a - age: 20 something

b - biggest fear: being insignificant in this vast and always expanding universe… but also mostly ghosts

c - current time: 5:00 PM

d - drink you last had: water

e - every day starts with: morning prayer(yeaa)

f - favorite song: Princess of China - Coldplay feat. Rihanna

g - ghosts, are they real: what did i jUST SAY ABOUT MY FE A R 

h - hometown: jakarta

i - in love with: val

j - jealous of: every housecat

k - killed someone: my hopes and dreams

l - last time you cried: last feb, bombed an exam

n - number of siblings: 3

o - one wish: steady job and happy life

p - person you last called/texted: my landlord bcs im friendless

q - questions you’re always asked: wanna go to the cafeteria?

r - reasons to smile: idk but i heard that yuri on ice anime is pretty good

s - song last sang: Sharp Edges - Linkin Park, its surprisingly easy to singalong to

t - time you woke up: It’s ramadan, so like 2AM

u - underwear color: what?

v - vacation destination: i miss japan

w - worst habit: being lazy 

x - x-rays you’ve had: none

y - your favorite food: suuushi

z - zodiac sign: Cancer.

Tagging: @valpal-n  @haruno-will-of-fire @iamgoingtoregretthis2445 @faithseng @alwaysbejeweled

you guys dont have to do it if you dont want to 💖

anonymous asked:

What are the symptoms of ADHD besides hyperactivity? All I've been exposed to is stereotypes of what it's like to have ADHD and I want to learn more!

well here’s what it’s like for me

  • feeling like you need to Do Shit All The Time
  • like, literally every second
  • if you aren’t stimulated for even a second you’re incredibly bored
  • boredom is literally painful
  • it’s worse than death
  • worse than e v e r y t h i n g
  • feelin that sweet Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria™ any time you get teased or insulted
  • when you’re listening to music you always tune it out eventually
  • not picking up on social cues At All
  • actually, what are social cues?
  • can’t regulate attention
  • not interesting = not worth paying attention to
  • hyperfocus for hours
  • “wAIT ITS 4 PM WHAT THE F U C K”
  • did i forget to eat again
  • The Thoughts go from point a to point g in less than one (1) fuckin sentence
  • *someone says a thing* what *person repeats thing* what *person repeats thing again and you still don’t hear them but dont ask what again in case they think ur weird*
  • or, alternatively
  • *someone says a thing* what *person starts to repeat said thing; you reply less than a second after they start*
  • using subtitles all the time so you don’t have to go back twenty times to determine What The Fuck someone said
  • “sorry i tuned you out for that entire sentence can you repeat that”
  • needing e x t r e m e l y s p e c i f i c d i r e c t i o n s
  • EXTREMELY POOR VOLUME CONTROL TBH
  • tfw that thing u were working on falls apart and u cant redo it bc u already did it and that would be boring
  • long blocks of text are Extremely Hard to Read
  • ur fuckin brain works 12 times as fast as everyone elses. for every ADHD person it’s somethin different. for me it’s puns. ill choke on my own laughter at a pun an Entire Second before anyone else even gets it
  • RAMBLING
  • The Leg Bounce™
  • Disassociation
  • that ADHD feel when you
  • ^^ that one is a True Marker of an ADHD person. only ADHD people understand.

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A veces me gustaría que cada uno de nosotros dijéramos lo que tanto nos ha dado miedo decir, tal vez "Oye, realmente no me gusta cuando haces eso" o "Hey, yo realmente estoy enamorado de usted" o incluso, "Hola, yo te extraño y pienso en ti todo el tiempo" sin sonar desesperado. ¿Por qué todo el mundo no puede ser dolorosamente honesto?